5 Things Women Say That Are MAJOR Red Flags

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[Beherenow]

1. "A real man
2. "If you really liked me you would...."
3. "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
4. She gives Ultimatums
5. "This is just how I am"

Bonus 6. Anything related to Astrology :)

[thomasbruh]

I went on a date with a girl and she asked me my zodiac sign. I told her I didn't know. After a few questions she guessed my correct sign, told me her sign, then said we are 32% compatible. In my mind I was thinking that now we have a 0% chance.

[ajtaylor]

I got one: "A real man would do what he wants whenever he wants, would have his own thoughts and opinions, and would never allow himself to get caught up in what a manipulative woman would deem a 'real man' because he's his own man." There you go.

[wrotenwasp]

After getting divorced in 2005, dating several broke ass screwballs for 10 years or so I finally threw in the towel in 2015. House is paid off at 59 1/2, a nice fat 401K, no credit card debt and I can retire at 62. Much less stress, no one depending on me for $$$$, no criticism over petty things, no more messy house, no more fixing cars for women and Im actually not lonely being somewhat of an introvert to begin with. At almost 60, I just don't need the aggravation. Ive been quite comfortable living by myself for the past 7 years.

[Gavs_rc_hobbies]

I remember an episode of Daredevil where Kingpin was in an art gallery and he was had an interest in the curator there, and she mentioned how most men would make large art purchases to get her attention, and his response was "A woman that can be bought isn't worth having". That has stuck with me ever since

[mrchards]

"If you can't appreciate me when I'm broke, you don't deserve me when I'm rich."
- Men Everywhere

[glasshalffull]

Words of wisdom I was told 40 years ago: A person can only hide who they ‘really are’ for between six months and a year. Please, please wait at least that long before getting engaged or worse, getting married. Be safe out there!!!

[mainnerd]

One red flag for me, when I was dating, is when the a girl would say "You can't handle me." If it's flirtatious, I don't take it seriously, but I've had girls say it to me like I was looking for a challenge and they were the challenge I was looking for. It's a red flag. I take "You can't handle me" seriously. What I hear is "If you date me, or end up marrying me, I'm going to make your life more difficult." My life is already difficult, I don't need more. So I'm going to take your little saying as a free warning you just gave me.

[todmsn]

One woman I dated long ago criticized me for treating her well. She said my consideration for her wants and needs made her say, “you’re more like my girlfriends.” We ended our relationship not long after that comment.

[ChapMeifan]

Thank you for this video. I dated a lady who said, honest to God, all of these to me in the two months we dated. When I found out her body count was over 300 I said 'nope' and walked away. Also she was huge into astrology. Her dating profile talked about the Pisces woman and how amazing she is. Ugh.

[alatmaca]

From my experience, another major red flag I think worth mentioning is when a woman says “all men are trash” (same applies for men who say “all women are trash”). Furthermore, it’s a big red flag when anyone says “ALL men/women are ___”

[GTviper]

God I love how sane Courtney is, it’s like she’s a real person or something.

[David-lxyb]

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" 

If I have to handle you - you don't deserve me.

[phoenixharvesters]

Being six figures and 58 years old. I'm so glad that I have reached that age now to where I can honestly say I don't give a funk about any relationship anymore. I'm happy with myself and that's the way it's going to be for the rest of my life.

[doktrulok]

Thank you for your videos, the irony of then is my ex did all these things and always made me feel like I was losing my mind but I loved her unconditionally. Then out of the blue she said I’m just not what she needs, we sold our house and we moved on. She said she still wanted to date though but the more of your videos I watch the more I saw how horrible of a person she was and she never was a partner. Thank you because I stopped fighting to get her back and I’ve been so happy when I finally let go.

[TaiChiGhost]

I'm 72 years old now, single, and out of the game. I clicked on this for late night amusement, but when you got to #5 I heard this loud bell in my head. I was dating a very sexy and intelligent girl (we were in our early thirties) and after the usual 1-2 month honeymoon she started to show an ugly temper. When I asked her how she expected to get away with such abusive behavior she said "Well, if you want a smart, sexy woman you'll just have to put up with it."
Of course that was the last time I saw her, but I did call a few weeks later to say an official good bye, no criticism, just goodbye.

[mike]

If she is ever talking about “figuring her life out” “working on herself” tell her good luck with that and leave. You may think that supporting her during this is a good thing, except once she “figures it out” the new her is going to need a new man that doesn’t know her old ways… and that’s not you!

[tannhauser]

Three weeks before our wedding, we're at a Christmas party. A group of about eight people (including us) are in a circle just doing idle chit chat when she contributes, "All men are assholes." Dead silence. The group just scattered for other parts of the room and left the two of us standing there.

I'm just looking at her when she says, "What?"

"Am I an asshole, or am I not a man?"

"I was just kidding.'

Biggest mistake of my life was when I let the wedding happen on schedule.

[seventhson]

"I THOUGHT YOU SAID YOU LOVED ME." EVERY woman that I have ever told that I loved has tried to use that as a WEAPON against me.

[Trex]

Girl ive dating for 2 months told me “In the past men have spoiled me and you dont do enough for me. You dont spend enough on me.” This was said after I paid for all the dates and I flew across the country to see her after she went back home. Any thoughts?