Is the relationship going to last? #mindset #love #partner #dating

Is the relationship going to last?

[emeraldchat]

Asking the tough questions about the future in a relationship shows a genuine desire for connection and intimacy, turning fear into an opportunity for growth together

[lesleysze]

Well said.... It's scary when the thing gets real. The truth is not everyone can be courageous to face this.

[Mariliza.]

The problem is so many are afraid to face the truth.

[BridinHarnett-uoqr]

Enjoying the company of the other without anxiety or fear is the sweetest thing. It is another's gift to me that I would feel sufficiently comfortable and relaxed to be myself. Then the other emerges - without an investigation - by itself. ❤

[Lonely-wc]

I did this and he ran..
Away.
So.. it
Freed .. me from him.. because he was not ever going to commit

[NSQ-]

I love asking modern day men that question, they run out the door when they know you’re onto them and they know you love yourself and you’re not gonna let them drag you through years with no commitment or being in another situationship! Keep knowing your worth and your value women! Never settle for weak men that give you less! 💕

[AndreaLikesMusic]

Not only are these great questions, it’s a great loop.

[Kimmypooh]

Yep - when you asked those tough questions tough decisions needs to be done. People will waste your time and money to their own selfish desires if you’re not vigilant to discern PRETENDERS vs Contenders….the sooner you figure it out the easier you let go the people or situation that doesn’t belong to you..

[SS-srvr]

Mark my words, one of the wisest person modern western civilization has produced on relationships.

[tedamjoke]

What bonds them? Trauma or truth? That hit me deep..for me it was trauma. He’s an absolute narcissist. Didn’t know anything about narcissists or gaslighting or reaction responses. I just thought this was life. It had been for 27 years. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[nuez]

When i shared my future dream i got blocked by 90% of all online dating users. As od this generation is able to communicate anything else than ho and ok

[reneesmith]

Timing is everything, but DO ask the question; in good time.

[marcellejane]

These days people won't commit to taking you out for a simple coffee date but waist your precious time talking through messages and on the phone for hours. I've cut people off after 3 weeks of texting and no date. I've told them I'd like to meet for coffee or go out and they ignored me. It's so boring to me i know everything about them over the phone and I'm done with people using up my valuable time. I want to be treated like a lady and I deserve a date.

[Callie-joe]

Met a man 16 years ago, we worked together, we had a "thing" for a few months, found out I stupid because he was still married so I walked away humiliated.. fast forward 4 years of after, ran into him again, he's no longer married and I'm not into him, so I kind of friend zoned him, he didn't like that, I met someone who liked me as I am so left him again and went on to have a relationship with the other person ... As of March my now ex left me after listening to his family that I wasn't good enough for him, I'm devastated... Said same man comes back into my life, after years pass, someone told me once that he was my soulmate just wrong timing... Now my query is should I allow myself to be a part of his life again? Or just leave him to just someone I know...as I'm scared of him hurting me again

[jossfangirl]

I asked the question ... and that was that..

[OneEyedreaper]

Funny I end up asking just to get the same answer… silence 🤐 cuz I never meant shit to you. Word of advice if someone says they need you that means to they wanna use you. If they wanna be with you they do cuz they can and want to not cuz they gain a lot or are using to get what they want

[leonorejanson]

I'd love to listen to a full conversation that he's had. What is his name?

[felipeborges]

Am I the only one who find these cuts terrible? The words come out so fast, with no pause in between and time to breathe, that it is very difficult to process and the message don't really come across as it should.