Why People Don't Respect You

This is how you really gain respect from others.

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Hey, I'm Cole Hastings. I'm a vegan athlete/content creator with a passion for videography/video editing, among other things. I help people build themselves physically/mentally through fitness and self help videos.

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[MJA]

I'm pretty sure you figured out some things a lot sooner than many others. I spent 20 years in the military, and we all accept that as a system based on merit (meritocracy, at least it used to be) and we had a saying, "respect is earned." But you've come to a core truth: before anyone else respects you, you have to respect yourself. This means that you respect yourself enough to improve yourself, to gain skills that are respectable, to influence others in a positive way, to do better for society. You will even hear clues, like when you were young and you did something for your dad, and he tells you, "son, you did a respectable job..." This is an affirmation and a clue. Have you ever watched someone do something amazing and think, wow, I would love to be able to do that, in essence, you have respect for them. You respect the hours and hours, maybe thousands of hours they have spent honing their craft. It could be cooking, handling weapons, playing an instrument. Any vocation. I was always in awe of people who handled horses well and I tried to emulate them. Respect shown is a positive for society, respectful people don't do wanton harm to others or animals or property, respectful people contribute, and respect is society's feedback for a job well-done. Some earn respect in unusual ways (innovator), some in more traditional ways (sports star), but it is a feedback loop. Most importantly, it is a give and take. Someone who has no respect for others will certainly gain none for themselves. What some think is respect that they garner is actually fear, and fear is the opposite of love. Do no harm, and much respect to you, sir!

[newwavemusic]

I also noticed that when I treat people so nice they tend to treat me as rubbish.

[ICEcoldJT]

“Self-respect is the root of discipline. The sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.” 🙏🏽

[WHOAM]

Some people choose not to respect us because of their own insecurities. I know I get respect from the people that deserve to be in my life. Those who know my worth like I do.

[oldwiseman]

Never try to switch up for other people, if nobody respects you when you're being yourself, then you're destined to be a lone wolf, don't fake things, then you will make a bunch of friends that you don't actually resonate with.

[kodyduclos]

This entire video in one sentence: “People don’t respect you because you don’t respect yourself.”

[TheLibraryOfEmotions]

“Disrespect invites disrespect.” — Meryl Streep

[parkerrish]

Respect is a word that does not exist in our society anymore! How can someone respect you when they don't even know what respect is

[tatishortcake]

“Not telling people what they want to hear” That honestly just completely changed the way I looked at thing.

[soyboy]

I was scared of being myself because then I might turn people away. But that's being a people pleaser. I shall aim to let go of what others think of me so that I can live true to myself--be less tiresomely fake and be the more genuine me. Thanks!

[jbela]

I had some people that didn't reciprocate, talk over me, ask favors, talk down on me . I pretty much let them know that I'm aware. Some ol them stopped talking to me, but most had started respecting me. It's the name of the game.And some I let go too.

[cdiessner]

That part about letting go of what others think is so important. I think a lot of people trying to gain more respect assume that ALL of their social interactions should be buttery smooth, but even for people with natural charisma, that's rarely ever the case.

[abundantras]

“Here is the manliness of manhood, that a man has a good reason for what he does, and has a will in doing it.” –Alexander MacLaren.

[edgarlnx]

Saying yes to doing everything for everyone? Yes, that is a big mistake! People treat you like crap if you always say yes.

[joel]

People tell me that "there are a lot of good people out there" but then when they see you insecure and weak they destroy you completely. Where is this goodness?

[bradleyspinks]

This is why the book No More Mr Nice Guy is one of the books every guy should read.

[KyleGood]

Those who are happiest are those who do the most for others.
Provide value in whatever ways you can!

[hebaabofakher]

remember guys do not be nice so much with others
specially those who just met

[TakeBackYourMind]

Can't wait to watch this til the end! Predictions - stop people pleasing, learn to respect yourself, get validation from yourself not others.

[arianaventi]

Why people don't respect you:
1) You're not rich
2) You're not attractive