BEING QUEER ENOUGH

In this video Tara Talebsafa talks about her journey to discovering that she's queer enough. They talk about their queer community, about not feeling like they belong anywhere, about imposter syndrome and about how she's trying to discover where she fits in the queer community.

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[SunnivaAbelli]

Tack!! Behövde verkligen få höra det här ❤

[mikk]

My 20s was such a mess, realizing I wasn’t cishet and trying to find myself in the midst of a bunch of other chaos happening 😅 things eventually cleared up and I am now past my 30s and as queer as ever 🥰
One advice I’d give to someone searching would be to not stare yourself blind on labels, they can be helpful when communicating with others but they aren’t what defines your queerness.
Great video as always 👏🏼❤

[elinwestoo]

Så värdefullt! Tack att du delar med dig om detta! ❤

[lionhr]

What an interesting video for me 🙂
I feel with you in every word.
It´s a code-attitude you have to fit in to, even if the purpose – especially for the Queer-community – is free from any norm.
The group itself (in any community) does only exist when everyone in it compromising with themselves into this code-attitude. You have to act with the grouprules to earn your continued place in the group.
In other words, it´s very difficult to be your fully true self in a group without compromising.
The building blocks of the group is an attitude of how something ”should be” and not ”how it is”.

That´s why groups have been very difficult for me to fit in to. It´s too superficial to me and the members felt I couldn´t play that superficial game.

Anyway 🙂 I really hope you can find yourself and the kind of people who are in the same energy. People you not have to compromise with at all. 🙏 You are not too much being you. 💖
I think you seems to be a nice person. 😊 I hope someone else could feel that too. 🙂💚