Narcissist Crazy Making Communication and the 5 Secret Weapons They Use to Confuse and You

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The goal of a narcissistic argument or conflict is domination through confusion. Knowing how a narcissist argues can help you maintain your sanity, avoid unnecessary emotional stress, and get out of toxic relationships before they get too complicated.

When narcissists argue, you will notice one very specific thing, there is never any real resolution. Narcissists use various arguing tactics to gaslight others and keep them confused. Narcissistic abuse is real and rather than experience bumps or bruises you will feel confused, lost, overwhelmed and frustrated.

Remember, when you are dealing with healthy people they actually WANT conflict resolution. When you are dealing with narcissistic people, they want to dominate, control, confuse, and maintain power in the relationship. The covert narcissist will brainwash their victims to make them think they are powerless. Narcissistic abuse is centered upon getting their victims to distrust their own sanity. Emotionally abusive relationships involve things like gaslighting, verbal abuse, and word salads that create crazymaking!

The secret weapons of a narcissist includes the way they argue and confuse you so they can abuse you. Recovery from narcissistic abuse takes time. Knowledge is power. Learn all you can about narcissist crazymaking behaviors and communication. Understand that the psychological abuse you experience during the narcissistic abuse cycle is real and you will need time to grieve the narcissist while you heal.

No one deserves word salads, passive aggressiveness or to be brainwashed to believe you have no right to love yourself or trust what you feel. Healing from narcissistic abuse, is possible and you deserve to believe you CAN recover!

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[Coparentingwithanarcissist]

Arguments from nowhere erupts and by the time you know it, there are like 5 separate issues from separate events, different months, different years, different people thrown in, that you are confused how far you have deviated from the original topic 🤦🏾‍♀️

[babymoon]

They also pull up your wrongdoings from your past and use those against you.

[meemaflowers]

That's why you should never engage with a narc. Just smile and ignore them always.

[admirbarucija]

I noticed this in a few former friends of mine, they always trick you into thinking everything’s your fault

[raphaellavelasquez]

Every situation was used to prove that he was a good person with good values and I was not.

[goldentrunnell]

You explain 15 years of my life.
15 years of wasted time, money and energy.
What an education!

[CraftedEyeCandiesOG]

Wow.... I broke up with a narcissist new year's morning, because he lied and abandoned me for the third holiday in a row to be with his friends. He hurts my feelings then acts like it was my fault, as if I brought it upon myself, then he apologizes profusely.... I'm learning so much about narcissism and it's scary looking back at what I was dealing with. He won't leave me alone, but I'm standing firm. He's not going to bully me or ruin my life! No weapon formed against me shall prosper.... Happy and Blessed 2020!!

[judithwallace]

Learning the difference between my intuition guiding me and my trauma misleading me. Thank you!

[AshleyMcGrew]

#3 was the hardest one and biggest trigger for me. It made me feel like I was crazy and I was fighting so hard to prove that I wasn’t.

[azia-jaypomare]

I honestly am sick of watching these types of videos, makes me mad recalling this abuse... but I need this because it snaps me out of missing my ex. Two weeks no contact.. getting there. It's sickenning to think that I was contemplating going to visit him... snapped straight out of it with this memory recall. Phew...

Thank you for this video.

EDIT: 1 yr later, It's been three months of no contact and I finally feel free. It's been a journey and I am so thankful for this platform for helpin me through the craziness. I am finally free, full of light and love

[JessBlayze]

My ex is a total narcissist!!! So glad I finally left him. I’m such a codependent. Getting back to finding myself and healing.

[demigaines]

Thank You For Sharing
Narcissists Are Unwillingly And Are
Unable To Resolve Conflicts Or Participate
In Discussions In A Healthy mature Matter.
It’s All About Power / Winning At The Expense
Of other Ppl Well Being.

[breakfastclub]

Another one is when they don’t respond at all, as if to say, “you’re nothing, you don’t matter”. Or just giving the full silent treatment.

[hellagreen]

This video was so helpful. This is my mother. You've described her behaviour perfectly. Thank goodness we have the internet these days, otherwise so many of us would be stuck forever in these toxic relationships. Thank you.

[mssandydaz]

I've recorded conversations that my ex and I had, and just listening to it is crazy. Some of the things that I would talk about, he would just go off somewhere else about things that were not even related to what I was talking about, just because he knew I had valid points. I was thinking to myself, this dude is really crazy, he's not here.

[kathybradley]

Lisa, I could never try to explain all of that with anyone in my life who has never experienced it. But it is literally like you were standing there all those times my ex did those EXACT things to me...EXACTLY!!!! It is like they are all clones!! Thank you for this video.

[hazelstelzner]

I still find myself thinking about past conversations where I was gaslit, minimised, ridiculed, stonewalled etc and it still brings up a lot of rage and powerlessness for me. Even watching videos on the subject can trigger these feelings sometimes.
I don’t know why the reaction is so strong and I don’t know how to get past it even though some of these conversations happened years ago. Is this usual or just me?
Thanks for video
Namaste 🙏

[chrisreilly]

They say no to everything u want to do

[warriorhippie]

Thank you for this insightful information. This is why it’s so important to maintain no contact with these toxic individuals. I’ve been attempting to “co-parent” with a covert narc for the last 10 months but the hoovering, lies, deflection, denial, blame shifting, manipulation, gaslighting, word salad were all too persistent and tenacious for me. Consequently, I recently moved up to “parallel parenting” where the narc only communicates with my mother and sister about our son. I’ve since blocked him from everything possible. Since then, Ive had more peace and mental clarity that I’ve had in the 2 years of knowing him. You can’t win with these demons, there’s no lows of lows that these demons won’t stoop. Maintain no contact and never look back. Namaste 🙏🏾

[indyd]

OMG! This is actually how someone I know argues! You're completely right, they don't want conflict resolution. They just want to control the relationship and never have to change themselves. It's a completely exhausting experience trying to argue with them, especially if you don't know what they're doing.