Do These 3 Things If You Get Dumped - IMMEDIATELY | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and 3 things to do immediately if you get dumped!

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What happens when you’ve poured your heart and soul into a relationship and your man ends it? When he gives no warning, no reason; just an “it’s not you, it’s me”.

It’s gut wrenching. And here’s the thing - the way you handle the end of that relationship will determine your love life going forward.

Today, I’m telling you exactly what to do to make this experience a breakthrough, instead of a roadblock.

Watch and out if you’ve been handling these heartaches in a way that will allow you to create your dream love life.

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Mat Boggs Bio:

As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups.

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Written By: Mathew Boggs

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[maddyG]

To be honest, getting dumped was the best thing that ever happened to me years ago. I was determined to become a better person so I went to therapy, got a better job, hit the gym and got a new apartment. It took me awhile to get over that heartbreak but it taught me so much about my standards. I no longer allow anyone to treat me badly. Breakups can sometimes be the catalyst for incredible change.

[gwortman]

I have been dumped and ghosted by a man for almost a year. Currently I have created space between us and am proud to say that every day that passes I feel more confident and secure then I have felt in a long time. I use positive affirmations everyday and take great care of my body and spirit. I use prayer to fully become empowered.

[akshatakorgaonkar]

Biggest mistake we do after getting dump is chasing them or telling them let's fix it. They feel we are obsessed with them and desperate for love. Best is just walk away. Don't say a single word just move on . If he really loves you he will come back within one or two weeks. If not then don't even take them back in your life . Just move on.

[MandabearVA]

I got dumped less than an hour ago. A few days before my birthday. Because I pressed about why he has been distant. He wanted to wait until after New Years to break up with me because he didn't want to stain the holidays. I was in hysterics and now just got home, scrolling, looking for advice. This is a very positive outlook. Thank you.

[andreaborbas]

3:12 Tell yourself an empowering story
4:57 Feel your feelings
6:37 Create closure for yourself writing 3 different letters

[anshikaaryani]

Thank you for this I really needed this. I am really devastated rn my boyfriend dumped me right after I went to see him I gave him too much love and attention and he always took me for granted. I am in so much pain right now but I will not let this pain stop me from receiving all the blessings the universe has for me❤

[christelhall]

I have been dumped after 24 years of marriage, he betrayed me. I started online dating, and had a few "hit and runs" the emotional roller coaster is draining and I've decided to give up. I will much rather live on my own in peace than have to go through all the pain again and again. I'm going to write myself a love letter. And tell myself it's OK to be on my own.

[helekus]

I was in a relationship with this guy for 3 months and we really connected in so many levels. But one day, he told me that he's in a funny headspace and feeling emotionless and needs time to think things through. I respected his decision and let him go. When he took down our pics from social media, I knew I had to move on. What saved me was my faith in God and talking things through with my Mom virtually. I went through feelings of grief, anger, the what-ifs and could've beens. After that, I worked on myself, I got a new job, I got myself a support system of like-minded ladies who helped me through the most difficult parts of the breakup. I know I am destined for greater things, I just need to trust in God's timing, His will and His process. Thanks Mat for everything that you do! 🥰

[zlemonade]

I have watched a lot of videos on breakups and heartbreaks. This is the best!! 6 months post breakup I am feeling better. I thought I would not make it, but things get better. Lots of love and strength to all who are struggling ❤️

[uni_snowflake]

My partner of 4 years ended our relationship over a text on Valentine's Day morning this year. Before I had even woken up he had erased me and my family from all aspects of his life and canceled our joint bank account.

He did this just after I was admitted into hospital after having a miscarriage of our baby, my Aunt died and my grandfather was days away from death.

I have never felt so disrespected and neglected in my life. He was a coward and tried to take the easy way out so he didn't have to deal with the consequences of his actions.

I hope he learns from this, and I hope the next person in his life gets treated better than he treated me.

[indrishahdorval]

You can fight for everything you have . You can hold on as long as you can. You can force yourself into mental gymnastics to pick apart signs. You can have your friends read into texts and emails. You can decide that you know what's best for you and right for you. Mostly you can wait forever. What isn't right for you will never remain in your life. There is no job, person or city that you can force to be right for you if it's not, thought you can pretend for a while. You can play games with yourself, you can justify and make ultimatums. You can say I'll try just a little longer and you can make excuses for why things aren't working right now. The truth is what is right for you will come to you and stay with you, and won't stray from you for long. What's leave the path, clear the path . There is nothing you can do to win someone or something that isn't meant to be yours.

[lookingpeace]

In January, after 21 years together, my man broke up with me out of the blue…completely blindsided and grieving. Trying to process the heartbreak…I will be writing my letters. Thank you, Mat for this video.

[carlyyoung]

I went through this 3 weeks ago. I read something that said, after a breakup. It’s not the person you misses it’s the the feelings you miss not the person. It spoke to me. I’ve been great since that da. Thanks Matt

[blueviolette]

Mat, this video came just at the right time. I got dumped 5 days ago out of nowhere. We were just together a few days before that, cuddling and making holiday plans. I keep blaming myself but you are right, it's not me it's him. If he truly wanted me in his life, he would've fought for our relationship no matter what. Just like how he fought to get me at the beginning of the relationship. If he communicated better and told me about his problems and struggles about our relationship, it could be different. I will try to accept this in the coming days and forgive both him and myself. Thank you so much for this video ❤

[vp]

Thank you Mat. It's almost been 1 year my fiancé and I broke up after having spent 13 years together. I found that the most powerful too to move on is to forgive the other one and most importantly, to forgive oneself for our own mistakes.

[jessicarios]

#1 alleviated the pain. Thank you. I was dumped 8 hours ago. My heart is burning but I really did love him with all my heart. I truly gave my all to him. I did everything I could and learned how to love in new ways. I can say that I'm proud of what I learned and acted out.

Thank you for a beginning of graceful healing. I'm going to move into numbers two and three.

[joederue]

Be friends first and gaurd yourself from moveing to fast.

[AL-sgjd]

I’m a man and been dumped. Today actually. It hurts but I’ve experienced similar in the past. Funny thing is I know when the relationship isn’t going well but I can never seem to be the one to leave because I have a tough time saying bye to someone I love so I end up being the one to get dumped. It hurts but I have faith in God and that maybe better things to come. I’ve always been the nostalgic type and can’t seem to figure out how not to be. Any tips would be appreciated

[vtrippster]

I’m a recent victim of being dumped. It’s a terrible feeling and I wish it for nobody. I haven’t rested well in over a week and can’t help but to dream of her. I feel both betrayed and destroyed. It lasted a good 7 months, her family loved me and my family her. She broke up with me Sunday, May 7th at 11am. We went out to eat with my parents and friends on Saturday May 6th and I took her home around 11:30pm. We had a great night. It’s crazy to think how she could throw everything away in a matter of 12 hours. I’m trying so hard to bash myself but It hurts man. Better now than years from now I guess. Anyways, thank you.

[kimchilds]

Perfect timing, Mat! This week I actually got dumped by someone I thought was becoming a lifelong friend - shockingly, painfully and cruelly, given what we had shared and how emotionally intimate the connection had been. Working on the recovery process you offer...thanks!