12 Things That Women Say Vs What They Mean: The Ultimate Guide (Never Be Deceived Again)

Learn how to figure out what she actually means. In today's video we're going to be discussing 12 things she says and explain to you what she actually means when she says it.

Have you ever been talking to a woman and been completely dumbfounded by what she has said to you compared to the actions she is displaying? Don’t worry; we’ve all been there.

There’s a running joke that women will say one thing but mean something completely different and expect you to know what they actually mean. This joke comes from the fact that communication between men and women often gets lost in translation due to differences in expectations, language usage, and ways of expressing oneself. This is exactly why people say women are from Venus and men are from Mars: they are completely different species in the way that they think and act. While this joke may be funny, the underlying truth is that there is a real communication gap between men and women that needs to be bridged in order for both genders to understand each other.

In order to help close that gap, we've taken some of the commonly used words and phrases that women use and given you a good explanation of what she actually means.

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[moolis]

A few more:
“I’m busy” = I’m not into you so you’re not worth my time.
“I’m not looking for a relationship” = …with you
“He’s a nice guy” = She doesn’t see him as a sexual interest
“I hate him. He drives me nuts” = He lives in her mind rent free

[maskedgamer]

I think it's easier to make a spaceshuttle, fly to space, discover a new planet then to understand women.

[AngelsandWolves]

Girl psychology 101. One of the dating coaches I follow made a dictionary about this very topic. Thank you for covering this Anna.

[dimpledimple]

Leave me alone for a while = Give me space to clear up my head. I'm the type to really withdraw and hide from people. I deal with my thoughts and emotions alone.
I don't want to ruin the friendship = You are a better friend than a romantic potential
I want to take things slow = And I meant let's get to know each other better. I am exclusively dating you, so no rush. We'll get there. Court me properly. and by that, I meant, introduce yourself and intentions to my family. No kissing, No jumping into your bed. Don't expect anything like that.

[buckaroobaizuo]

“Don’t try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other” - Al Bundy (Married With Children)

[freddiefox.]

Then sometimes a woman can flat out lie, or change her mind abruptly, so that what was true a week ago is suddenly no longer the case, and she goes from "I love you" to "I'm not looking for a relationship". WTF? That's messed-up.

[nightsky]

Womens emotions change frequently so it’s best not to pay attention or take everything they say too seriously. I’m not saying that disrespectfully, if you know they’re getting emotional, dramatic, upset…then listen to her but don’t become reactive or get in that drama tornado with her. Be calm, listen and be a rock for her to cling to. Don’t tell her what to do or get emotionally involved with her rants/drama. They are emotional beings, they usually just want someone to listen without judgements and criticism

[tedsdogwalking]

For me, it's easy. I take you at your word. If she gets upset, I'll explain it once. I take you at your word. If I have to explain it twice, then, we really aren't that compatible, it's time to move on. If you can't be honest in building a relationship, there's no relationship to build. And better to find out sooner, rather than later. For both of us. Why waste both our time.

[tommacbride]

Interrupter, you do a nice day and or night, Cheers!

[SARUJAN]

or just be direct... if you want to be a good communicator

[clementwaweru]

You can't live with them but you can't live without them!. 🍷

[guntertorfs]

Women should learn to communicate honestly and like an adult. Simple. Don't use the reason of not wanting to hurt somebody else's feelings as an excuse for cowardice. One can be sensitive and honest at the same time. Period.

[iangrant]

men use words to say what they mean. women use words to get what they want.

[elvismotorsports]

If she says she's fine, I don't argue with her. I don't need to play games.

[justinbarhorst]

Means she doesn't want to go or you are going to be late.

[nickp]

There really is no pattern you can detect with women. All you need to understand is that women think with their emotions and their emotions are always changing. Weathering a woman is like surviving in the wild. You don’t fight against it, you just do your thing. Always be non reactive. If you do this, you’ll be good to go. You will never figure women out because they’re like nature, they’re unpredictable.

[gherasimtibi]

If u say 5 minutes and u take 30, ur getting left at home

[stians.]

'Women find guys who can make them laugh far more appealing than the typical pretty-boy'.

Which means the opposite. 😉

If she finds you attractive, she will also laugh at any silly thing you say.

[justinbarhorst]

So if they say I am not hungry I will cook something and eat by myself because she is not hungry.

[justinbarhorst]

It's up to you tell her ok that's fine if you don't want to go It's up to you if you don't want to go.