the truth about the friendzone.

People seem to think that others put you in the friendzone. Today I am going to explain how you put YOURSELF in the frienzone and I'm going to tell you how to get yourself out of it.

[Electricc__]

Per usual most people still don't get what niko is saying 😂and still hold unto these fantasy ideas that were placed into them. But to the people who can actually listen and look at things from a logical perspective or at least a different perspective can understand what he is saying. W niko once again, literally never missed with a point

[GigaNietzsche]

Man if you have to play all of these games she's just not worth it bro. Just confess your feelings and if she doesn't feel the same way it saves you a LOT of time and stress and gives you proper closure.

[averydee]

This is called playing mind games. Which is a horrible foundation for a relationship. If someone doesn’t want you, they don’t want you. Find someone else, you could even keep your friend if you want. If they see you searching for other people and they decide they DO want a relationship then that’s nice. Don’t try and manufacture their jealousy. Chase after someone with intention and not as a puzzle piece as for some “get the girl” master plan.

[NoirNameless]

The “friend zone” is real until it isn’t. It’s a thing until you stop entertaining them after you know they’re not interested, and go focus on yourself. And when you pop back up looking/feeling the best you ever have, and not worrying about them anymore, then the friend zone will suddenly disappear lol. Nothing beats the friend zone like time and appearance does.

[DaeDoesStreams]

This can work sometimes but ultimately its better to not play games and just talk to other people, focus on yourself and put time and effort into someone who wants you back initially

[sumtinqueso]

People need to realize that having a friend is still nice

[mahro]

My best Relationship (up to now) started as a friendship. We never even intentionally shared romantic stuff. But the evening I wanted to confess to her, she was faster to confess to me xD.

Even now that the relationship already ended some years ago, we are just best friends again. And we are both very happy about that we are still so close.

[Micoolman]

13:37 "why is mike not talking to me that much anymore, oh he's talking this bitch Alyssa."

As someone named michael who dated an alyssa wtf

[borilee]

Out of respect for yourself, her, her future partner, just move on.

[salamilidaintgonfit]

Real talk. As a girl I genuinely hope no one ever tries this shit on me holy fuck

[ataarono]

This advice can get you into the worst relaionships, based only on fear and insecurities.
Actual attraction is very obvious and doesn't increase with time. Its just hard to know this if you have never seen it.

[Catto]

Hii I’m a girl and love your channel but I don’t think this information is completely right 😭 and this may be long but I think a lot of people might benefit from knowing this.

Yes it is possible to have this outcome BUT mostly that’s not the case. If you suddenly start treating a girl differently cuz they didn’t want to be in a relationship with you, a lot of us are weirdly put off. It hurts cuz this person only wanted us for a relationship and we lost a friend and that sucks, but we move on. It won’t lead to a relationship. There is a case however as u described, some girls start seeing it as an ego play. You become a quest, and they want your attention back cuz they liked having the control over you and now they dont. So they’ll pursue u, and now they MIGHT get into a relationship with you, but as soon as that happens, they might lose interest just as fast as they got it. The quest is complete and they didn’t really like you for you, otherwise they’d date you early on. The relationship will turn toxic.

The only way to TRULY get out of the friendzone and make them like you for you, is to continue being normal with them. Don’t expect much, pursue other romantic interests as well, don’t rely on their reciprocation. Don’t act like their boyfriends ofc and focus on your life too. Treat them like a normal friend. They might just fall for how you are as a person. However, it’s not guaranteed cuz they just might not and that’s okay. Forcing a connection means there was never going to be a connection anyways. Take care guys and good luck!

[malnesium]

Im not gonna play these games. I dont wanna compete with other men for a girl. A girl will come to you, just stay strong men

[Snippyyy]

usually i agree with a lot of your takes, but 9/10 times this is not going to work at all, either youll lose a friend, or get into a probably very toxic relationship because its completely built on manipulation lol

[turdguyyt]

“All according to plan” ahh advice
But seriously the more you think about this, the more sick it seems to treat is as a game and “plan your next move”

[jonathancollins]

After you confess your feelings and if they reject you, I see no point in trying anymore because they're never going to unconditionally care for you. They made it clear that they just want your validation or presents without any responsibilities of a relationship

[Nitrolord]

"You don't want them as a friend, you want them as a girlfriend"
Your partner is meant to be your best friend. You literally can't spell "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" without "friend". That kind of sentence is what leads to abusive relationships. The best way for you to get a relationship to happen is literally just be as active in their life as you would be in the life of any of your friends, and let a connection form naturally.

Also, the idea of "giving them the boy/girlfriend treatment when they don't deserve it" is dumb. You should always listen to your friends' problems and be there for them when they need you, just as they should do the same to you. What do you think a friend is?

[Radiated-Spider]

this video should've been renamed to "how to socially manipulate somebody into dating you"

[zichenghan]

Playing hard to get usually doesn't develop a healthy relationship. She's only gonna date you because she feels like she's missing out, not because she actually wants a romantic relationship.

[zishuoliu]

Hay Niko! I love your video so so much. They are in depth and I can see that you put effort in there. You are giving us very solid advices that nobody else have ever gives me. Please keep going! You are like my cyber best friend now. Thank you!