6 Things Women Say & What It ACTUALLY Means… (Don’t Be Fooled)

In this video, I go over what she says and what it ACTUALLY means. Hopefully this video helps you see things more clearly and know when it’s time to take your time, effort and energy somewhere else.

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[josephstevens]

I was never fooled by #1..., one time I had a crush on a girl, so I asked her out. She responded with the classic, "I'm not looking to be in a relationship" line. I immediately knew she wasn't interested me, so I moved on.

[nilmadhavkalyan]

Clear rejection is better than procrastination. Thanks on behalf of men.

[Paducahrus]

Funny story about the 24-48 hour rule. I had my first date with my wife in 1999. I had previously had horrible dating luck. I was shy, I was somewhere between insecure and unconfident, I tried too hard when I should have read the signs. Because I was always concerned that I tried too hard, I would use the 3-day rule where I would wait a couple of days before calling.

At the end of our first date I told her, "I'll call you in a few days." Her response was, "Fine. I"ll call you tomorrow." 🤣 We've been together since.

[mohdgh]

One thing I have learned, if a girl genuinely wants you, she’ll go extreme measures to be with you. Don’t fight for any other type of girls or relationships.

[Avado]

"She is never to busy for you, if she really likes you". I really really really needed to hear that. Thank you

[ionelvranceanu]

"i don't wanna ruin our friendship" = i don't wanna lose all the benefits from you without obligations, and when they say "you're a great guy, but..." i usualy tell them: you're right! i am a great guy, thats why i deserve better. thank you for reminding me that. bye!

[muchfun]

Important thing to remember! Thy are not sugar coating things to protect YOUR feelings, but to protect THEIR feelings and for them not to feel responsible for anything!

[pwilk]

I'm 63 and I have heard all 6 and feel silly that I still have held out hope embarrassingly recently, thank you because this list is spot on!

[godskisonsunday]

A girl told me "I'm not looking for a relationship right now. Can we just be friends?" I said yes. Two weeks later we slept together, and we went on to have a four-year relationship. Thing is, I actually was prepared to just be friends, and she sensed my sincerity. I think sometimes women aren't honest with themselves about what they want.

[AngeloJParks]

I want to share one CRAZY experience I had last year! I took this girl on a date, and the date went well; we went on a 2nd date. Then she told me that she “wasn’t ready for a relationship, ” and she was “extremely introverted, ” and couldn’t see herself getting married for at least 10 years, and she wanted to live in a camper and travel around alone. Well, 3 months later—she got engaged and then got married last month. I thought “Yeah, no matter how far-fetched her story may be—it’s all BS.” 🤣

[alexrock]

Great video. Once a famous pimp who’s name was Johny Dollar was asked to give young men love advice. He said: Never love a woman you want, love a woman that wants you and you will be happy. Best advice ever coming from 50 years of pimping. You could write a book around that one sentence. Some quotes are just so powerful.

[tobydulanski]

It's nice to see a woman use practical common sense in dating. Having an outlook of "Action Speaks Louder Than Words". Watch what people do not what they say. Honesty is not valued by enough people.
Thank you Courtney.

[denzelmalcolm]

1. 0:50 “I’m not looking for a relationship right now”
2. 2:40 “I’ve been busy”
3. 4:08 “I don’t want to ruin our friendship”
4. 5:51 “You’re a great guy but..”
5. 7:53 “I can’t this week, I’m busy”
6. 9:24 She doesn’t say anything at all

[attensecallaway]

"Right person, wrong time... no such thing- if they were the right person, it would have been the right time." This is gold! I always go by this rule. I've also heard it said another way: "don't water dead plants."

[ranjanudayashankar]

I was talking to a woman at least three times a week and it felt totally natural but then out of nowhere she kept saying she’s busy with work and almost never hear from her unless I message her first. This video is very refreshing.

[dhanrajmohan]

Public comment. Honesty and integrity and respect is the most important thing in life..thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with everyone.

[cpcurtis]

I was talking to a girl at my last job and we always had great, hilarious conversations. Eventually, I realized that I had started every conversation we ever had. When I stopped initiating conversations, they stopped completely. Luckily for me, she was fired two weeks later. Problem resolved.

[cisium]

When I was young and stupid, I used to cling onto those little "glimmer of hope" expressions. Going into business for myself helped me see that everything that's not a clear "Yes" is some form of a "No." People who have no intention of buying your product or service will waste as much of your time as you give them, because they just can't handle the confrontational aspect of saying "No" to you. Even if you don't necessarily write those people off completely, you stop expecting anything; you stop spending any emotional capital on them.

[JustCallMeNosey]

Actions always speak louder than words. Pay close attention to what they do vs what they tell you. That always seem to produce the more truthful answer(s). And don't be reluctant to walk away. It may be really painful, but it will either attract them to you or save you from even more heartache in the end. In either case, it aint easy to go through any of this. It can make you question at times whether any of this is worth your time, money and effort. Only you can decide that for yourself. Stay focused on your goals and stay strong.

[jerryesque]

The friendship kind of makes sense to me. I think our friendship is more valuable than actually getting into a relationship. Maybe I lost interest or something, but its actually rare to have a friendship these days. I'm glad we still have fun all the time together, it wouldn't be the same if it was a relationship.