How Men Fall In Love - Psychology of the Male Brain in Love

How Men Fall In Love - Psychology of the Male Brain in Love
Relationship Advice for Women

Falling in love is a complex and multi-faceted experience that varies from person to person. However, researchers and psychologists have proposed theories to understand the stages of love, which often include lust, attraction, and attachment. These stages can help explain the progression of romantic feelings and behaviors between men and women.

In today's video, I will go over these stages and specifically focus on how men fall in love and the psychology of a man's brain when he develops genuine feelings for you.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Starting
00:42 Stages of Falling in Love
03:35 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
04:17 How Men Fall in Love
05:16 Does Se-x Make Man Fall in Love
07:57 Closing

01. Lust
Lust is the initial stage of romantic attraction and is primarily driven by sexual desire. It involves intense physical attraction and is often characterized by fantasies and a strong desire for sexual intimacy. Lust is influenced mainly by hormones and physical attraction rather than emotional connection or compatibility. Many men actually confuse this with a genuine relationship with a woman, and once the initial infatuation fades out, they move on to find new partners.

02. Attraction
The attraction stage occurs when individuals develop a strong emotional and psychological connection with someone. It involves infatuation, heightened interest, and a desire to spend time with the person of interest. During this stage, people experience euphoria, increased energy, and a sense of excitement when they are around their romantic partners.

03. Romantic Attraction
This is the phase where people experience intense feelings of romantic love, often accompanied by the idealization of the partner. There is a focus on getting to know each other better, engaging in shared activities, and experiencing the thrill of new love.

04. Cognitive Attraction
At this stage, individuals become preoccupied with their partners and tend to think about them constantly. They may overlook their partner's flaws or have an idealized perception of the relationship.

05. Emotional Attraction
Emotional Attraction involves the development of strong emotional bonds and deepening feelings of love and affection. There is a growing sense of intimacy and emotional connection, which goes beyond the initial physical attraction.

06. Attachment
The Attachment stage represents the long-term commitment and emotional bond between partners. It is characterized by a deep sense of security, trust, and a willingness to support and care for each other. Attachment is based on emotional intimacy and involves a feeling of stability and comfort in the relationship.

07. Secure Attachment
This is a healthy attachment characterized by trust, open communication, and a balanced sense of independence and togetherness. Individuals feel confident in their relationship and can rely on their partner for support.

08. Anxious Attachment
People with anxious attachment styles may experience fear of rejection or abandonment and exhibit clingy or needy behavior in relationships. They may have difficulty trusting their partner's love and require constant reassurance.

09. Avoidant Attachment
Individuals with avoidant attachment styles may have intimacy, commitment, and vulnerability difficulties. They may prioritize independence and have difficulty fully opening up and expressing their emotions.

It is important to note that these stages are not necessarily linear and can overlap or occur simultaneously. Additionally, each individual and relationship may progress through these stages at different speeds or experience them differently.

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[SaveTheMessenger]

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[zanna]

My husband & I were love at first sight. His idea to make us wait (4 months!) to have sex b/c he wanted us to mean more to eachother. That made our first time sooo special. And here we are 23yrs later still honeymooning. 💞

[NorahsYarnArt]

My mom and my grandma told me men love their wives whom they had build houses for. I remember reading letters between Samih Algaasim and Mahmoud Darwish, two famous Arab poets, one wrote to the other “….we don’t love those who help us; we love those we help.” I’m not an expert am still looking for answers but it seems to me that we in general love what we invest in and invest in what we love.

[ne]

I always tell my female friends that men falling in love takes time because they fall in love when they make memories with you, spend time with you etc. and this video proves that right

[rajunagwanshi]

It’s quite shocking how few people know about the book Women's Magic Truths on Borlest.

