do narcissists know they are causing you harm?

Stitch with Ro | Narc Free Journal do narcissists know they are causing you harm?

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[brandonthevampireslayer]

There needs to be a Medal of Honor for the survivors of narcissism, those for the victims who became survivors and those who consistently choose to overcome their narcissistic demons and enlightened themselves to help others in need 💛

[kirbyaugustine]

It took a long time for me to understand that the abuse wasn’t personal.

[carolinavelluto]

yes they know ! the actually feel joy to cause you pain but they lie to you and say it was an impulsive behaviour . THEY ARE AWARE WHAT THEY ARE DOING !

[notayoutuber]

They do know. When my ex toxic person (narc or not, just knew she was very toxic), got into a big argument with her brother, she would ignore his calls, and at one point blocked him. She said she wanted him to "feel" it. Sure enough, did same thing to me that she tried flipping the argument all on me as well. I called, she never picked up, never called me back. So I said screw it, not going to beg someone to talk to me, which felt I always had to beg in order to spend time with her.

[zerodeconduite]

Do unto others. Doesn’t reach them. Their happiness is supreme. They don't even consider you. Your happiness isn't even a thought. They don't care about you, they care about them. What's funny about this ... they work against their own happiness 😂🤣 Their 'impulsivity' is an antithesis to their own happiness. Oh poor Narcissist. We should feel sorry for them ... it's trauma. They chose to deal with the trauma the way they did/have. Stop rewarding them with your attention, your validation, your 'Narcissistic Supply.' Get out and live your life. You don't need them, no matter how much you love them. They contribute nothing. They take.

[PaigeSquared]

If you get hurt, that's your fault, in their minds.

[studentofyahawashi]

I truly believe that the narcissist knows exactly what pain and trauma they cause. One thing I realized about being with a narcissist, is the effect that it had on my health. They say that the mind is connected to your gut, and I was suffering from a lot of stomach ailments, but never put two and two together. I normalized it as if I was just going through some type of health battle. Once I discarded the narcissist harshly, I cut off all contact, and I have not had any issues concerning my digestive system.. Removing the narcissist from my life, has enhanced my health back to its normal state and I’m so grateful. Concerning the question of if a narcissist knows just to summarize yes they know exactly what trauma and stressors they are causing..

[Chbott]

Yes thank you Lee. I now realize how many years I tried to get away and did leave, only to come back and try to make it work. Oh, my marriage vows, oh, he'll change, oh it's probably cause of me and my childhood trauma. My Bi Polar, PTSD, etc. I believed all these years with him, I thought I was the problem. I thought most the time I'd end up in psych hospital was for treatment due to my past. Now today, right now, I know most part was due to how he was treating me. Lord have Mercy! What a revelation ❤

[ericagardens]

yes. it helps Lee. in order to have self respect, i cannot be the chump in my life any longer.

[bunnykinssmile]

That’s why he would non stop call me liar and cheat when I never did anything, whilst he was cheating and lying. An even now I no what he did. He still calls me a liar an says I’m hurting him and says “I no what your doing” what wtf am I doing or ever done nothing. Soon as I remind him what he did he says “now you twisting it on me. Always I’m crying because of you” wtf did I do. I then get upset an angry an he plays victim. Says “you don’t care about my feelings” but clearly my feelings don’t matter to him

[hjio]

They think you’re responsible for the pain you’re in and the situation you put yourself and you can leave if it’s too much, at the same time they’re hurting badly and want to drag you down so it’s equal

[djmandyland]

I remember this specific thing my ex would do where he would make plans to see me after he gets off work (like the change would happen in a 2 to 3 hr span of time) he'd be really excited even talking about fun things we can do etc. then when the time comes I'd get a cold, annoyed call saying "I'm just going to go home" and I'd be sad and confusing and that would be his moment to say "look at you! How could you live with yourself trying to control someone like this! I'm telling you I want to go home and your upset!? That's so selfish Amanda! Wtf is wrong with you!" I still to this day question if I was wrong for being confused or sad that plans and his mood just switched up within 2 hrs and no explanation except "I want to go home" they really really do a good job at making you feel like you're selfish and a bad person.

[HisSacredLove]

My 16 year old narc niece knows, laughs and lies about people who she hurts absolutely insane pyscho

[Superempath]

These are the things narcissist doesn't want us to know I already knew it but thanks for letting me know👍🏾

[vanessajohnson]

THEY KNOW... AND THEY DON'T CARE
. IT'S A GAME TO THEM.. ESPECIALLY IF YOU GO BACK TO THEM.. 😂😂😂😂

[solasmax]

My ex definately intended to hurt me and he even admitted to wanting to punish me when I didnt want to be with him.

[genevieveaniko]

Ya'll better leave these narcs alone.. They only care about themselves and will sacrifice you if it means that they can get what they want. Never ever go back to them.

[strawberrysangria]

Constant cruelty has made me more likely to question the intent of criticism. It helps when you have an idea of who's opinions you should block out and whose to consider. I wouldn't trust a spiteful person to speak my flaws accurately, over someone I admire.

[laquamartin]

They Know And Don't Give A Damn!!!

[kanothe]

So after I walked away I got guilty around a week in, I had blocked everyone. Her and all the monkeys and let my heart rule my head and decided to unblock but she insisted on the silent treatment. She would do creepy hoovering behaviours through others and I said in a message "this is awful I am grieving someone who isn't dead but is doing this through choice" she contacted me through a monkey turning it back on me.