INFJ Life Coach | HOW TO PUT YOURSELF FIRST (Without Feeling Guilty)

Aug 7th, 6pm CET, 12pm EST, 9am PST

Today we're gonna talk about the question, how to put yourself first without feeling guilty because let's face it, so often we think I want to achieve these great things.I have so much potential in me, but I would actually be abandoning people if I did and that would make me feel so guilty. I would experience joy and just the fact that I'm experiencing joy will make other people suffer. So what do we do? We dim our light, we stay small and we just hope that through that, we will keep our connections to people. We’ll stay in an environment where we’re only being tolerated and accepted. There seems to be no way out because our mind, our body, our emotions keep telling us: If we take a new route, if we start standing up for ourselves, we will be abandoned by others.

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[Wenzes]

In what situations is it particularly hard for you to put yourself first?

[autumn.redhawke]

Every single time I try to put myself first or my needs first, somebody calls me selfish, self-centered, or accuses me of abandoning them. I have to do this. 40 years... Its hard.

[PS-xbhc]

As an INFJ I chose me for the first time. People cannot cheer you on. You have to cheer yourself at all times. Focus on you. As INFJ's we give a lot to the world and receive nothing in return. So time to stop! And love yourself unconditionally! People will get upset but it's their problem! Tough love!🤘🔥

[dwsvlogs]

Thanks for teaching about gas lighting, hitting other people like they hit you I learned a lot. I always tell people I'll be your cruch but I won't be your wheel chair.

[saxongreen]

How did you know that I needed this right now? 😨 This is nigh on _perfect!_

[valentinahajas_]

for me putting others first looks like that when I don't want to do something it doesn't even crosses my mind that I can say "I want to do this differently so that I enjoy it". Instead I just silently suffer until I speak up to someone I am close with, and they say something that then makes me feel that I am allowed to put myself first. I just want to be able to leave out the suffering part and just allow myself to speak up in a situation

[bolang]

Yes! INFJs need to look out for ourselves first. Boundaries are the key to INFJ happiness. Imitate and channel strong Fi people and it will become easier.

[mojomanrosie]

This video is absolute fire!! I actually stopped and cried! I've been telling myself this on the inside after a bad divorce but couldn't frame it into words but she did it beautifully!! I'm trying to make this my mantra! I have a big heart but I've been giving it away all my life to easily without taking care of me..with any luck no more.

[HeavenlySunset]

I am gradually becoming more confident, for the first time in my life, there are times when I put myself first and even though there is a slight guilt that tries to slip in, I reason with myself why I did it and the guilt goes away. I can't wait until I reach the point where no guilt is present.

[deannaaston]

I have to learn how to do this. I am a codependent and have put everything and everyone in front of me to my own determent. Now I have to let go of trying to bring my son up, taking care of him and exhausting myself trying to put out his fire's. He's almost 30 years old, but he's my son. It hurts so much 😢

[KYMEBeauty]

I love and appreciate how you didn’t sugarcoat anything!! I took notes from this video❤️ thank you so much! I needed to hear this

[dr.akanksha.]

Why being infj feels like being a stupid person who don't even know her self worth!
Aahhhh being human sucks!

[berkaytugrel]

Who elses feel like they becoming an alpha wolf? (in a great way :) )

[jamiewilliams]

Sometimes being selfish is good for your well being as you must never lose your self identity

[nothingto]

I don’t know why I can't live for my self.

[kimtopology]

They're needs to be balanced you help your loved ones even for a short time I truly believe that they will feel better and feel happy the rest of your time you focus on your human develop. Balance is needed .

[patgreene]

I just found this, thank you thank you so true.

[Mindywright]

Bless you so much for this. I needed it! 💞

[shabz]

I’m 13 and I want to fix up I’m scared I’ll admit it so I want to DO IT! I’m not letting a stoopid person let me down and unmotivated

[josesantacruz]

Listening to this everyday so I actually change this