it's good to be disliked

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My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men... to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.

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[oliviamou]

“Being disliked is not a bad thing, it just means they weren’t meant for you and now you can find the people who are meant for you. Redirection.”

[Sahalielove]

I love this reframing! I’m going to have to remind myself of it.

[JustMiluna]

I've been growing so so much, and contently working on myself. I stood by myself without hanging out because I felt really "not ready".
But I'm more of a deep bond kind of type, I don't like gossiping, superficial behavior and such. Now I experienced a different kind of "not fitting".
I was a bit whiny days ago to my grandma and she went like :" you're not for everyone, it doesn't means you're wrong", and it makes sense.

I'm still annoyed eh, but she has a point.

[Staryyworls]

_It really is a win to have someone that dislikes you, the most real thing I heard today._

[aminahsxoxo]

everyone isnt for everyone, and thats the beauty of knowing & loving oneself❤

[Ladyhead_of_blackorganization]

Yes! I love haters and have none. I earn and then they'll come to like me the next day.

[cloudpopfluff]

If you actually end up attracting people by people pleasing, then your brain will go like "oh! people pleasing actually works!" and will continue doing that. Which is bad. So be glad if your past efforts to people-please have failed!

[clarissaywy]

I fell back to my people pleasing bad habit and this video showed up. Thank you Tam ❤

[Passiveincome.rosemary]

She’s actually making a good point. The fact everyone doesn’t want or like you; shouldn’t make you feel bad ❤

[AnanyaAkhilesh]

I really needed to hear thisss, thank youuu

[minusingh]

So true even my mindset changed when I read the book the courage to be disliked

[Shanboss-zb]

If you like everyone, and everyone likes you it's actually a character flaw, coz you like even those people who have character flaws ...you are just like them.
What I am trying to say is as a former people pleaser, I know u are trying to make people like u coz u think maybe they might return the kindness so u become nice to people who don't deserve it because not everyone is willing to change and that is okay let people be who they are u can't change a person who is not willing to change ...so be nice to people not to change them but becoz u are willing to do so otherwise you are just pretending and playing a character in order to gain something or someone's approval ...if you don't get it?you will grow resentment and people will know your true I know u are trying to make people happy but remember you are a person too and love people but not more than u love yourself❤

[lizethgomez]

I’m honest with the people around me and it’s either take it or leave it

[aksharag]

I'm proud that im finally in that era of being disliked by ppl because I'm achieving more than them.

[SreeLakshmiSreekumar-yz]

You look so beautiful todayyy tammmm ❤❤❤

[destiny_hallows]

She's that elder sister I asked the universe for 🫶🏻🩷

[yushi-liqp]

Let me say it guys. If your being disliked you're doing it right. Keep going and keep being yourself ❤️

[victoriagill]

What bout them girls that jump on arguments then twist it to make you the baddie

[AparnaSingh-oqrk]

Yeh I get it but how to know who is good for

[AparnaSingh-oqrk]

I am in school and my friend doesn't treat me well ?? What should I do guys???