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[randysoller]

👍👍👍👍👍 Nailed it as usual. 21 years worth. I wasted 1/3 of my life trying to "save" this woman. It can't be done. I blame no one but myself.

[James-bcoh]

Iv been to 2 therapists and not one of them knows anything about narcissism, they just want to no how your childhood was growing up, as soon as you ask them if they no about narcissism they either say no or they want to change the subject, I get more therapy watching all these videos on YouTube, thank yous all🙏

[edgreen]

And the combinations like vulnerable malignant. What a nightmare; the most victimized but they are quite spiteful of others for real or imagined threats.

[shinebright]

I've been trying to understand what kind of Narcissist I was with for 7 years. You definitely answered a lot. I was once a confident, full of life, but very loving and empathetic. It would take a long time to tell you all that transpired in 7 years. Even though he could be very complimentary towards me quite often, he could take me to my knees by words/anger and silent treatments. But he was admired by many. I never felt I could tell anyone as I knew they would ever believe me. Little did I know he was dropping hints that I was awful or bad to him, etc subtly to others and I had no idea. Sex was huge to him, but being private and looking big in public was a biggy too. He would ask people, did he sound okay, etc.over and over. He was a musician. He was always the victim, even in everyday life if someone slighted him. He was angry all the time and talked about everyone negatively. And all his exes were crazy and ruined him. Very jealous. Very intimidating when angry. I began to feel empty and drained. I dreaded answering the phone at times. In 7 years I was promised the world and only a few were met. Everything was always my fault. I was expressing I was basically on the floor from exhaustion, the belittling and he wasn't their emotionally. He lost his mind, said it was Done, but told others he was only teaching me a lesson and that he does it often and it works. Little did I know he found knew supply and when he realized I deleted and blocked him he was angry. He landed with his new supply. He has not stopped destroying my reputation in horrific ways in 2.5 years and I had no idea this even existed out there. I'm nervous to go out anywhere in fear of seeing him, or the people he turned against me due to the lies. I don't live in a big city. I'm ready to move on but I feel completely isolated trying to protect myself from the evil aftermath he caused. What is a woman to do, or to go when this is happening? I don't want him controlling my life anymore or loving that he still can. It's the worst thing I've ever experienced from a man.

[loriderewitz]

Mine went through phases, each one had different aspects and traits of all of the types of NPD that you describe. After being married to him for 30 years he became a huge monster that had ALL of those traits at once.
3 years out and I’m still recovering from the damage he did. Thank you for your help Anoushka. 💕

[minniexo]

Please can you do a video on psychopath sociopath, and anti personality disorder in depth on how they groom their victims with manipulative tactics and exploit them financially, sexually, emotionally and what to look out for if we meet these type of disordered people!!

[naturalhealingmexico]

So, in a nutshell you just described each and every politician and leader we have in our countries, now I see why the word it's so terrible as a whole. Narcissists just destroy...

[James-bcoh]

All the traits of narcissism that you described we're in my life my covert ex partner, the kids cousin a malignant, my kids mother grandiose my covert daughter my boy think he's overt, nightmare of a life with them🙏

[alcudiababe]

I remember the Narcissist I dated years ago and I know what he was like. Lying, saying very cruel things to me at times like (if my work colleague Lucy said yes to go going out with him he would) but although that hurt and I knew she didn't like him anyway I felt I was safe but he openly admitted I'd be gone but that didn't make me tell him I didn't think this would work out. I know I tolerated so much from him just to be in a relationship. But then years on what's the difference between what he did and family members particularly my Mother telling me I'll be a fat bride, and in a way try to get me to feel self conscious about myself because if I listened to her I'd have no confidence at all but not only that part of the checklist for Narcissisum is things like criticism, faultfinding - seeing things in terms of black and white, her way is the only right way. As and when she lost control of me she tried influencing how my family saw me - so the smear campaign started so therefore I'm finding it hard in a way to distinguish between the two people I know or believe to be toxic because Mom has an ego, thinks alot of herself, she cheques a lot of boxes for someone to be a Narcissist whereas the Narcissist I dated would say things like he's in love with someone else or he loves me for me I know that right not for my money and that's psychological abuse like getting into my head. So perhaps they both are but fall on different areas of the Narcissist spectrum

