The BEST No Contact Advice No One Tells You

Welcome to a transformative journey where we delve into the power of ‘No Contact’. In this video, we uncover the unspoken truths and effective strategies that can make all the difference during a period of no contact. Whether you’re healing from a breakup, seeking personal growth, or simply need space from a situation, our insights will guide you through this challenging yet rewarding time.

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[jennifers.]

I went into contact without knowing that it was a thing, before watching break up videos on YouTube. The last thing I said to my ex was Well if you’re willing to let me go, that’s everything I need to know. There’s no going back after that. I have too much self respect. It does suck though. 💔

[daviddavidson]

I went no contact because I realised that I was still fixing her problems. I was being too nice to her, leaving her most of my gear when I moved out, helping her sort out problems and I figured out, yanno I'm sick of this. You left me, it's your problem now not mine. Being with someone who zaps your self esteem and makes you insecure changes you, and you become so negative and co-dependent. It was like a wake up call, I snapped I was like, you know what nah I can do better mate, you did me a favour.

2 Weeks (I think, not quite sure.) of it now and it's been fantastic. Got back all my focus, each day I feel the old me coming back and it's great! Yeah the relationship had lovely moments, but it's not worth it, if you lose yourself.

No Contact should be about you and you alone. You split for a reason, you don't want that person back. You need to get yourself back.

Lovely videos btw mate! Been interesting watching these and seeing different perspectives of break ups and relationships!

[Growwithgrace]

My first experience on NC in my life! 9 months and I can say it has been hell but I am begining to reap the benefits. I no longer count the days, I don't care if I never see him again and I am building my life again. I am back 💪

[DJAUDIO]

I've been in No Contact since January. My life has flourished, and the healing has begun. I've been moving forward.

[brianfreeman]

I would have hugged her one more time and told her exactly what was in my heart

[annekinsella]

Omg I realise now. He gave me the gun and I pulled the trigger! Yes I believed he couldn't cope without me. I like the way you say get me back.
My mindset has been so wrong. He's not coming back. I made it easy for him he wanted out or he would never have treated me with disrespect. It hurts. But I'm gonna try my best to focus on me.

[devonways]

This is the best advice on no contact. Thanks for this!

[taaronjones]

your videos have helped tremendously. thanks for keeping it real. currently in true no contact since early january from a 7mo relationship. been full of ups & downs. been focusing my energy on getting myself back & coming around. been going on dates, one of the difficulties i have been facing is that i now have a higher standard & find it difficult to find a lady worthy of numerous dates.

[minaXO]

Its the tone of voice you have while you say the most volatile shit 😂😂😂 hahahahah another great video!!!

[brijukukreja]

Excellent advice. I am in no contact indefinitely

[thewanderer]

The only coaches on that list I found helpful was Coach Craig Kenneth as well as on that channel Victoria and the late Margaret. Their videos helped me understand my attachment style and behaviour.

[annekinsella]

No more counting. I ain't going to ever contact him. Even though I want some of my stuff back!

[RakeemDixon]

I did the stupid thing and engaged in a conversation with another female on social media (not a sexual conversation btw) my ex went through my phone and see the message. 7 weeks later we did have a conversation only on Friday which was very very long. Different perspectives, point of views, feelings and the relationship as a whole were spoken about during our talk. Yes I know I’ve broken no contact. Overall the conversation with me asking if we could talk. She responded that she’ll talk to me soon.. it’s been a 5 year relationship with a few breakups with a lot of learning and understanding my behaviour and I’m currently in therapy not only to be a better partner potential but more so I’ve recognised patterns within me that I’ve been carrying for most of my childhood and I want to change that. I did say to her that all I can is be a man of my word and do what I say that I’m going to do in order to change which I think is worth getting credit for. The last 7 weeks have been extremely tough but I’m battling on. I’d love some advice on whether I’m doing the right thing or added things I can do. Thanks mate.

[cawi]

Ordered the book, thanks for the recommendation ❤

[razaalemi]

That’s why I say just focus on your self and everything else will work out eventually if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be haha lol hope everyone is okay and don’t worry champ there’s always another fish

[SambabaL]

Others do talk about it being more for your self worth and moving on to better things. Because no, no contact does not make your ex come crawling back to you. They might feel sad about it, but they've gone through with a mayor step and for a reason. Think about it this way, have you ever gone back to an ex after you broke up with them? Probably not.
And even if NC was a sure thing, if your ex is following this strategy as well both of you are ignoring eachother and nothing will happen. 😄

[cawi]

My ex, ex (which i had the hardest break up pain ever after 7y of relationship) saw me on the street with gaining 20lbs and wearing my oldest clothing and i can laugh about it 😂i gained this weight because of my recent break up pain. But now i‘m back on track. 💪🏼

[perthforme]

Mine is a bit different. Me and my ex broke up a few times. We were together for 5 years. I told her last time if she ever done it again I would cut her out and that is what I have doe, blocked her on everything. It stii hurts but I have found it easier blocking her. There is still bewilderment and unanswered questions. The relationship was generally good but not that good because we broke up a few times.

[GersonRGomez]

My gf of 3 years broke up with me 2 months ago. I acknowledge i was the reason because of the break up. I messed up in the beginning of the relationship doing things i shouldn’t that made her insecure (like looking for external validation) and she built up resentment. I did work on myself during the relationship but she couldn’t get passed it. We had an argument about something unrelated and she ended it.

I was begging and pleading trying to convince her post break up and got nowhere, she was angry. I decided to go no contact since 10 days ago. Can this help out ? Since i am the reason the break up toon place is no contact recommended ?

[jamesphiri]

Am in no contact and She keeps break it every week and when she reaches out she's like am not feeling well bra bra