How to get any MAN you WANT: the MASTER KEY

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Due to popular demand, this is the first episode in a three-part series on how women can get any man they want -- even if they are not exceptionally attractive. Men are not complicated. To secure a relationship with any man they have direct access to, women only need to do two things (and not do one thing). This episode is about the first thing, the Master Key. The secret to getting a relationship with a man is being useful. Women need to make men's lives easier and better in order to secure a commitment. The trick is to insinuate themselves so completely into the day-to-day operation of a man's life that it would next to impossible to extricate them from it.

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

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[royalveofficial]

As a woman, I experienced the exact opposite. The more I care and give, the less I am appreciated in the relationship

[PerfectInterview]

Many years ago I was running a business and dating a woman I liked but felt it wasn’t going anywhere. Then I ran into serious difficulties with the business. This woman stepped in, unasked, and helped me straighten things out, strictly on a volunteer basis. She provided not only emotional support but practical help and advice. After things got back on track I realized that yes, I was going to marry her.

[joannegild]

We don’t love those who help us. We love those we help.

[TC-mfcq]

Did the "Master Key" for 15 years. Cooked for him (and his brothers), wrote emails, did research, suggested reading to expand his mind, organised schedules, kept up with global politics to have something interesting to discuss with him, and he dropped me after receiving a legacy. I was an 8 - ended up a 5 by the time he finished with me. He's now looking for a Ukrainian bride. I've worked hard and bumped myself back to a 7. My advice to women: see to yourself!

[Pheonix]

My teacher did everything you said. Her husband went to law school, and she supported them and their son in every way possible including financially via her job. The moment he graduated and became a lawyer, he divorced her.

[marciebaker]

Well this applies only if you are not dealing with a narcissist. With them, you give and give til your so physically and emotionally exhausted. It will never be enough

[juliethlazo]

Some men will use you for your knowledge and capabilities. I helped build his business, his goals were mine, I did everything to get him where he is today. We’re not together anymore, he left me in debt, and he is out sleeping with other women.

[queenwarrior]

I suggest being useful could also translate as being loving and caring. Be his comfort place. His moon at night. His water when he's on fire. His solution when he needs it. His bed to rest. His motivational speaker when he feels down. His cheerleader.🎉🎉😊❤ When a woman loves you, she will do anything to make you happy. but you also have to show her you are worthy of her love. Unfortunately this is where most men fail.

[gaddaitherage]

I agree with the usefulness wholeheartedly. My ex gf is absolutely enviably gorgeous. A 9 out of 10. She makes a living being gorgeous. But she is always faulting me for not doing enough for her, which is absolutely false. She doesn’t engage w my friends or family (unless there is something to get out of them for her), and became an absolutely drag to be a round with. My current gf is equally good looking, but she not only helps around the house voluntarily and happily (because we are creating a home together), but she even helps me when we go out. Sometimes I’ll be in a social function and I will be busy talking w someone. She spots a person who looks bored or left out. She will actively engage with that person in conversation and will introduce that person to others to make them feel included. She is an absolute keeper.

[Zero_Zero_Zero_Zero]

We have now reached the place in western society where a licensed mental health professional has to explain to the average woman that in order to secure male commitment, she must actually* contribute something of value to the relationship.
I know it needs to be said, but dear God.

[babysab]

How I see it, as a relatively successful woman : you help yourself first, then help the man you are with. Not only you, not only him. I think it's fair

[janellesmith]

I did all of this. 100%. Got the lot. However. A man who hasn't been taught to express emotion because his parents were cold, will see the demise of his marriage when she feels unloved, unappreciated and unprotected. When a woman gives her all in this way, he has to cherish her like a prized possession. Not get so wrapped up in all they built to end up a workaholic. I love my husband, but with no input from his side he has completely drained me.

[jamesforstify]

This is spot on. As a well established man (I know, sounds arrogant), this seriously was the difference with the women I dated in the past and my now wife. Most chics were more of a pain in the ass than anything else. They were usually blinded by tons of feminist propaganda. My wife will literally do anything for me and makes my life easier. I could’ve gotten sex anywhere. But loving and caring about my goals and ambitions while a taking interest and helping me with them is why I put a ring on that finger. She’s amazing and irreplaceable. No other woman even comes close. As a result, I want to do everything for her too. It’s a wonderful dynamic that we have.

[TheMatchMaker_]

Ladies only do this for men who actually want commitment. If you desire marriage and he doesn’t, you’re not going to convince him by being useful to him. Other than, I concur with this message 100%.

[darkvalkyrie]

This video proves that it's better to stay single as a woman and work towards your own goals

[rosemarietolentino]

“Everyone is going to hurt you. You just need to find the one worth suffering for.”Bob Marley

[drweimerdc]

This is exactly what separated my wife from the masses. There is so much truth in this.

[KEKrato]

Great video, only potential addition is that once the relationship is secured, men, do not start taking this help for granted. Feeling taken for granted is one of the main causes of resentment for women once in a long-term relationship. As a woman, I genuinely believe women are happiest when helping, but being asked to do more when you're already stretched thin, or having the help you provide be dismissed by your man is incredibly disheartening. Men, take care of your woman so she can take care of everything else.

[Theprincessinyellow]

As much as I agree in theory that yes, women should be useful and add value in a relationship I am sure we have all seen on social media and have seen in person the abundant stories of women who have given their men EVERYTHING they have and been useful to the point of being burnt out but if that man didn’t want to marry her (because he didn’t see her as the prize that he has to lock down because other men want her too) it doesn’t matter how useful she is. He will take until she is bled dry and then go after the woman he wants who is his dream girl or marry her and resent her for not being the dream girl who HE wants to adore and feels the desire to provide for because he views HER on a pedestal. Top tier men don’t want a workhorse, they want a partner who is a prize.

[PalazzoMarti]

Mutual support in relationships is essential. A friend of mine devoted herself to supporting, loving, and helping her husband raise his children from a previous relationship, maintaining their life together flawlessly for 25 years. Sadly, he left her for a younger woman when she entered menopause and experienced intimacy-related pain. This betrayal shattered her, despite receiving significant divorce compensation. This story underscores the similarity in emotional needs between men and women. We must cultivate compassion, empathy, and understanding, rather than viewing relationships solely as transactions. Our society needs to prioritize love, care, and kindness over narcissism.