5 Habits That Changed My Life 🌞

5 Habits That Changed My Life! These are the major habits & mindset shifts that have changed my life for the better and led me to a happier, more productive and fulfilled life. What is one habit that has changed your life for the better? Share below!

Inspired by my girls MuchelleB & Erin May Henry. Watch their videos:

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Aileen Xu
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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle blogger sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.

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[Thefitty]

*thumbs up if Aileen has ever inspired you to adopt a habit or inspired you in some way!*

[UcancallmeEly]

I have took down some notes for my personal reference.
Just sharing it out :)

1. APPROACH LIFE IN AN OPEN MIND - even if you already know something, always be humble and listen because there might be something to be learnt (that you have previously missed out)

2. JOURNALING - this helps to get things out of our chests. helps to dig deep within us, for self reflection and finding out more about ourselves on a deeper level. 

3. KON-MARI MINIMALIST MINSET - keep the things that makes you happy. whatever that bring you the most joy, so that you won't waste your time and energy on unimportant things

4. DO THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS FIRST - a more productive and effective approach to life

5.PRACTICE GRATITUDE - cultivate gratitude to a consistent daily practice, focus on what you do have, and be thankful for everything you have in your life. rather than focus on the negative. how you feel will shape who you are. happy thoughts will lead to a happier life. how you see things will change how you feel, how you feel will change the reality of your life.

Thank Aileen for the wonderful video. Keep doing what you're doing, you're doing great!

[lazynight]

1 switch from "I already know this" mindset to "What can I learn from it" mindset
2 journaling
3 KonMari declutter method
4 prioritize, do the most important tasks first
5 being grateful, enjoy the little things

[susanvelez]

YES! Your mind is a powerful tool. My poor mother has suffered from being afraid of everything her entire life. She is 94 and it breaks my heart.

[thydaphoungsokun]

At the age of 12, I started to watch your video and i learnt to be with myself. I learnt to do and share everything with myself. I changed my mindset from the dark side to a brighter side that help me to be a positive thinker. Now, i am positive in the worst situation in my life. You open my mind a lot. I am happy to get to know your channel. You are amazing. ❤love you

[kylie]

I love how you put " *my* life" instead of "...that will change your life!" because it makes it seem like you can actually get something from it that has worked for someone else rather than like a lifehack

[brittanycarson]

100% agree with the first habit, I've been studying ballet for years and continue to learn more about the art each day that are considered the basics of ballet

[todayscloudyy]

I'm now journaling for two weeks since I watched your videos, it helped me organize my thoughts after breaking up my very first boyfriend. Now I'm starting to focus in myself after letting my world revolve around him. Journaling really helps. Although it still hurts, I'm still working for the pain but your videos helps a lot to my recovery process. Thank you! Wishing you'll give me a journal on my birthday tho. It's on November 26, queen! Thank you! 😊

[lotierosewood]

Hello, I am a new one on your channel and I can completely identifiate myself with everything you describe for you : eliminate the wrong vibes, do the important things first, organise your home with only joy making furnitures... It makes me happy to watch your video cause this it the very first one I play on Youtube on this theme ! Continue with this goodwill and simplicity, it is great ! And even if I speak English more or less fluently, I really appreciate the French subtitles :)

[TheWholePointe]

Isn't amazing how much power we have when we change our mindset? I love how much I can affect just with my brain! Brilliant.

[FERNANDAKT]

I am 68 and I am learning so much with you, such a young person. I love your videos. I think I will send them to my daughter. I like your ideas and how you approach life. Congratulations for being so young and so knowledgeable.

[LilliesforSeverus]

I can’t sleep tonight and thus have been binge-watching your videos. I can now happily say that I’m a subscriber. I think I may finally have reached a point at which I can sleep successfully... but I have enjoyed discovering your videos and look forward to exploring more of your older posts as well as new uploads. Thank you for what you do ❤️

[thiquynhnhunguyen]

I am totally convinced by what you are saying. I really love to watch your video to get myself more energy. If we have look at the bright side, we make the world a better place. It's our hands. Thanks again!

[Happydays_]

Watching ur videos gives me a whole lot of positive energy and confidence to move ahead!!!!started watching it when I was feeling low...but after watching ur videos I started feeling good and now boosted up to take small positive steps to bring out all the change that I want in my life!!!!Thanks Aileen!!!Lots of love to u!!!

[Piquetures]

I really wish I’d have heard tip number one about approaching everything with the mindset of “what can I learn from this” when I was in school! Now that I’m out of school, I’m more excited than ever to keep learning! I think that’s one of the main reasons why your videos never get old for me! Even if it’s similar concepts over and over, I believe there’s something new to be learned from each one! 😊🌸

[yashumagar]

There was time when I was so depressed!
I was so hurt ! I was broken ! However after suffering from all of my problem, I decided to write things that frequently playing on my mind which made me depressed !
I don’t know how I came to journaling things cause I really didn’t like these thing before !

But after starting writing habits, made me so relief and light ! I kinda helped me to move from those problems ! It’s really helped me !

And lastly what I liked the most about this video is the last point ! I’m definitely gonna try that’s one !
Thank you for your videos, it really helping us ! So inspiring ✨💖

[SaraMakesArt]

I've been doing morning gratitude journaling for about the past month and I think it's really improving my mood.

[studywithjf]

I really love the positive smile on your face and that's why I am being positive day by day

[NikaaKm]

Thank you for that video! What you said about how you do one or two important things during your day and then you are satisfied with yourself was really inpring to me. I have trouble getting a lot of things done as well and to see you keep achieving success (that is a happy and balanced life, healthy relationships, impacting other people's lives...) and being grateful to your own self for what you done was very comforting/liberating to me. I can see that most of my creativity stands hostage of what society considers productivity, and I can never forgive myself for not being able to walk that same pace. Thank you for sharing that lesson with me.

[bellywhitford]

Journaling is something that I started doing more consistently a few years ago and now I can really feel that it changed my life. More recently I started writing the morning pages and it is part of a morning routine. Adopting a routine has such an impact on my mood and productivity! :-) Another habit that has changed my life for the better is learning to focus on one activity at a time. I used to start activities or projects but never finish them because my attention was dragged to something that I thought more interesting until the next "more interesting" thing popped up... In short, my mind was a mess! After I started changing my mindset to go with my projects until the end, I felt more productive, organized, confident and happy.