Why narcissists DO NOT like to see you HAPPY

Narcissists are your biggest haters! They can absolutely HATE to see you succeeding in any way and your happiness could actually start to irritate them and make them lose their minds. Your happiness could make them feel insignificant and they could try to knock you down and invalidate you as well.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[NyquiIxsprite]

They don’t like to see you happy because they’re not happy themselves

[nicolebeard]

Jealousy, entitlement, and the need to feel “special” or “above others”. I can’t believe I married my own hater. Divorced him, too 😅

[christinlewis]

He used to tell me "you're in a good mood today" "you're happy today" as if it was a problem

[AliceLytle]

I really believe that Lee. I’ve never met a narcissist who hasn’t been insanely jealous. 😒

[tsujic]

Love this video. The only time they are happy for you is when it benefits them.

[SzilviK]

It's jealousy and envy (even though they claim they are not) Just miserable seeing you happy because they have to pretend instead of being genuinely happy . Their whole life is fake and pretend .

[pamela]

Thank you for addressing issues that other narcissistic videos dont, Lee.
My narcissistic husband lectured me, "no one can make you happy. You have to happy with yourself". I WAS happy before he came into my life!!
The narcissist can't stand their partner getting attention or doing better than them. I cant wrap my mind around the mind games. Add the rage, jealousy, and hate to poor communication skills equals divorce. Instead of teamwork and partnership, you get to be a punching bag, a target, and an enemy.
Game over

[kimmae]

They want everyone to be just as miserable as they are. With my ex I went from doing no wrong, to doing everything wrong, and he had a problem for every solution. He's just incapable of being happy, and miserable people spread their misery onto others.

[liorasitelman]

Because they’re miserable people and want you to be miserable too they’re awful. Even in my worst depression I never wanted others to be unhappy

[latricehankerson]

This truly pisses me the fu*k off. Honestly. It makes it easy for me to never ever ever talk to him again.

[AliceLytle]

This helped me a lot to see into the head space of a narcissist friend. Thank you, Lee.

[Anna-oue]

He thought a bunch of flowers would make up for a sleepless night we had arguing that he caused. I was not happy and he went about complaining to his family members for my being ungrateful for the flowers.

[monicabrown]

They can sense when you are happy even when you are not showing it then watch out that joy want last for long 😮

[cathyh]

"They are just internally hateful." 💯 Few of them realize that they need to tap into or develop good-will towards other people and only then they can really feel it for themselves too.

[sinajones]

They then becomes the victim!! miserable they are can’t get their life together pretends to be together, but they’re really not not. They’re really broken people.

[flowatress]

I would call and say “good morning” and he would say “what’s so good about it”! And just like that, an energy/vibrational shift!!

[missbeautyelise]

It's the truth!!!! My mom literally rolls her eyes when people says that I'm pretty. If she says it I better smile big, but let someone else say it and make me smile. 😬

[DawnShares]

I feel like I am in a fight for my life right now and I am the only one that cares

[mariaj]

I remember having to Google “why is my husband upset because I’m happy”. That’s the first time I came across what a narcissist was.

[JillDinardo-mbii]

I noticed what gets their goat is when you can keep smiling through their abuse. BOO YAH!