what to do when you don't feel queer enough?

what to do when you don't feel queer enough?

[Norman_Fucking_Rockwell]

I heard if you say you favorite youtubers name 3 time you get hearted and pinned
Dutchy
Dutchy
Dutchy (hope it works)

[dorianrecord]

when your favorite bi-con makes you feel valid as a bisexual 💖💜💙

[willow_rosie]

well I don't "look" queer enough (I'm bi, but my lesbian friend said she doesn't get bi vibes from me, stereorypical anyway)

[MsDickerz]

Hi cutie. You ARE queer enough & I love you 🌈😇💗

[cousinfun]

Omg 4 days in the life of a bi
Day 1: *sees a guy* omg what if I have been lying to myself all of this time and I’m rly just straight and seeking attention. Surely people will do this all the time and what if the atmosphere I’m in has made me think I’m bi even if I’m just normal and I have come out for nothing and how do I tell them it was all a lie.

Day 2:*sees a girl* oh wait I’m definitely bi.

Day 3:*sees a girl* wait that’s two. Maybe I’m actually gay and bi was just my internalised homophobia but that is biphobic by using bi as a stepping stone bcz my “straight side” is gone I mean two whole days what is wrong W me and how do I tell people.

Day 4:*sees a guy* oh wait

You get the idea and sry for the rant

[l_a_]

What’s sad is that I like a boy who’s straight and a girl who’s lesbian so I don’t have a chance at any of them😭

[morgyton]

I present feminine and as a pangender (maybe, still questioning), I often feel as though maybe I'm faking all of it and I'm actually cishet.

[MichaelBlaneWalker]

I feel that.
My parents gave me queer imposter syndrome and I kept thinking “I am bi, but am I lying to myself?!”

[nynatural]

omg thank you for this!! i’ve recently been struggling to call myself bi (even tho i know i like more then boys lol) because i haven’t had any experience with girls yet and this really helped!!!
💗💜💙

[JltenGamng]

I am a male and my pronouns are he/him but I will accept any pronouns, like if someone were to call me a big sister I’d be happy about it😅 also I’m still questioning things but I k ow I’m gay myself😁 also hi Dutchy If you see this comment you are one of my favourite youtubers😁

[maddiemcmullen]

I came to your channel as a baby closeted lesbian who hid in my room watching your videos at 2 in the morning when my familys asleep now im out and very happy all i wanna say is i wouldnt be here without you thanks :D

[ROCKONplaceboforever]

Thanks for this dutchy i needed it as a bisexiual woman i feel like this sometimes cause i currently dating a man u are amazing love u

[annie_sourcandy]

Thank you so much for making this!!!!
I often feel like I might be faking being pansexual and maybe I’m just straight...

[zoej]

can you do a video about gender identity? like how to know if your cis, trans, non - binary (or other things I'm unaware of)?

[thelazygamer]

I don't think people will ever fully understand just how much Dutchy does for this community. She's the reason I
1) was able to tell I'm Pansexual
2) was able to tell _people_ I pansexual
And 3) was able to accept myself for who I really am.

People, we should all appreciate people like Dutchy. People who care to educate and help with topics such as these don't come around as often as you would hope.

[quinn]

I felt this especially as a queer romantic asexual person.

[itzbrithd_]

Thank u I need this, my father didn't believe me when I came out as gay because I haven't had any experience with men yet, this video really helped me to block out those negative thoughts thank u dutchy

[Doggo_does_stuf]

hi! You don’t know how perfectly timed this was 💛 recently I have been telling myself i axe and look nothin like a lesbian and I’m not valid and I’m faking it, it is hard to control these thoughts and this video helped so much if showing me I’m not the only one feeling this way so thanks lots 💛☀️

[nadia.]

Thanks Dutchy, it was very nice to see you 💗

[diorrichavlogs]

Thanks Dutchy! This really helped!!! My notifications are on!