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DO THIS To Get Them Hooked IN The EARLY STAGES Of Dating!
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In this video, I'm gonna show you exactly what to do to get them hooked in the early stages of dating. And I'm gonna show you what you must not do, which completely repels them from being and understanding who you are and feeling into that.
And then also, it literally will repel their energy if you do this. Now, when it comes to magnetic energy and when it comes to dating, one of the most important things to remember is, people feel what you feel about you.
How you feel in your body is being projected out and other people feel that. And also, we are projecting out what self-esteem is, it's a projection of who we believe we are in our own self-image.
So if we have a self-image that says "I'm weak, I'm not a strong person," or "I'm awkward" or "I'm insecure" or "I'm shy and there's something wrong with being shy," which there's not. Then what happens is we literally project that energy out and people feel it.
And it literally repels love or people from just resonating with us. Now, the key is softening that up and realizing your own sense of self-worth. The more worthy and the more love you feel, the more magnetic you will be.
Now, at the same time with this, there's a book that I wanna share with you that almost looks like it doesn't relate to this topic, but I promise you, it does. Now, I'm getting ready soon to start, like, a membership community slash, like, accountability monthly subscription.
And this is something that I'm growing in certain, within the next month or two, and I'm reading books about something called retention. Now, retention is this idea of kind of getting people hooked and not only hooked, but getting people to stay 'cause it's like, "Okay, if I'm gonna start this membership, I want to get people in it and I want people to stay in it for a long time because it's awesome."
And it over-delivers. And people love the community. They love the accountability and all that. While reading this book, it talks about something called the retention point, which very much relates to magnetic energy and getting people hooked and staying. So it uses this example. Here's the example.
It says, there's a point. It studied Netflix shows. And when you're watching a Netflix show, let's say you're watching Breaking Bad or you're watching Ozarks or you're watching some other Netflix show. There's something called the retention point.
Now, the retention point is, if you get to a certain episode in a certain show, there's a higher likelihood that you will finish the whole entire series. So for example, in Breaking Bad, it might be episode four or five.
If you watch Breaking Bad up to episode four or five and you finish it, there's an 80% chance that you will finish the whole entire series because you have then been hooked and retention throughout the whole series.
So that's called the retention point. So think about it. And when you're thinking of that, of dating somebody, there's a point to where if you're dating somebody and you show the real you and you're in this energy with this person, that once something happens, once they're in a way energetically hooked, they will then stay and feel it out, and there'll be that retention.
So retention is something, it's a moment in time when someone decides "This is my person, this is someone I'm interested, this is someone I'm gonna see through." So in the same way that Netflix shows might have a retention point to when then somebody is really bought in, to then they stay, the same type of energy exists in dating.
And what the goal is in. Okay, so if I look at that retention point book or whatever, I'm now applying that to the course I'm creating. It's like, how quickly can I get someone to the retention point inside this new membership I'm creating to where they say, "This is awesome, these are my people, this is where I wanna be."
And to do that, there's different things I could do. I could do this event where I call people out and I get people engaged with each other and people feel awesome. It's an emotion.
That's what the retention point is. An emotion where people feel hooked because they are vibing with it. They feel the emotion of it.
Now, when it comes to getting people hooked in the early stages of dating, the key is understanding that the energy you feel they're feeling, but if you can energetically and emotionally connect with them in the early stages of dating, they will then see it through and they will then be interested because it is based on an emotion. People feel and they make decisions based on emotion. Most people.
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