THERE'S NARCISSISM, THEN THERE'S MALIGNANT NARCISSISM

Does it seem that the narcissist in your life can be quite exaggerated in the need to dominate and invalidate you? Psychotherapist Dr. Les Carter explains how malignant narcissism works, and especially how you can spot it and stay out of the clutches of the one whose need for control goes into overdrive.

Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who lives in Dallas, Tx. In the past 39 years he has conducted over 60,000 counseling sessions and many workshops and seminars.

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[gruvnz]

"They don't develope friendships, they develope assets." how true.

[realhealing]

No contact is the only way to survive a toxic relationship with a malignant narcissist. Save yourself!

[RachelZamstein]

They think they’re above the law... that the rules don’t apply to them. They straight up have contempt for all other people.

[sharonjohnson]

My malignant narcissist mother has died.
My blood pressure is down to normal again and that was WITH no contact.
I feel so lucky that it's over.

[nancygreydee]

My narcissistic ex husband is so delusional.Its his way or no way. The sun rises and sets only for him.
I learned the hard way you cannot reason with insanity

[extrasmalldoll]

"They don't develop friendships, they develop assets." OMG exactly true.

[pedrotorres]

So in other words there are monsters out here disguised as Human beings. Thank you for the video..

[m.f.richardson]

Right On, Brother.
They don't change.
They get worse, WORSE
NO CONTACT

[JohnSmith-jixt]

Yep, they think completely different. When you realize that, you realize how abused you have been.

[Lucy-jzsg]

They are predictable when we’re educated, which is the opposite to unique,

[chinookvalley]

This video gives me chills. Gruesomely true. "Develop a healthy fear of these people". That says it all. Thanks Dr Carter.

[history]

They don't care if you believe them, as long as you act like you do.

[twopurringcats]

My mother, perfectly described. I love being "No contact". She has had it out for me my entire life, consumed by jealousy, obsession with dominance and control, addiction to rage. I stood my ground all my life. With maturity and therapy I learned not to engage when she ran her mouth. She attacked me for not fighting back. If I did respond it was calm, using only facts and repeating myself until she got sick of it and gave up. I used lots of coping tactics, taught from reading books on abuse, to have any relationship at all with her yet she despised me for having knowledge and refusing to be dominated. Malignant narcs are the worst. Pure poison to self esteem.

[christopherswainson]

We live in the Age of Narcissism, with the money system encouraging narcissistic behavior, and money system is run by Psychopaths. Thank you for the helpful video.

[midnighttraintogeorgia]

Your video's save what little sanity I have left.. 😔😔

[Gjt-jr]

This is so spot-on, that I’m amazed this isn’t the exact person that’s turned my life upside down. I so wish I knew about this earlier. This person has caused more damage to my heart, reputation, and finances none of which I ever came close to deserving. I was naive and got crushed. This doctor is giving you a real warning. These people really do live among us.
Be awake and aware. This is real; the proverbial “ wolf in sheep’s clothing” comes to mind.

[MiriamMonroe]

You come to a point where you have zero tolerance for any kind of narcissistic behavior and life becomes so much easier then.

[kimberlysmith]

When People become and stay malignant Narcissist it's usually because they have had little or NO Consequences for bad behaviour. It's so sad. They end up being completely isolated emotionally and alone at end of their lives

[electricjellyfish]

They don't develop friendships.
They develop assets.

Very true.

[kimberlyadams]

I've been making fun of American Sociopathic Television for years, and it's nice to hear someone else address it. We need to choose our heroes a little better.