Watch this if people Don’t respect you

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starting from: 5th july
Time: 8 to 10 pm
Mode: Live on Zoom

[avinashjena]

I need to set boundary by following
1. To say "NO" directly
2. Not accepting disrespect from
another person
3. Not to become very nice.
4. love myself ❤

[pragatiagrahari]

For being available for others all the time...this is one of my worst habit...will surely work upon this.... thankyou my mentor.❤

[HumanonEarth.]

Mastering others is strength. But Mastering yourself is true power
- Lord Buddha 😊

[vijayacharya]

So true, good analogy empty space people dump garbage.
We need healthy boundaries from people who dump their toxic emotion onto us.

[GyanAddict]

Once me and 2 other friends were together. They were drinking, I wasn't. Eventually they felt hungry and wanted to go the nearest fries shop. So we went. After reaching the shop, one guy said that he had already given me the money to buy the fries, which he had not. And then they started staring at me with sus eyes, as if I was taking advantage of their drunken state. I felt so guilty for no reason and ended up giving the whole amount from my pocket. That was one of the very first big blows to my self respect. We were students back then, so buying fries for 3 people was quite costly as well.

I felt so resentful about this afterwards. Spent 3 nights thinking about it. Then I contacted them and asked them to check their wallets and let me know if they really had given me the money or not. They were like "we don't remember, not sure, it's okay". And for one of the very first times in my life I said "NO. Check it now and if you're not sure, then give me MY money back". I took the money back and never said yes to their invitations anymore.

[RameshChandra-ncko]

1.Not always available for anybody
Self priorties.
2. Don't be too nice.
3. Say "No" Direct.
5. Don't accept disrespect in your life .
5. Respect yourself &take seriously yourself.
6. Set boundries.

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[harsh]

Disrespecting your own friends in the name of fun is the most disgusting attitude ever

[abhishektendulkar]

This lady is talking to the points and these points are the golden rules for How to mentally stay fit!

[akankshashukla]

no one has said this before in my life that i don't need to be good to everyone... i truely needed this, in order to be in good books of everyone i always do things that i personally feel disgusted about... time to change

[pranjaligoelofficial]

Most of the time we fail in setting boundaries because we don't want to appear rude to others. But trust me people, the ones who have boundaries themselves will understand what you're doing and would never poke you saying how rude of you!

But those who have a mental garden full of garbage, they'll pick some of it and throw it in yours when they see you building a wall around your garden. Cause they love doing it.
But don't you dare stop at that time. You keep going, and keep building your boundaries. Afterall, it's your garden and you are the one responsible for it's cleanliness not others.

Thankyou so much Neha ma'am for speaking about this issue. That's why we love you.

[Sleeping_buddha]

have always believed that my strength lay in being helpful and available to people every time. However, recently, my eyes were opened wide when I realized that nobody respected me, and everybody took me for granted. As a result, I have started telling myself not to approach people to help them unless they truly deserve it. I prioritize my dreams and refuse to give up my priorities for the sake of others.

[linkin]

Very correct, and really appreciate your thoughts and speaking these out openly. I have been at the receiving end for many years and just can't take it anymore, and I really appreciate you sharing this with the world and believe me some of us are LISTENING!

[Spritualreality]

1 - help करना,
2 - अच्छा बनना की बीमारी,
3 - लोग काम में नहीं आते,
4 - राजमा चावल नहीं हूँ में,
5 - No बोलो,
6 - बुरा मत मानना
7 - boundaries create
8 - Mental Peace.. ❣️

[divya]

I stopped myself for being very nice, and people call me you have attitude. Idk when and how I start becoming nice to others, but now I literally want to leave this planet Earth

[narayansingh]

Being introvert is also a crime god committed while making me. I can't say anything and people can't stop saying anything

[alphabanker]

completely agree with you. few days ago i become a friend who was toxic in nature on the name of fun. I'm 30 and at this age i got selected for a govt job. he was also in training with me. he called me "budha" in front of his friends( my friends was also there). i immediately stopped him and make him understand that i will not tolerate this. I'm polite and humble that doesn't means i will take whatever you throw at me. that day i knew how to take people's comments on me and yes i say "no" when my work is still left on the desk and someone wants me out there. i prioritise myself and now i havr time for myself to enjoy the moments i missed earlier.

[tusharmhatre]

You can't truly help someone unless you help yourself first. Same with Love and Respect.

[sweetyvlogs]

I learnt all these lessons practically through my own experiences and yes if we dnt set healthy boundaries then life will automatically make sure u fall hard get hurt shattered but once u experience these negativities u rise so high tht u nvr look back i am thankful to God for bringing this transformation in me..and guys no matter ap kitna bhi motivational videos dekh lo jb tk thokar nhi lgegi naa koi life lesson long term k liye nhi sikh paoge..its ok to get hurt kyuki hurt hone ka jb limit cross hota h then u become unbreakable and strong ...thanks fr sharing ur valuable knowledge..its really helpful in spreading awareness in society..

[PinkAndTurquoise]

Initially when i was into myself and said "no" i was labelled as full of attitude and snobbish, and now I'm labelled as too nice. And I'm literally a dumpster for people' and their insecurities. I help because it's comfortable when i see someone sad in front of me. High time, i should align boundaries. And say no. This is so good ❤

[kamblegaurav]

What she said here is absolutely true. Specifically in terms of friends and frieship. Younger once need such advice!