Why Men Are Afraid of Women In Their Power

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[cian]

I get confused when it’s “I don’t want independent women but I’m also not paying anybody’s bills” 😅😂 well where would she be getting her bills paid before if she’s not independent sir 😂 😫

[reallifehomerevealed]

*I agree with what's been said. Some people are mature enough to get this and others aren't. ALIGN yourself with those that do*

[bumblebee]

Look, *before a woman gets married* she still needs shelter, food, transportation, & healthcare. Getting a degree means she can get a job to provide a lifestyle of her choosing. When she’s married with kids & her husband passes away or becomes disabled, her college degree will allow her to get a job & continue the family’s lifestyle. Nothing wrong with a woman having a career & comfortably supporting her preferred lifestyle *before* marriage. Any man who’s threatened by an independent woman can go get a poor, third world country mail order bride to stroke his pathetic ego.

[ravesterj]

Omg listening to him, this makes so much sense. I see why they have a hard time with it by the way he put it. Gives me something to think about as well as ways to talk to men that have this issue.

[neenscute]

Date whomever you align with…leave people alone. If they don’t align with your values….move on. Simple.

[Dream_more_age_less]

I'm THAT independent woman who doesn't need a man to be fulfilled in life; so am quite grateful that most men are intimidated by me. I'm not dating anyone for their potential anymore, been there and done that. It would take an extraordinary man to convince me to be in a relationship right now and there are very few in this world. I LOVE being single, it's a privilege to be childless and free. Leave me alone, go find a needy female to annoy, THANK YOU

[gloriastuart]

Their uncomfortable because they're not equipped to deal with an independent women and instead of supporting they try to compete with the woman and the relationship becomes toxic.

[kaipieces]

We said people have to learn that stability from both of parties is not a bad thing

[onkarabilelebeloane]

It takes a lot for a woman and man to abandon what comes naturally and put the relationship first. As a man, I know that some women's patience runs out when she earns more and has to pay most of the bills. Feelings of inadequacy creep in and it's a hard situation to accept. I think some women cant accept it too. Talk is easy. Action is a whole different language.

[xaviersmall]

It's not that men don't want the independent woman nor is it that we don't care about what she does, it's the personality that tends to come with it that's the issue. Most career women had to make alot of strong moves to get to where they are today. They had to find and solve problems, be combative on many issues and push people down at times to get the job done. Unfortunately, we get some of that as a man who just wants to take care of her. Furthermore, the insecurities about the woman making more money is pretty valid. Sure many would say they'd never leave their husband because of money, yet its one of the leading causes of divorce. It's only natural to feel like the love of your life could leave you because she out earns you.

[isaacwilliams]

Women that makes six figures and above have drawn their line in the sand, and don't budge, even if it means convincing themselves that they ok being alone

[rdkirk]

Black men in America, as a group, have never been securely on the "protector and provider" pedestal, nor have black women in America as a group been securely on the "wife and mother" pedestal. From the day the first kidnapped Africans came to America's shores, both black men and black women have both been beasts of burden. That's never changed. Black women have always been in the workforce and black men have never been part of the "patriarchy."

What's different today is that has become the dominant status of the majority of white men and women as well. Welcome, white people, to being black!

It's important for black men and black women to both understand that the changes white men and women are going through aren't the same for us. White feminism can't work for black women, nor can the patriarchy work for black men.

We need to develop different inter-gender rules and remember that we have common forces working against both of us.

[tikaroxanne]

When it’s time to bring more than finances they get shook up..they offer nothing else of substance…

[yakzivz]

Well she and the gentleman told nothing but the truth!!! I hope that the guys will really absorb what both of them stated and reflect on themselves.

[vanessatigari]

This is a very good point made. It's not a competition.

[derrickcarwardine]

We need to focus on each person contributing 100% of whatever they bring to the relationship. Two people combine those things to make a killer combination and succeed at life together. There doesn't need to be one specific dynamic based on gender (roles), just whatever works for that specific couple.

[moonpiemars]

Let’s be honest it’s not the 40s-60s no more, independent is not bad also in this day and time you have to be independent owning your own car, house/apartment, and having a good job or good income to keep you afloat since a lot of stuff is raising in price men need to look at how stuff is now it’s not the old days when what our grandparents and great grandparents was going thru we living in a whole different society now and nothing is cheap you can be cheap at your best, but it’s good having your own thing

[slickmcsass]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 when you said "it's not a competition".

[denisemitchell]

I love the way you stated that.. it’s very expensive out here now.. it takes two incomes to fully function in a household… we are not the competition… we are not applying for a job position… and we have to stop looking at the family unit as if that’s all it is… ❤❤❤❤❤

[shaywilliams]

U right when I met my wife she was making more money then I was an she never look down on me or belittle me about it she uplift me I had to understand that she wasn't talking to me to like I wasn't shit she was telling me what I needed to hear to do better for us but I do understand that some people do talk down on others which is sad to me