Narcissistic parents will hold their kids back and be jealous of them

Narcissistic parents will hold their kids back and be jealous of them

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware #narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( #NPD ) and I’ve been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the #Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

[doj]

Jealous on your own kids or any kids... Wow, many people should not reproduce.

[MarieCherryPie]

My narc "mother" is only happy if my life is falling apart.

[ChristineGalloway]

That's my mother. She did everything she could to sabotage me. She didn't want me doing better than her .
She forced me into a sport, I didn't want to be in, and kept me out one I excelled in. Pushed into school subjects she knew I would fail, so then she could be disappointed and look down on me. Diabolical....

[erniechipdouglas]

My mother is a narc any time I'm happy or I get something she's never happy for me

[lucillekluivert]

THATS MY MOTHER 82 YEARS OLD AND STILL IN COMPETITION 🤣🤣🤣NARCS HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THEMSELVES AND YOU CANNOT TRUST THEM

[sprincess]

They're beyond mentally ill and pathological. My narc dad saw me as competition and rival and either couldn't stand me pursuing what I really wanted to do or he'll copy EVERYTHING I do to try and gain the validation I get from other people because he couldn't stand not getting the attention. Yet he would constantly tell me and my brother he wanted us 'to do better' than he did, yet when I tried to just improve my life and do just that he would do whatever was necessary to hinder me. Beyond vile and disturbed.

[lovelydeath]

As a child of a narcissistic parent, I can confirm. My mother would try to compete with me and my sisters for everything. Even when it came to boys. It was super weird and after a while, I would just stop bringing anything up in front of her but that wasn't the move either because she'd just go through my stuff to start a fight later.

[Ombudsman-jgmn]

Sometimes, they will even try and sleep with their children's boyfriend/girlfriends or husband/wife just to try and prove they are better than their children. It's total hell having a relationship with narcissistic parents.

[Oneilblueraystarseedgnosis]

It’s very unfortunate that both my parents and siblings are just that

[annaburns]

This is exactly it. Not only do they make you hate getting compliments, but they hold you back and you can’t even make them happy. Nothing you do is good enough for them and it makes you so depressed and then they ask you why are you depressed? If you would just try harder life wouldn’t be so bad. But you have tried so hard in your life that you don don’t know how you are even alive and have exhausted yourself. And you are somehow still dependent on them because you never reached your full potential. Then they have the nerve to say, well I won’t be around forever. Like you need them more than they need you. 😡

[Dee_]

I was always treated differently from my siblings and the oldest out of 5. My aunt told me why years ago but I didn't want to grasp the fact that my own mother would be jealous of me. Sadly she always accused me of being jealous of my siblings because i would simply asked why I was treated differently.

[rubycubez]

This is interesting. I've had low self esteem since I was young. One day, I randomly told my mom I can have anyone I want. I don't know where this confidence came from. I must have been feeling good that day. I will never forget the look of disgust on her face. Now I understand why my self esteem was always so low.

[Mzjihan]

Wow… you explained that well… I been recking my brain trying to figure out my dad and step mom issue with me was. Parents being jealous of their child is sick but is too common these days.

[Rebecca]

When I was young I looked like my mother when she was young. I was recognized as the “pretty” daughter. A high price to pay for that compliment was she ritually shamed me verbally & physically (it was so often, it feels like it happened everyday) . She’d hold me down on the floor with her whole body on top forcing me to be still while she picked at my complexion or pulled out eyebrows or inspected my hair, ears, whatever. It was painful & shaming af & it was the hardest thing to tell my therapist after years of working with her.

[TexasDymond]

This is the absolute truth. My narcissistic father has kept me from so many opportunities.

[debbiehowes]

Both parents were narcissists. I remember when my 4th grade teacher asked me what my favorite color was. I panicked & felt like an alien. Was I allowed to have a favorite color? I didn't know. Forget about actually having anything, doing enough or loved by anyone. Sad 😔 very sad.

[dragynally]

It’s literal Snow White syndrome. The original evil Queen was Snow White’s biological mom.

[sheraalanaRev]

My mother used to say you're rotten to the core, my father used to say what the hell is wrong with you why can't you do anything right, all day and every day. To this day I'm incredibly insecure.

[theonecounttheonecount]

It is absolutely true. I got to do what I wanted when I left home. I excelled.

[bestlifeever]

My mom always is in competition with me and always enjoy seeing me struggle or have tough time like enjoying watching marriage fail. Having kids it blows my mind and can't comprehend it and want mine to do better. Never will be good enough and have other family like that who still holds me to things I did at 13 and judge me as that person/age insane. Then married a narcissist and finally in 30s healed myself and got over everything as child and in that marriage. Now look at past as just unthinkable and see what normal relationships are.