How Long Should You Wait Until He Commits? | Dating Advice

How Long Should You Wait Until He Commits? | Dating Advice

You’ve been seeing a guy for three months. You like him a lot. He seems to like you just as much. The chemistry is great. The sex is stupendous. When he takes you out on dates, you have an amazing time - easy conversation, lots of laughter. Yet, despite all this, he’s not your boyfriend. What’s worse is that the longer you go, the more anxious you feel because you desperately want him to be. How slow is too slow in a relationship? Stick around and I’ll explain.

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[evanmarckatz]

Have you slept with a guy for months without a commitment? Did he turn out to be the boyfriend that you wanted? Did that end up working in the long run? Did he turn out to be a great boyfriend or do you see some of the patterns that I'm mentioning here that men who do want to be your boyfriend tend to reveal it relatively quickly? Comment below.

[derlyhtcreole]

To keep it simple, avoid sexual activities until you're married. It's a bit challenging at first but makes life so much easier in the end.

[lindawhite]

Truth Men are simple - they do what they want

[andipajeroking]

In my opinion, as a man, I think that somebody who really wants a healthy long term relationship does not look for sex in the first place. He looks first and foremost to having a quality relationship and i have a feeling that the sex part will appear by itself. Even if sex happens, a quality man knows what he wants and will tell you sooner rather than later what he wants, regardless of the answer.

[LisaGemini]

I prefer the second model because it gives me time to bond with and trust a guy. In other words, go slowly and be friends first. I have to trust and love someone before I sleep with him and commit to him. Why not just have the commitment conversation before sleeping with him, Evan? That's what I'd do. You already have to have the HIV/AIDS/STDs conversation. Why are some women so afraid to open their mouths?

[jojose]

Ugh this is my exact scenario, except we have agreed to not see other people, but he’s not my boyfriend… and is 100% right, in the past I knew well before month 3 what they wanted… thank you next lol

[shannonk]

this exact video should be required viewing in all schools! let's tell kids this BEFORE they start sexual activity. far fewer broken hearts, no STD's (hpv vaccines would be obsolete!), no teen pregnancies. jr/sr high school is complicated enough so take this whole subject right off the table.

[marciabejarano]

Amazing how you delivered such honest and clear information from a male perspective. You really have knowledge as a coach. I don't think I could ever find your valuable information in Spanish podcasts but your talks help me to practice English. Although I do think that your point of view could ve very much needed and appreciated by latin women who have a very different idea about dating and self value. You could have an enormous population to reach to If your talks could be translated into Spanish.

[Erica_Marie_]

Whewww! Guess I need to get to dumping 😭😂

[RadioLaPrincess]

Why are women having sex with men within 3 months of dating and he's not her boyfriend? That's idiotic. I speak from experience, back in my 20's I made this same mistake and most of these guys never planned to commit to me. My mistake caused me to be single at a later age. Strangely, I reconnected with a long-time guy friend and it seems there might be something there. We have a connection and like each other. No idea if it will become more but we are compatible and have chemistry. Btw we never had sex.

[SStuurman.]

I'll come back here to update you😂😂😂. Thank you for this helpful video❤.

[jomartin]

Awesome advice Evan! I really want to follow this advice next guy I date who I am interested in. I find men any age (I'm late 40's) want to speed things up but that doesn't mean we have to go along with that even if we want to it's in our best interests not too! What's the rush?

[angelmoore]

Just FYI… You do not take off from an airport tarmac you takeoff from the airport runway the tarmac is the area where the airplanes park and move about

[TheSunshinefee]

love this color on you, Evan. As always, useful video.

[lilibethnieto]

Very thorough...thank you Evan 😊.
Clear as the water.

[TheAlixir]

7 months daily texts and Friday and Saturday sleepovers… 🤦🏻‍♀️

[lapiezadechocolate]

You are so right. It hurts. But it's the truth.

[laangelsadventures]

Thank you so much for the content! We have dated for two months now, like you said texts every day, phone calls sometimes. And meet once a week. He used a different term than bf and gf, he said me and him in a monogamous relationship. I am ok with that, what do you think? And when do you think I should ask more or for him to step up put more in our relationship? Thank you!

[Susie_]

You are so good at what you do! Loved your take..

[missware]

Best video ever. Glad I haven’t slept with him