Is your Narcissistic Ex Happy? | Stephanie Lyn Coaching 2022

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Stephanie

I would like to just correct you on one thing. They don't discard and move on, they have already moved on then they discard. They are cowards and can't be alone

[casperinsight]

Realistically, they weren't the person we really wanted either. If we' re being honest, we were hanging on to the future version of who we wanted them to become ☯

[Joyce_]

Narcissistic person is the most coward individuals you can ever encountered they are insatiable. The quest for endless supply goes on and on doesn't matter if you were married to them for many years doesn't matter if they're 80years old they are in need of endless emotional supply. If you think you are with one now run and never look back.

[natrlgrl]

You know you are healed when you see this topic and think, "Who cares."

[sylviakimuge-kvzw]

Having kids with a narcissist have been the worst mistake of my life so far😓

[barbaraviniegra]

A relationship with a narcissist is the worst thing I’ve gone through. Not only do you have to deal with the abuse during the relationship but the aftermath including abusing by proxy and showing off their new supply is beyond anything.

[nikkicole]

His last ex-wife contacted me and we spoke in length. He wrecked that poor woman and her life beyond recognition. And he thinks she's the bad person in it all. Delusion at its finest

[Eg-jdzt]

I feel like narcs are always and will always be miserable. They just find someone else to drag into their misery. Any narc I’ve ever dated was extremely unhappy and angry deep inside due to things that happened in their life (usually childhood)

[deborahasher]

Here's the thing, I feel sorry for my ex. He has no capacity for true love and any woman who becomes involved with him will end up being destroyed. So very sad all the way around.

[kirkhullinger]

Any one reading this. It's ganna take some time...months!!! But I promise you'll get to the point where you are so so so happy they left. If you take that time to heal and work on yourself. You'll be happier than you ever thought you could be..I know this coz I'm there...doesn't mean there aren't bad days...you just know how to handle it now!

[travismcdaniel]

Thank you. By her leaving me, she was paying me a compliment because the door has been opened up for me to get the partner I deserve. Awesome!

[bobbarker]

The narcissist harassed, spied upon me, invaded my privacy, smeared my reputation, interfered in my relationships, nit-picked, tried to make my life miserable and was generally a big, fat KAREN. Therefore I hope they are so happy that they forget all about me and leave me alone. My life is peaceful and happy without them. I have no curiosity nor concern about them other than they stay away.

[eunicegantt]

Wow! The Narcissist leaving you was a GIFT!!

Thank you!!

[Wanderingnomad]

Number 1: go no contact completely
Do not go to look at the new supply who was there all along
When I look it takes me a giant step back and just the visual has to be worked through - that giant step back is very painful
Number 2: it doesn’t matter if they are happy it’s fake - I was just replaced for a shiny new toy and all their trips with her are like my trips - miserable
Number 3: the smear campaign does work just know it and learn the reason why I chose to be with someone so harmful
Number 4: my soulmate is me take care of me love me

[cobbler]

A narcissist is never happy they live in a world of paranoia and hate. They lead pointless lives. Make sure you are happy and lead a meaningful life.

[laurah.]

He moved very fast after he broke up with me, within a month. And now within 3 months the rebound already moved in with him.

[patriciamichael]

They will treat the new interest the same
way they treated you.
It's all a facade.
They are extremely mentally ill.

[discopotato]

My first instinct would be to warn the new supply

[michaeljackson]

We actually fell in love with ourselves. Mirroring. They aren't who the appear to be. Treat them as you would a 5 year old.

[Truman.]

The woman I married was a facade and I had fallen in love with this. When we married the real person gradually appeared and I did confront at times, hoping things would change. Of course, nothing changed and it was a stressful existence with times of happiness over years. When we finally divorced she moved on ultra fast and the the hurt I felt was deep, which surprised me. I did understand she had a new toy. I suppose it doesn't matter if she is happier or not - essentially she will remain the same person. Looking back the person I thought I loved was more like an addiction.