Narcissistic Men Are Deeply Misogynistic and hate confident women

[dmcsunshine]

This is when all their evil turns against you the moment you stand up for yourself

[beaulieuc]

As a woman, I would agree with this. They can't stand confidence and yes, they are triggere. Well said, great video. I get this all the time when I stand up for myself. Thanks for validating.

[jesterstears]

Indeed
He hates me so much cause I didn’t break down, never cried, and just moved out and disappeared. He said to me: you think you are better than everyone else… I said NO but I vibrate at a higher level than you. You vibration is low so you attract people as the drinking friends you have, that gossip and don’t have any money… 😂wow
He got so mad !!! 😂😂😂

[Burn]

Well said! Sad how a lot of narcissistic men will try to tear down confident women. Scary how there’s so much of these type of men out there, they’re out of control!

[britishkashmiri]

That explains everything about my marriage to covert narcissist, only I didn’t know anything about these devils beforehand. I was at peak of my career, living a life he could only dream of. I didn’t even fancy him or like him at first as my sixth sense warned me something was off with this short bold overweight guy. He was a good listener and that’s how he trapped me, he gathered all the knowledge about me and my life, my weaknesses and my trauma. 20yrs later, he used everything against me to destroy me, financially, mentally, triple bypass later, he drove me to a point where I packed his bags and took my house key off him. Twice he tried to get back with me on his terms but Alhamdulliah I have since educated myself on these devils. I’m no contact with him, ignore his messages and I’m now getting on with my life. It hurt so much to be made a fool of but now I know that these devils can trick the strongest of minds. When I spelled out exactly what he was and what he was trying to do, he lost his mind. He had what is called a narc melt down, looked like the devil himself and all the ugly, nasty, vile poison came out. I will never forget his eyes went black, his mouth was just a snarl and he was frothing at the mouth. He threatened to ruin the car into oncoming traffic but I never lost my composure, stayed calms with a smile on my face which dreams be him insane. Few weeks later he tried to hoover but I’ve not even acknowledged his contact. Alhamdulliah my faith is strong and I have beautiful adult children who are my life. He is now with his first cousin wife who is also a narc, he’s old and struggling financially, his time for paying for all the evil is getting closer. My life is far far better and I’m finally at peace in my heart, running my own business again and my health has improved immensely since he left. Stay away from these devils, they will try and destroy you

[rehena]

They make my blood boil .. Why are some men like this.

[Gizzyy]

The cause of me being an independent woman and having strong boundaries is because I was once controlled by a narcissistic male. That's why he is no longer in my life because he can't control me anymore, and looking for another girl to control.

[rheahoover]

Well I left mine. Now he's a different guy. But I'm on high alert. I don't give him a chance to strike at me.

[patriciajoseph]

Oh boy. Now I understand what's happening. Thanks for the information.

[j.j.]

That is so true that they are misogynistic...

[smarternow]

I am his enemy because I am strong. He hates me

[ThatMontanaMom]

I will offer an interesting twist on this concept. Outside of my love relationship, I WAS a confident, assertive woman, not afraid to set boundaries. However, I was never taught the difference of what a healthy intimate relationship, or love bombing looked like. No one taught me love bombing was a red flag that would eventually lead me down the path of becoming a domestic abuse victim, then, after, thankfully only five years, a domestic abuse survivor. I was lucky. I got out alive. For me, and I suspect many people who were never taught a belief structure built of positive emotional interaction, I was so depleted of self love and self esteem when it came to an intimate relationship, that I blinded myself to the red flags the relationship had shown. As I listened to this post, it triggered the memory of the first time he hit me. I don't have an exact memory of what the argument was about. I remember the feeling that something was going on that brought up that feeling of something being done that was not good or positive. I remember thinking, "Like hell will I put up with being treated like this!" Names. He was calling me horrible, filthy names. It had been starting to happen more and more. It was making me so angry I wanted to do the same back. At the same time, I didn't want to stoop to that level. I was angry, but telling him what he was doing wasn't ok and I wasn't going to tolerate it. He had already thrown a glass candle holder at my feet and it had shattered, a piece of glass flew up and cut my shin. Then he attacked me. That part comes in flashes. He leg swept me and slammed to the ground. I fought back, but he was former combat infantry. I remember a thick stick he had that had a burl knot on it. He hit me in the head with it twice before I got my hands up to deflect the blow. I remember thinking he was going to smash my skull in.

When his verbal, emotionally abusive behavior failed to control me he immediately escalated to insane violence to accomplish that control. What that moment did to me on an INTERNAL level was SO MUCH worse than the physical blows. To say it completely threw every part of my
reality into absolute chaos would be an understatement. I had already been dealing with the cognitive dissonance, a term I had never even heard of before I left. Shock, confusion, rage fear... Like the floodgate of every negative emotion had blown open at once. I had never experienced anything like this before. The reality of my life changed in such a way it didn't seem real. Now, as I work through the process of remembering who I am and who I want to be, cleaning up the wounds to my Self that I did not even realized had begun long before I met a violently abusive partner, videos like this, while they can be a trigger to memories I wish I didn't have, I stand in deep Gratitude to you, Danish Bashir, for giving me the tools of understanding through these videos, that I may better understand the unhealthy systems I was operating within that led me down those darker paths. These understandings will allow me the insight to grow beyond the thoughts and habits that could have, literally cost me my life.

[TM-nbzf]

Yup. I was talking to a guy that gave me all the signs that he was narcissistic.
And he literally told me he use to hate women.
He also said he liked that i had boundaries and wouldnt give up trying to pursue me. I believe it was a chase for him and he was definitely going to try to ruin my life.
I wasted alot of his time talking and then blocked him. I needed him to feel rejected 😂
I cant comprehend women that would date someone that says they hated women.
I pray for the women that gwt tangled in his web

[alina]

Basically if a guy is acting controlling towards you 9/10 times it’s because he “gets turned on” from taking away your power. That 1/10 time is because he’s a psychopath that probably does want to hurt you.

[connectcareagency]

I finally stood up for myself and said I will protect myself and he has taken it as a threat and that I am not following his lead.

[welllookahere]

Spot on, .. he was looking up how to break a woman’s ego, …

[benparks]

Right on, bro. I have seen that before. Have a friend who used to be married to a narcissist loser. He would beat he and she would fight back as best as she could. He would yell, "cry b***h, cry!" while he was beating her right in front of their little girl and she would say NO!! That made him so mad. She ran over to the kitchen and got a butcher knife and dared him to hit her again. He didn't. They're divorced now. He tried to control her but it didn't work.

[loveiseternal]

My ex always said I remind him of his mum I thought that was gross and he hated me talking to her very very sad 😑

[Gizzyy]

Imagine if a woman said this, she would get a lot of hate

[jada]

My ex who i recently just left was super toxic and abusive towards. After 4 years being together we was on and off and when i finally broke it off. His true colors and demon side came out. He said i hate all you women and accused me of cheating when i never did cheated on him. I just couldn't take no more of his deminic ways and i left. It hurts when you love someone only to find out they carry demonic energy from their childhood now onto you.💔