Watch this if you feel like you're never enough // fireside series 🔥

Welcome to the first fireside series, where we sit and chat by the fire about casual topics. In today’s video, let’s talk about the feeling of never being enough, never doing enough, and never having enough. Although you can approach this topic from many different angles, I’m going to specifically talk about one that’s been on my mind.

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WHAT I’M WEARING:

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CHAPTERS:
0:00 Welcome to the fireside series
0:51 Normalize it to have it
1:52 Normal feels average
2:38 We are hardwired for evolution
3:52 When the internal reality shifts first
5:17 My thoughts on how to navigate this
5:41 Understand the process
6:50 Leveling up is a fun little game
7:45 How do you reflect on your past self?
8:44 High achievers can sometimes feel this unworthiness the most
9:21 There is no “arriving” at your destination
10:00 Why do you want to evolve?
10:18 You can love both
11:25 That in-between moment can be exciting
11:55 Reframing my mindset around all this
13:44 This series is for casual yapping :)

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[TrịnhKimKhương]

Just read "Hidden Manifestation" by Oliver Mercer and I can’t believe it’s so underrated. Methods in this book are next level, it needs more attention!

[taryn_up_vo]

My solution for not getting jaded by the normalization process is gratitude. Always having gratitude for where you are and where you’ve been. Reflecting on how you are where you wanted to be at one point and savoring that. ❤

[monikasilai]

"We don't have to, we get to. We have the privilege to experience different versions of ourselves." - this perspective makes so much sense and it really takes the heaviness of life off the shoulders.

People say you repeat things, but we learn through repetition and we do need wise thoughts to be reiterated in order to sink in.

This was a nice reminder to play and enjoy more, I needed it, as I'm sure many others.
So thank you, Jillz! 🥰

[Jessica_Jean]

The ambiance of the crackling fire and you talking like you are talking directly to us is so cool 💗 I love this. This video made my day

[jiaqi]

Thank you Jill for sharing your thoughts and learnings. This was what I’ve been experiencing past few days. I was being negative and judging myself for not being good enough, judging every action, even the words I speak, then I realised I was being very mean to myself but still wondering what has made me like this, until i found the answer in this video. Thank you ❤

[katherine]

I LITERALLY remember thinking this when I watched your quantum leap video - that I didn’t want to fully normalize the things I wanted to manifest because I still wanted to be able to find the joy in them.

Love this new series!

[heyshay]

Thank you for this. A few months ago i had a supposed best friend who basically told me I wasn't enough and hadn't accomplished anything in life and that i could never afford to live in California like her (I actually can if I wanted to - shes just ignorant but in the moment she made me believe her). I'm so glad I no longer have to deal with her drama and her too giant ego - even though it was hard losing a friend and what she said was very hurtful. Its hard when other people are telling you that you're not enough when you already think that. I'm grateful that you are talking about this. I'm sure this will help me. Thank you ❤

[mirandasehl]

Yes more fireplace and tea chats! Seems like a welcoming place with the cold weather arriving 💕

When I learned to *want the things I already have* through gratitude, it was a game changer for me. I definitely recommend gratitude journaling.

I also would write out everything good that’s been happening; scanning back and focusing on and retelling and reliving the happiest memories since the last entry. This positivity journaling really helped me become more positive and happier.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts as you level up and take us with you 😁💓 I appreciate your videos.

[ReshamBhatti-qxpe]

Thank you so much for the message from this video - it reminds me of a chapter I’ve read in feminine ancient blessings

[jennastout]

I cannot describe my enthusiasm when I saw this video. What a wonderful surprise and a great series idea🔥

[safesoulspace]

That was actually really helpful! Talking yourself through a different perspective of things sometimes makes such a difference, you don’t even need the exact plan to follow to make some change, just embroidering the worldview causes so much growth! I can imagine how much better the same life can feel if you just take it easy and exited☺️ Thank you, Jillz❤️

[virginiairvine]

I also lit my fire this morning. I'm here for the whole vibe. This made me realize that I don't spend enough time manifesting the next thing. I've been in my new house for a year. The number of projects I want to complete can be overwhelming.

[tinayong_]

I'm undergoing social media detox right now and am so glad to watch your video lately, you're just like a best friend to give me the best notes in life. Thanks Jill.

[amberklein]

❤NORMALIZE joy happiness peace contentment ❤
Life = Fun

[allisonjoneshunt]

Oh wow, this is a perfect message at the right time. I’m literally living the life of my dreams that I manifested over the last five years and I’m struggling a little with it feeling blah. I’m a full time artist and wife and I love it, slow living, time freedom, all the things I asked for—and I have been feeling unsettled like I’m not doing enough. I am totally going to try seeing the boring parts as a win!

[patgrl]

Jillz, I love what you teach us, this soft way to live! I love it and it helps me to breath. God has abundance for us ❤❤❤
Life’s not a marathon

[graceivory]

Hi Jillz,

This morning, I realised that what I need to overcome my depression is a paradigm shift. Finding your video shortly after has been that shift for me.

I have everything that my "level 2" self could have wished, hoped, and dreamed of. But as I stand on the brink of "level 3, " I find myself waking up most mornings feeling depressed, because all that I envision for this next stage of my life has yet to come to fruition.

Your gentle and loving words about embracing the end of this era have profoundly changed my perspective. They made me feel seen and understood, and as I hugged myself, tears welled in my eyes.

You are an angel placed on earth, and I am so grateful you listened to the voice that guided you here.

Best wishes,
Grace

[alissaspills]

I liked this a lot. I’m here for the cozy, sister chats. I was putting on my makeup for the day and listening to you. It’s a great way to start the day. Now I’m going to chug a Monster and tackle this 10 hour shift. 👩🏻‍⚕️

[laurenvazquez]

This is honestly full of so many golden nuggets

[msgooner]

I loved this! We're so lucky to be here dancing on this little planet orbiting the sun, floating in the solar system in a big beautiful mystery :) Let's enjoy it, explore and find what we love while having fun in this little game of levelling up, cause we're already enough and nothing could make us more enough. Lots of love! xxx