Do THIS to Get Him Hooked in the EARLY STAGES of Dating | Matthew Hussey

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[XochitlYm]

Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on. It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the fantasy.

[christikovach]

We’ve been married for 29 years and I’m still so crazy about my husband. Our two boys are 25 and 22 this year. Empty nesters has been AMAZING. We went on a date once a week for our entire marriage. We never stopped holding hands. This is what I saw my parents do. I cannot tell you how grateful I am for all your advice Matthew because I care so deeply about my marriage and relationship that your advice helps me focus on being the best partner I can be. Please please please always keep doing this. It is what the world needs …!!! Big love ❤️ from Dallas Texas !!!

[zahraabdulla_]

Summary:
1) Real date policy.
2) Buy the popcorn= Be a team player . Don't forget gestures.
3) Get excited about little things.
4) Be a grown-up and pick up the phone.
Extra tips : @15:35
1- Be wary of projecting your hopes and dreams into the person.
2- Do not give all of yourself immediately
3- Don't give more than they are
4- Don't make them a priority before they've done the same for you.
5- Do not reach out any time you're craving attention!

💜🙏Pray for me and my family

[ShahidKhan-kufm]

Superb video! I rarely suggest anything, but Women's Magic Truths on Borlest is worth it. This book has exceptional knowledge on manifestation. Best of luck to everyone!

[RealTalk-mqug]

ladies, gents, always forever, remember this:
if you treat someone as if they're a star,
they'll treat you as if you're a fan...

[EllieM_Travels]

I set standards with a guy I wanted to date and he ditched me for someone else. It hurt at first, but then I realized I’m much better off.

[Bubblies]

Takeaways I got from this: I’m burning up energy and putting others on a pedestal. I’m also not communicating my standards properly. Thank you for educating us!

[ItsMeNanaD]

Never thought I’d be watching a video like this in my 50s but here I am. It’s been 4 years since my husband passed & I might attempt to meet someone but after being married so long I have no idea how to play the game anymore, nor if I’m even interested. But I’m grateful for this channel & the honesty portrayed thru it. I know how to be married, I have no idea how to date.

[MigueTran]

Really, just be the best version of yourself.

[sharongahatraj]

So I have consistently done these doing all this here are a few Things I have learnt:
1. Never try and match energy. I'm me always authentic. Even if it's casual. Just sit and observe if their actions align with what I want and match my values at that point in your life. Nobody is worthy of you changing who you are.
2. I know my worth. I know I'm fun, vulnerable and a wonderful communicater.
3. I had this epihany today - Not everyone is at the same growth level as you. Some people (unfortunately) are stuck on unhealthy patterns and crave toxicity. This may be a reason why they do not appreciate your authenticity. Understand that your level of evolution is much higher and you may be too evolved for them. Appreciate and comprehend how far you have come in your journey and move forward. The more you date the more you have a chance of funding who finds someone who aligns with your values.
4. Don't make bad communicaters make you give up on dating. Notice your communication patterns and what is working for you. Be active to communicate and if they don't then please..move on.
4. appreciate you communication skills andb your willingness to grow everyday. Don't doubt your authentic self.

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[tigre]

And after 20yrs of being happily married. Show appreciation. Be his rock..Show physical displays of affection regularly, doesn't have to be sexual. It shows adoration, comfort and security. And donate to the compliment jar at least once a day.

[swetha]

1) Real date policy.
2) Buy the popcorn . Be a teamplayer . Don't forget gestures.
3)Get excited about little things.
4) Be a grown up and pickup the phone.

[sandramolano]

This "educate him" thing....take my advice: it's going to be a lot easier and you are going to save time, money and frustration, if they are already educated when you meet them. I'm serious about it. e.g. If you want to have a good experience you go to a good restaurant, instead of going to a shitty place and try to convince the owner to improve the place...simple and effective

[trenchrock]

Imma just show up as my sweet self, crack open my heart like a giant shimmering geode of wonderful that I am and if he doesn't like me for the kind hearted, supportive person (with boundaries) that I am, then it's kinda his loss. Eventually the right guy will come around that will treasure me and then I'll give all my love to him, the right person.... instead of wasting it on someone who tries to turn me into someone else💗

[lynnita]

Wise, wise, wise advice. I've successfully used some of the texts and I return to these videos for review when I'm dating. Communicate your standards with confidence to create the bliss point attraction. Mirror their energy. Don't make them a priority or give them boyfriend status before they have earned that right. Don not reach out anytime you're craving attention. Thanks Matthew & Team!

[LisaGemini]

Yes, you cannot play hard to get. Show him you are interested in getting to know him. Tell him you appreciate him, ask for his advice, be curious and listen well when he shares something big with you. Be a giver, not just a taker.

[ingridseade]

Wow, Matthew. Your videos are amazing. I love that you don’t beat around the bush. You get straight to the point. I really appreciate all your comments and advice. Thank you for your help. I’m a 79 year old widow who just joined a dating site. I’ve already met a very nice guy online. Your advice is very important to me.

[maryryan]

You have really helped me Matthew. I have been really struggling in the dating process after coming out of a 7 year relationship with a toxic man. I grew up watching toxicity within my parents marriage. It has been hard to break the cycle in my own life and even harder to walk away from someone I want because I know they don’t meet my standards but your videos help me get out of my head and focus on what is truly important and that loving ourselves the most. Thank you for your content!

[cassidyking]

I cannot get enough of your videos! I'm in the early dating stages with a guy who I've known since we were younger so it's not as awkward or anything but this video helped me soooo much and I really feel like we're both into each other the same amount and could have something great! I cannot express enough how helpful your videos have been so thank you so much! Please never stop posting! 😊

[damagedparts]

Matthew you're amazing 😭 I'm so glad I found your channel. On the last segment where you talk about the 5 things you should do to manage your energy I literally sobbed because these are all the things I've been doing wrong for years now. Each one. I give way too much of myself.. And this whole time I've been wondering why I always end up being in one sided relationships (friendships and intimate) and now I know why. It's emotionally draining and after a while it can really break your spirit. These are all things I really needed guidance with so thank you so much for making this 😭 I'm going to really try and implement your wisdom.