How long should you wait for a man to commit | How long should you wait for commitment from him ?

How long should you wait for a man to commit | How long should you wait for commitment from him ?

Ever wonder what the time frame is for when a man should commit? Here is a guideline to know how long should you wait for a man to commit.

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How long should you wait for a men to commit? |

It was a question that was emailed into me by a few women , all wanting to know the time line or rather the limit you should wait for a man to commit to you.

As women we crave certainty and the last thing we want to do is waste our heart and time on a man that doesn't see a future with us or want the same things.

The problem is , is you put too much pressure on him too soon then you will drive him away. So let's break it down right now to help give you some guidelines on how long you should wait for a man to commit :

1) Men commit at different rates - don't expect the same level of commitment that you are willing to offer straight away . This is simply because men work differently to women!

2) Get to know the man behind the commitment - there is no point having the commitment if you aren't compatible or if he isn't good for you! Focus on who you are committing to , not just the commitment itself.

3) Set a realistic time frame - ask yourself what do you want ? Is it marriage by a certain time frame? Is it babies? And then put it into perspective whether or not it is realistic in accordance to where you are at and who you are dating .

4 ) There are different stages of commitment - identify what stage you are in to help work out if he is giving you the right level of commitment already.

5) What are you willing to put up with ? - If you are willing to keep waiting for him to commit when his behaviour says otherwise than you are effectively signalling to him that you are always going to be there for him even without his full commitment to you.

Love Renee x

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[SR]

When he says "when the time is right." But it's not gonna be anytime soon. 😒

[tbaby]

Honestly, if you don’t obsess about it then it will come. Just make sure you keep your options open. If a man thinks he has no competition he has no reason to give you an answer because you’re already in a “relationship” with him by default

[gabriellekocsis]

This was so helpful! I’ve seen somewhere “men know in two weeks if they want to date you or not“ and it’s been stuck in my head

[somosasaluk]

I don’t wait. As we go along the dating road, when we both are bonding, feeling happy, he was just saying these words like full commitment, love words, positive energy from me...

[SR]

I hear you about not rushing commitment but guys sure rush when it comes to sex. Some done even allow a woman to be friends without being sexually aggressive and not respecting boundaries. That can be annoying and its messed up when a a woman goes with the flow and gives him girlfriend benefits without committment. We should def not go there if we don't want to bc that's what the guy wants. I know that wasnt mentioned here but it still relates.

[yvfhfcy]

If you love them and they know it,
don’t wait for commitment for either him or her.
Move forward.

[pokemondraws]

Incredible tips for womens!! Impressive coaching :)

[rakastellar]

This is THE question of all questions!

[mariamistretta]

Independent happen when yourself confident brave honest and helpful honest truthful person and see the signs in a man.
If the guy is right or not Frist before deciding.

[John-wqfm]

A little late to the party, but a lot of men are not hesitant to marry, but to marry the wrong person. Over half of marriages end in divorce, prenuptial agreements are taken as an offense by their female counterparts frequently, child custody is vastly in favor of the mother, and alimony is typically rewarded to the ex-wife. If we are going to take a bet against the odds for little gain, and if we lose, we lose our kids, a good portion of our income, our homes, and our relationship, we need to be damn sure that we aren't setting ourselves up for failure.

[anonanon]

1:33 I’m definitely on the verge of doing this EXACT thing. Watching as many videos as I can. 💚

[lashgoshotwheels]

I was thinking maybe the guy can't afford a ring and he is paying it off over time and that's why he has not ask you yet ???

[violetgrape]

with me and him it is actually the other way around. He's thinking about the future and i'm more like "lets just see where this goes"

[erwjwiv]

He said to me he could see him and I get married

[mariahbrown]

I been talking to a guy for almost 8 months and he still hasn’t asked me to be his “girlfriend “

[lavayuki]

I had a guy who tried to make me commit in the first three weeks, and I was just looking for a casual relationship and was seeing other guys. He kind of scared me off as he was way more serious than me with marriage on his agenda somewhere, I left him. He begged for a second chance but I wasn't attracted enough and he was too full on for me to give any chance to

[zackthedon]

If you are the best option he can get then he will comit, don't go for guys outside your league period.

[runalpatil]

What if the men changes the topic or ignores the topic when u try to explain him ur desires to commitment after 10 years of relationship???

[How.Dare.You.]

Finding yourself single 2 years down the track isn't about commitment. It's life. Relationships don't last forever

[antilaw]

Im a guy. 58. For me, im dating her for over 2 months now. I like her alot. Yes we intimate. Much time she doesn't communicate with text enough. In my mind i think she screwing around. When we together i get a different vibe. Just want to know shes on the same page as me so im not waisting my time. And money. Now you know how a guy thinks