The Friend Zone: Why You Are There and How To Get Out Of It!

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The term *friend zone* refers to a platonic relationship where one person wants to get freaky and the other person doesn't. Have you ever heard, "But I don't want to ruin what we have" or "You're like a brother to me!" Those phrases are code for, "you're a cool dude but I'm not sexually attracted to you." Being in the *friend zone* doesn't mean you're not good-looking or that someone else won't find you irresistibly attractive.

Being in the *friend zone* is a tough pill for some men to swallow. Some guys are hung-up on that one person for months or years (viable dating months / years!), even though she will never reciprocate feelings. If a woman views you as a friend, there is nothing you can do about it except move on.

The best you could hope for is a drunken kiss after a night of her sobbing because some else broke her heart. But ultimately, she will either regret the kiss or feel even more terrible about herself, and as a result, she will avoid you like the plague. You will misread the drunken hook-up and will be even more devastated.

So, think of it this way- attractive friends have attractive friends. So don't be creepy weird so you can mix-and-mingle with those attractive friends if you play your cards like. Once you realize you're in the *friend zone*, accept that. Hang out but don't be pathetic. Maintain dignity and self-respect. Nothing says 'unsexy' or 'unappealing' as someone who won't take 'no' for an answer.

Are you in the *friend zone*? Don't sweat it. It's time to get your flirt on! Want to know how? Check this out. With the new people you date, you will know pretty early on if the relationship will be romantic. You have enough friends, so move onto the next if it's heading to the *friend zone*.

"I just want to be friends."

"Yeah, really!? I want a piece of ass but you're not going to help me with that so ... LATER"

It's a numbers game. The *friend zone* sucks, but it sucks even worse when you don't accept it for what it is. Somebody else is out there that thinks you're sexy. Now, get out there and find her!

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Don't feel so bad guys, some of us don't even make it to the friend zone.

tikitavi

I have a doctorate degree in friendzoning.

tiagovidal

I got friend zoned by my wife. What should I do?

JLConawayII

So I started talking to this girl and she liked me but I friend zoned her....after months of being really great friends I start liking her...and she friend zoned me....

seriouswithdaysoff

If you actually walk away and hold your ground then they can become sexually attracted to you. Not always, but it happens.

ADUAquascaping

There are seas of girls they said ... Well I must be swimming in the wrong fucking ocean! :p

Alexman

You can get out of the friendzone, but the chances aren't too high.
I met my gf a little bit more than 5 years ago. She had a boyfriend then who didn't really care about her. We became very good friends with her but she knew I wanted more. After a few months of no progress I told her kindly I move on and stopped talking and meeting with her. After a few weeks she realized that I was the man who really appreciated her and she asked to meet. We had our 5th anniversary in december :)

attilasareczky

*Meanwhile in a fancy restaurant*
Girl: Hey I just want you to know that I like you as a friend
Me: *waiter walks by* give us separate bills because she made it clear that she thinks of me as a friend.

wazzupz

You're in the friends zone because you were scared to make a move and now you've blown it

jdcguitar

I already came out of the FZ. Do the following:

- stop the contact for some weeks
- if you see her on a party, act as she was not there. But be friendly, when wants to talk to you. But do not talk too long.
- make her jealous.
- start lifting
- pump up your style

If that doesn't work, forget it.. or hang out with her friends ;-). Let me know how it worked for you!

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_noname

I put a girl in the friendzone because she put me in the friendzone. I was in the friendzone for almost a year, until I started dating this ginger girl, and she was like a super ginger. Very pale skin, tons of freckles, bright red hair, you get the idea. So my friend, she got mad that I was seeing someone, even though she had already told me there wouldn't be anything more to us. The longer I was dating this ginger girl, the more psycho my friend got. For like a week, she actively tried to break me and my girlfriend up. She started spreading rumors. Keep in mind, both of us are in our late twenties, so that high school shit should have been done and over a long time ago. So she's spreading rumors about her, and she keeps posting on Facebook about how much she loves me. Before, it used to be "I love him like a brother", you know that line. Now she's going full-on stalker mode.

So I ended up splitting from my girlfriend, and my friend went back to her old ways. Now she's no longer interested in me. So I called her out on it, and she said she was just confused. I then get back into another relationship, and it starts again. She goes all Overly Attached Friend on me. Then I asked her why she's doing this, and playing with me. She got mad and said she just realized her feelings for me.

People, I moved 6 states away, and told no one about my move until a month after I moved. When I tell you this girl moved into the same neighborhood as me, I am not bullshitting you. I moved with my girlfriend at the time, because both of us had accepted a job out there, and my friend followed us there and acted like it was a coincidence. She didn't have a job lined up, or any kind of financial support. I called her family to let them know what was going on, and she flipped out on me, called me psycho, and ended up breaking my TV. She broke down crying, in front of me and my girlfriend, asking why I won't love her. I told her it was because she only wants to be desired, not be in a relationship. She started screaming at both of us, and my girlfriend called the police. My "friend" called us both crazy, and started breaking our stuff. The cops came and arrested her, and she was admitted.

Fast forward to now. I ended up moving back to Las Vegas. I broke up with my girlfriend because of it. She stayed in Tennessee to continue her job. My friend was released on probation, and now we fuck regularly. She has so many issues, but her pussy is so on point.

havoc

"I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS!!"

"Yeah, really, because I want a piece of ass, but you're not gonna help me with that- so, later!."

XD

I love alpha m.

Deadlyaztec

Watched this video a year ago and it helped a lot...sadly I'm back. Guess it's just my personality and I'm such a good friend. But it's painful when they say they want to date their best friend...but won't date their best friend.

seriouswithdaysoff

What stinks is when you're attractive friend fixes you up with their ugly and no personality friend, even though they brag about how great there personality is.

scootover

I have to disagree with you on the staying in touch with her part . from my personal experience they don't let you be anything more than a friend but at the same time they love the attention you give them and don't want to let you go . best option is to move on as soon as possible being friend with her will only give you hope that someday she will love you

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