[DiZZoLabs]

I have a larger than life personality but I’m not narcissistic. I love life. 😊

[aliceroberts]

My mother is a different narcissist She only has a few of the traits like she never encourages you. Her Jealousy is off the hook that when gets nasty She never comforts you she invalidate your feelings, won’t say horrible cruel things.out of the blue like my husband does my husband is a malignant narcissist

[EmBem]

I hope you don't mind me saying but I listen to a lot of Dr Ramani and she says that the difference between NPD and narcissism I'd that NPD is diagnosed and only if & when the narcissist feels like their personality is creating a lot of difficulties in their lives they seek help themselves, most go undiagnosed because their personalities effect the people negatively around them, they don't care about that whereas narcissism is a set of personality traits that can be observed by anybody.

I've never heard of the seductive or vindictive narcissist though. That's very interesting, thank you.

Thank you for explaining

I haven't long managed to escape a malignant narcissist who was abusing my children and me, my children more than me because their abuse was physical, mental and emotional whereas the abuse I experienced was mental and emotional but not physical. I tried to leave early last year and he refused to go and started engaging in risky behaviours with all of our lives. In October he got arrested and is under investigation

[crystalm.]

Crazy is a better word for it. I have never been in a relationship with the person I called out. I think he has a crush on me.

[AXA]

Mine was quite shy at times but he was also arrogant and when we FaceTimed he would be looking at himself checking his hair etc not looking at me ! I helped him out financially he lied and cheated constantly I never knew when he was telling the truth, needed attention from other women we usually lasted 6-9 months then break up to her back together again, he told me that he struggled with empathy and telling the truth ! I thought he just needed support, how wrong I was, all the promises never happened, he always apologised but obviously never meant it as the behaviour only changed for a short period of time and would start again, I didn’t want to believe he’s a narcissist or toxic and felt it was me but I didn’t lie, chest or gaslight him I felt I was going mad at times and I now believe he is a narcissist he has so many sexual partners before me and during our relationship and sex was always the main thing with us, he wasn’t particularly good looking but he used it well

[jennatolls]

Everyone has narcissist traits especially in the world we live in today

[swim]

I believe he has ADHD with comorbid Histrionic traits. It was a nightmare

[Healingpath]

Please tell me where you get your jumpers 🙏🌷

[adrianoc]

With all these types
Sounds like half of society
It's f..ked...
Mentorship program?
Is it wise for you to be a therapist of someone and their mentor?
How do you separate the 2?
Tough balancing act. Or maybe once an individual is done with therapy, then possibly move them into your mentorship category.
I'd be careful how you navigate that one.
God bless

[nas]

I don't want to be "that guy" but there's a spelling mistake in the title.

[detjaggillar]

I was living 12 years with a covert and seductive narcissist. First for 10 years and I discarded him abruptly cause I got enough. Lived 4 years as a Single woman (of course he wasn-t Single one minute of that time) but his mother died and he hoover me in for 2 years ... Damnded! But at this time I have started to educate me in NPD cause I realize that he might be a narcissist and those 2 years with him was more (for me!) like A study in the Dark side - really. Then after about 2 years I left - again and as before: very abrupt. But THIS time I know for SURE what was going on and could point out that every single day with him in ALL those years pointing out that he IS a covert ande seductive narc. It was chaos from the beginning until I ended our relationsship - and I did it twice. That is for 2 years and 4 month ago and I will never ever go back to him that's for sure

I've heal my self with education and looking into Your videos and to Doctor Ramani's and a few moore persons who really have had their own experiences of narc's in their lifes and who has a analys of NPD (professional or at least very normal insight of it!) and I also know that I really can't give my ex narc a diagnosis like a Professional doctor but I KNOW that every singel move and behavior IS like a covert and seductive narc behavior.

Today I feel free and almost have healed my self - it's more left for me to learn to trust other people again. It will take time and I'm Single for the moment but I understand that it will take time and I can wait for going out and date again. I have no hurry. The most important is for me to see the Red Flags and take it slow and fine when I met someone new potentional partner and I'm hoping I will meet someone someday in the future who is NOT toxic