[Imp-ijnu]

Stages 3
1) lust
2) attraction
3) attachment

Never make man chase you
A secure man never chase

2) how men fall in love
Build strong emotional connection

It took time to develope genuine love

[bigbanktai]

You are so right especially on the chasing part. Men who chase you never know how to keep you. The man I currently like right now and who likes/loves me back .. went after me ...but he never chased. And if he did feel like I was playing games he fell back and waited for me. A man who is interested/serious won't chase. He will express his interest and wants of you but won't compete nor chase after you.and that's the key. You don't won't a chaser ladies they are temporary

[KaylaNoelle]

He got to the attachment stage SUPER fast and I think it was because there was a lot of non-sexual physical contact which was giving him oxytocin. I’m very cautious about letting myself get attached so I was a bit anxious about it but he was so patient with me and now I feel safe to let myself fall for him completely. He was just so sure about me so early on. The first night we spent together we didn’t have sex but he fell asleep holding my hand as if I was going to get away if he didn’t! 😂

[uberbabe]

A healthy man loves one woman, he knows she is not perfect, but loves her because she puts effort and makes him feel wanted and needed. An unhealthy man does not love.

[viviennedunbar]

I didn’t attempt to “make men chase me” I just needed convincing that they were worth my while and wanted more than just a fling which I was never interested in. A few men chased me and asked me to marry them, but my husband was besotted with me and 27 years later he is still crazy about me. I love him very much and we are deeply attached but often he still seems to be in the lust stage 😂😂! He still tells me every day how beautiful I am and I appreciate everything he does so much. He is a great husband and father.

[gluckskeks]

Love is like a whisper in the wind which cannot be heard or seen with our eyes. It can only be recognized by two people who are ancient enough to take the courage to open up for each other and who constantly invest in each other. Love is like a tree. It only gets deeper and better the longer the journey takes.

[TG-nhni]

That's why it takes years to see if the person is for you or not...def agree on not sleeping with someone too quickly

[alchemicalsoul]

When you level up on the spiritual path, you learn the wisdom of love. It's a force that exists like gravity and it starts within. If you have a healthy connection to yourself, you are only able to truly connect with others who share love for themselves. That includes family or friends, or romantic partners. We share the love of self (essentially the Divine) with others. Everything else is just attachment. When we are able to detach from connections and reconnect with self, we know love in its purest form.

[channel]

@6:31 If a man admits to me that he lost interest immediately after sex with some past woman, I immediately view him as low value. He's immediately and totally off the table for me in any sexual or romantic regard.

[Minyadagniriel]

been with my guy 21.5 years :) dated for 1, engaged for 5, married 16, 1 kiddo :) happy life.

[BarbaraMarieLouise]

Yes, that’s totally accurate!
In reality it’s women who fall in love with a man they sleep with. Men normally don’t fall in love with a woman they sleep too early!
To be honest: it’s much more interesting not to sleep together immediately. It makes little things much more thrilling and you get to know each other much better and like this you also learn to talk about what you like much better.
And: what I realized as well: when a man loves a woman deeply he can even have an emotional orgasm like we woman have when we love someone totally and give us fully!
So it helps to increase intimacy on all levels, intellectually, emotionally and also physically.

[zelik]

Just let love happen plz people! Stop trying to control or manifest or whatsoever!!! LOVE just happens or it doesn’t! Period! Thank You

[serena]

Even if english is not my mother tongue (because i'm italian), it's the First time i can understand EVERYTHING without even subtitles. You have this power

[UnsuspectingCommenterPassingBy]

I don’t know, this doesn’t sound like falling in love at all. If anything, I think anyone who still feels the urge to be with other people while in a relationship, is someone who isn’t or has probably never fallen in love.

When it happens, you seriously just want that person (not that you can’t see others as attractive, you’re just not tempted by them) and don’t even think about risk losing them for something that you’re already getting from them. It’s waaaay deeper than chemistry, and honestly, more about them than it is about you. And it also doesn’t feel like you’re suppressing yourself or losing your freedom, because you could be with anyone else, but it still feels right to just be with them.

Or at least that’s what I came to discover after years of relationships based on lust and infatuation. I thought that was love because I had never experienced it, but this year it finally happened and it’s unlike anything I’ve felt before.

[ciggytwiggy]

My bf is the kind who won't be intimate with someone until he is in love. ❤