Do narcissists hate you?

[whitneyh]

That last line is key. "They want you to feel how they feel". Projection 101

[frickenwin]

Lately I’ve been thinking “well he sure as shit didn’t like me.” Can’t act this way towards someone you care for.

[marcirobins]

They hate you four times a week and twice on Sundays.
Don’t take it personally. They’re just haters.

[forrealtho]

Its true… the more successful you become the more they try to bring you down.

[lulzaccount]

This is probably one of the best summaries of narcissism.

[LaMasLinda]

Wow I never thought about this, you’re right. Once the mask is off and you can see them, they must hate that.

[SageAlchemyPodcast]

Exactly. If you're 'better' than them, which can include simply being a more morally correct and friendly person, they will absolutely hate you 😂

[nikital.]

I feel he hates that I was able😅 to buy my home, pay my own bills, car insurance, health insurance as a lone female. I’m more organized, doing things, have friends, a life & people that actually love me.

[teresarenee]

but they take that hate out on you...thats the real problem.

[JessLin]

This makes sense. Thanks for the insight. That’s why they treat us the worst. I told him I’m the only one that knows the REAL you.

[illuminated_]

When you keep it real around fake people they’ll start to dislike you, assassinate your character, play the victim, use weak reverse psychology, lmao leave them immediately.

[sweetoneloves]

Hell yeah, they hate you of what you have and what they dont have

[lioness]

Idc if narcissists hate me. I don't live for them.🤨

[Didilolo]

I don’t think he hates me, I think he hates all women. At least he thinks all women are lesser beings. Chasing women has nothing to do with love, It has everything to do with hunting, capture, control and using until he gets tired. He also gets satisfaction out of dumping or discard and causing pain for the 1000 ways they weren’t good enough or to stupid or boring. Then he simply goes onto the next. same story, Over and over and over.

[therealbizzle]

My ex was very traumatized and needed to share her pain with me, and that was a cry for help packed inside of a rage bomb. I had to leave even tho I love her more than anyone in the world. I miss her every day and always will.

[PebbleBeachSouth]

When my ex and I would argue, he would get very frustrated and defensive. He would walk away and say, “UGHHH You always make me feel so…….” Most of the time he couldn’t really finish that sentence, but I always knew he meant that I made him “feel so badly” about himself. Sometimes I felt guilty, like I had said something egregious; but in hindsight, these we’re just normal arguments that he would consistently exacerbate to a point of no return. He could not handle even the slightest bit of criticism.

[lamar]

They want you make them feel special, but it's only a delusion to them. You could never make them feel special no matter what. You want to be loved in a special way, in return for your interest in them. Never happens. The more you give, the less you get mentality.🤯

[Abundantanna]

This is golden. Thank you for being honest.

[dt]

I always told him that I knew he hated me by the way he would treat me.

[thembekilemabona]

He used to tell me he hate me, and id tell him lets break up then, he would walk out at that moment and when he come back he would pretend as it nothing happened and deep down I knew he meant it.