WHY THE INFJ INTIMIDATES OTHERS (& HOW TO HARNESS IT)

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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Discover how the INFJ personality type can inadvertently intimidate others, and learn how to embrace this unique characteristic. INFJs are known for their deep empathy, strong intuition, and unwavering commitment to their values. While some may seek to be feared for a sense of power, INFJs simply yearn to be understood and appreciated for who they are. This desire for genuine connection often comes with a level of authenticity and intensity that can be overwhelming for others. Unfortunately, our authenticity can often trigger feelings of intimidation in those around us. This is not due to any intentional effort to intimidate but rather a reflection of our deep, introspective nature. Embrace your true self, with all its complexities, and watch as others react in unexpected ways. By understanding and harnessing the power of our unique traits, we can foster deeper, more meaningful

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[Wenzes]

What have the reactions been when you have tried to speak and live out your truth as an INFJ?

[IndigoChild]

I never knew how triggering we are until a covert narcissist tried to love scam me and proceeded to attack me with witchcraft when I refused to play their silly game. I’m glad I’m an INFJ because now this person is very confused and intimidated by me. People find out how truly powerful we are when they try to back us into a corner. Brilliant video. ❤

[deborahwolff]

People are imtimidated when you're your authentic self

[ycxpxmk]

I’ve been told my entire life I’m intimidating for various reasons…I see through people. I call it like it is with no filter, especially if I care. I do rather than sit around and discuss 15!different ways to get it done. Can’t isn’t an option. In my 20’s I dumbed myself down. 30’s I began embracing myself. In my 40’s I’m full blown me. People can love me or hate but I’m going to be me. Some hate me at first, then respect me later.

[DonTrump-svsi]

With great power comes great responsibility. We are given this power because its known we wont abuse it

[orlyb]

I know I’m powerful as an INFJ, but it’s so lonely since not many people can match my energy.

[stephenbesley]

People have long said I look intimidating when I consider myself a kitten, truthfully.

[jclay]

9:40 “If we trigger people enough, people will generally stay away from you.” That had me rolling!! 😂 I love and hate people at the same time. Thank you for this video. I’m in therapy right now. I’m working on being authentic. I have struggled with not wanting to hurt peoples feelings verses telling them the truth. I was raised to be a people pleaser too, so my wants and needs were always being sacrificed. When I started to set boundaries and speak the truth, I was attacked both physically (by one sister) and harassed by two of my other sisters. My parents took the side of the physically abusive sister when I pieced together a family secret that my parents wanted buried. I’ve already been abandoned by my nuclear family. I don’t hesitate now to speak up from the beginning of friendships and relationships. I have strong healthy boundaries that are better for my mental health. I protect my mental health and my daughter’s mental health at all costs.

[Just_David]

Let’s be real INFJ’s. Let's be real and take off the mask! Let our light shine. People will respect us for standing up for what we truly believe in.

If we’re honest, we don’t want to live a fake life, even though we don't want to walk all over others. People may still get offended no matter how respectful we are. But one thing is for sure, we don't want to disrespect ourselves.

We need to build up the courage to be disliked because there will always going to be someone who will dislike us. This is not our problem but rather people projecting their own insecurities. The most inspirational people in history were all disliked by some. We should refuse to live under their shadow and be our true authentic self. Now that’s true freedom!🌠

[rawwar]

It’s like walking on eggshells with most people once they realize they can’t ‘handle’ you…

[burner]

Trigger is my middle name :) Some people? Most people are running for the hills when I speak my truth. I was told I appear rigid and unthoughtful of other people's feelings, when actually I tell it like I see it and, most importantly, I do this only when asked to. Cheers!

[lindsaycarlson]

When you act weak when you are strong, people wonder why you are acting weak. They think "If this person is acting weak when they are strong, they must think that we're weak, and want to match our energy." And it triggers them. When we act strong, it shows them that we think that they are strong too.

[fishinthesea]

People don't like having a mirror held up to their faces, they hate it when they realize you know. That you have them figured out. It always ends badly.

[the_alizerah]

Wenzes saying, "The transition period will be hard for sure..." felt so reassuring

[roberttrough]

I don’t want to stop intimidating others. If I trigger people that’s their problem. Those that are triggered or intimidated I don’t want in my life anyway. They’re usually evil. I could tell you a life time of people that were lying or evil to the core. I love people or feel people that are just wrong. Thanks Wenzes. 😊

[depleteduraniumcowboy]

I am an old INXX this resonates with how I have learned to live my INFJ life. Trigger 'em all. People immediately like me and I have a friend for life or bullies hate me and we're going to war. Wholesome way to live, IMHO.

[SandeepSinghArtist]

That's very true Wenzes. We being ourselves does trigger people, especially toxic people. Energy vampires. They want us to play a role as if we're in a movie and not as our true authentic self. My true self had been suppressed under layers of childhood trauma which broke through now and my inner child is healing. I'm still suffering Narcissistic abuse at the hands of my mother and I plan to leave.

This is a great video, which explains a lot. Never allow people into your space who are not good for your mental health.
I'm being more of myself day by day, thanks Wenzes. Sending my hugs to you 🤗.

[freyjaravenclaw]

People are always intimidated by me. I quit caring about that years ago. If anyone is worried about losing friends because you chose to be yourself then they weren't really your friends to begin with. You will meet very interesting individuals that you otherwise wouldn't and get used to saying I told you so cuz it never gets old

[jjjjk]

This is the best video you have ever done. I have decided I am done with people who try to cause others to be afraid. Living in fear is not me, and I’m not going to let anyone affect me that way! If they try, they’re out of my life.

[mkprojects]

This video aligns with how I've been acting and reacting lately. I said to no one in particular the other day, "ha, I'm taking up space". Thank God I'm getting there and thank you Wenzes for your videos!