Why You’re LOSING Friends! ⚠️

Why it’s common to LOSE friends the more successful you become!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.

Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!

His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!

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Why You’re LOSING Friends! ⚠️

This is what happens when you become successful! In this short, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals the BRUTAL TRUTH about success...

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[JulienHimself]

Why it’s common to LOSE friends the more successful you become! ⚠️

[inbetweeny]

Crazy thing is in my friendships, I was the one who cheered on them and their dreams. Yet when I started working on mine, they got envious and tried to suppress me.

[aodh]

Crabs will stop other crabs from escaping the bucket

[Joorello]

This happens in dysfunctional families as well. Everyone in my family are smokers. I quit smoking years ago and got told by my dad that I was self righteous. They say I'm "stuck up" because I don't want to be around cigarette smoke and won't allow my kids to be around it. There was never any congratulations or anything when I quit lol.

[manasvinshah]

I mean I just stopped talking to my college friends in the pandemic, I was already introverted but lockdown made me more introverted

[Jessica-fgnl]

This is true when I start eating healthy and losing weight. People try tempting me with food, telling me I need to eat more.

[matkotroselj]

But then there might also be some realistic reasons why you're loosing friends also. You have to keep that in mind. I know people who are loosing friends because they deserve it but they keep telling themselves that it's because they're "doing better than everybody" so they never change. Just make shure to never be a fool.

[shitmandood]

I’ve seen the opposite too. The friend who starts succeeding dumps his old friends, and they didn’t do anything, but get the judge and jury treatment.

[ShinkuGouki]

I saw some friends yesterday that I hadn't seen in 6 years. They were talking smack because I don't smoke weed anymore. Man, I truly have lost hope in people.

[lisaotoole]

This right here explains why my good friend’s husband cuts me down. He refuses to learn any stereotypical manly skills, and for me, a female being competent in several, he CAN NOT STAND IT.

[josephang]

I never had true friends in the first place but this is true.

[nocontextmemes]

It sucks because once I started focusing on my self, I realized that, this is my life not theirs and that they have their own life too, in the end we're all going to have to face our issues and overcome our own challenges. I remember the days me and my friends would all hop on together to play video games, one of them has their own friends and my other friend I still talk to is going into highschool so he's probably gonna drift away from the group breaking it apart, I do online school for more time for guitar practice and working out, but I hope this sacrifice will be worth it.

[ChrisYoutubization]

I remember putting weights in a backpack to do pullups, my brothers would make fun of me because i had a backpack on saying ''im going to school'' laughing while i was training at night and they were on the couch eating chips, watching tv. Now i see them posture up when i enter the room, i see the insecurity on their face. I usually wear a sweater as to not intimidate them and more noticeably they are angry, for no reason. I joined a group chat i left a long time ago, scrolling through seeing my own brother diminishing my accomplishments, like i wasn't ''that jacked'' posting a guy on roids saying ''why doesn't he look like this, he works out all the time'' i was on a cutting phase, natural, so depleted, trying to get to low body fat. It is your own people sometimes, even family, there will always be disingenuous people who put on a mask for their own reputation. They eventually show their true colors, the point is, trust yourself, don't depend on anyone, weak people fear your success and do what you want in your life without asking or apologizing. What you'll find is these fake people sometimes can't help but to congratulate you and then reality sets in, they're still a loser, what's worse is not in a career or life sense but more their character which is something that you can't change that much.

[jasonglisson]

I’m 2 weeks into the re building process, so to speak. I’m finally over the “do I have to go?!” Hurtle and now looking forward to the “hey I can’t really touch my back so I gotta use a door frame to scratch it” phase

[mg]

I'd just be happy for my friend. They did the work and got the result so why wouldn't I be happy for them.

[christopherneufelt]

I am not loosing friends! I gain enemies!

[theskender]

I just got lucky with my first main friend group who I met in highschool and kept to this day, only later in life and through meeting lots of people did I realize this mentality not only exists, but is common lol

[focusedallday]

Big facts! This can also happen with girlfriends/wives. Had to let girl go one time because she was always trying to make me feel bad for being the only one in shape in her family. Making comments in front of her family members about how dry and healthy the food I would eat was. Best decision of my life. Stay Focused!

[bestworst]

Umm I've never said any of this to a friend he is still my friend no matter what he looks like

[whatrtheodds]

Yeah this happened to me. I was pretty upset that the people around me wanted my sick and weak version of myself. I was with a man who's was violent and it took time for me to get my self worth back together .... I really pissed some people off because I grew like a mother People have issues, I mean so do I but seriously 😒 why try drag someone down. I do wonder though, when they think of how they treated me l'm sure they will say they were the "good guy" .