INFJ, THIS IS HOW YOU GET PEOPLE TO RESPECT YOU | Stand On Business

INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Discover how INFJs can navigate challenging situations in both work and personal life. Learn how to assert boundaries and stand your ground when faced with difficult individuals. Find out practical strategies to address ongoing issues and restore peace within yourself and your surroundings. Embrace your INFJ traits to effectively handle conflicts and maintain a sense of balance in all aspects of life. Stand firm, INFJs - you've got this!

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[Wenzes]

How do you deal with people who you can‘t/don‘t want to escape and still want to create a harmonious environment as an INFJ?

[braxtonmills]

I don't know about y'all but I'm very proud of Wenzes. I love her authenticity and growth. It's Good.

[prschuster]

I must remind myself; I'm not the reason they suffer.

[staciehaneline]

I struggle so much with this. It's important to me to maintain a certain level of humility, but when people realize that I'm actually confident and comfortable with who I am they do get triggered. Then they try to trigger me and when it doesn't work it pisses them off even more.

[wendydaniel]

"My alone feels so good. I'll have you only if you're sweeter than my solitude " ❤

[R.S-]

As you grow smarter, the amount of bs you can tolerate gets equally lower 😅.

[geetu]

As you quite rightly pointed out I used to make myself small and it just got worse. After 45+ years (it took a while and a lot of punches) I noticed that it’s no longer an issue since I stand firm and sometimes I don’t even have to say anything, the look of disgust says it all and people literal have shaken in their boots 😂

[leilanoorani]

Yes, my family patterns - i inadvertently “make them (feel) wrong”. So I tried to win them over, was caring and helpful, despite their jealousy, competitiveness, scapegoating. I did blame myself. But then I woke up, actively pushing against back, but that too did not end well. They doubled down, smearing me to every family member. After years of exhausting abuse, including discovering their stealing from me (the latest), and a lot of deep introspection on my part, it looks like I’m about to enter in a lawsuit against them. This is a real challenge to my INFJ lower functions (my Si in particular).

[Sallie_O]

I’m finding it ever more difficult to earn a living as a self employed person - being a genuine and peaceful human.
The fact that we have so much warmth and understanding to offer is disturbing.

[yvettepatterson]

“We tap into something that is universal truth.” Amen, we sure do. We pay the price for calling it out but that is our job, we raise consciousness. Great observation Wenzes.

[SG-xwjs]

People think I think so highly of myself..I am so arrogant and rude.. That's why I don't interact with them... But the truth is I can't interact with each and everyone even if I want to... So they show me attitude unnecessarily and avoid me at all cost...

[Joohee]

I can’t tell you how many jobs I’ve had that I’ve left because I’ve been unethically competed against. It’s exhausting.

[mrstanton]

We stay in our own lane... Having boundaries and discernment is a must. 💯

[PenelopePitstop]

“….really getting on your last nerve.” I say this often.😁But, generally, the STARE can often neutralize that, and I then just ignore that individual.

[ls-a-flzi]

I really needed to hear this today. I had to stay home today because of the mental stress of dealing with a micromanaging boss who is trying harder to control me daily the more she realizes that I cant be controlled. My hope is to respectfully share tomorrow that it needs to stop, or I will need to resign for my mental safety. I already have a plan in place if I need to take a break from working for a month or two to figure out what type of job is feasible for me to be in as me. Thank you for this video.

[jasonkrick]

Respect yourself, treat others with respect. ‘If’ the other person has similar respect beliefs. Then respect happens. If it doesn’t. Be polite and know that you tried and do your best to not be sucked into their world of negativity and destructiveness.

See how simple my solutions are.

Btw. It works everything time. Every. Time.

[SupaMac]

I love how its so easy to crush others & not even use our full power

[galespressos]

Right, I do see it as a weakness and do not respect others when others disrespect me, want me to be less, and try to cut down. Have always been that way though was fortunate as it rarely happened, but suddenly got deluged. Surprised people respect that kind of cutting down others to be higher attitude. Nice talk today from Wenzes. 🙏 😊

[larryb]

Great message
Im really struggling with exactly this, with my parents atm
I really dont know how to deal with them, i trigger them constantly. They have never understood me

[martindavid]

I expected 'money stuff' just by the title, but.. you're able to explain such important thing so clearly. Hit the spot, thank you so much. You look amazing, it seems like it's underlining importance of this message.