Feeling anxious when you spend money | Fear of making more than others

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[tshidisorasehlapa]

I didn't grow up poor. But my parents never thought buying clothes was important. I'd have new school uniform every year but coming to anything else? We never had Christmas clothes or anything like that. My parents believed in buying what we need at the time. A pair of boots once in a while. A dress in summer. 5 pairs of panties when the ones I have start having holes.

My wardrobe when I started working? 😢 I'm even ashamed. On Thursday I wore a skirt for the first time in 3 years and when i got to work my learners asked me whats on my bum only to find out it had holes because it was eaten by mole for just sitting too long 😢

My fear of not having clothes has led me to hoard clothes

[Graciously_Thriving]

Sis Jenn, you're amazing honestly, and today you really outdid yourself.🥺
You don't understand the kind of impact you're having on lives out here. I've been listening to you for a while and I've never been more confident about the path I'm taking and the decisions I'm making.

My story:
I'm a 22 year old. First year in uni(definitely a late bloomer). And I work 2 part time jobs to keep myself afloat. My parents cover my tuition only(which they're barely affording to, I can never thank them enough). I had been sinking into anxiety because I felt like I never have extra, I'm always on a tight budget and there is no room for anything else. I'm never behind on any bill but I'm one emergency away from falling into chaos financially. I try so hard to be an intentional and responsible young adult. I never really have anything to save after all expenses are paid. (rent, groceries, transport, short courses)
I definitely invest in my skills, talents, hobbies, relationships and the well being of my body cause I know all this will pay off in the long run. Some days are extremely HARD, but I rarely call home to ask for anything cause they're barely getting by. I told my self that I can and I will. My life is my responsibility now and I'm proud of how far I've come 😊. Your content has been a ray of light to me.

So thank you, from the bottom of my heart❤️✨

[jameelah_]

I love the idea of leaning into gratitude when money leaves your account. I'll definitely be implementing that but instead of thanking money, I'll be thanking God who is my source of provision. Money, like many other things, is only a tool; a part of the manifestation of God's provision and Him enabling me to live freely and abundantly.

[alvotiniatsepiso]

This just triggered me to realize that I feel so comfortable with having no money in my account….it just feels right. As soon as I have money I feel the need to just blow it….. 😭

[sphiwemathunjwa]

Covid opened my eyes. I quit work, started a business and dropped lots of habits. Now I am making enough and not living for debt. I am healing from childhood traumas

[Ms-Mofoka]

Hi sis. I realised that I actually don't feel scared that much about payday when I budget before payday. Thank you so much for your videos❤

[lebohangseseane]

This triggered a whole lot of traumas. I can't even share my financial achievements (big/small) with my family/close relatives because it feels like I'm leaving them behind while I progress and that makes me sad. I learnt so much about myself and my relationship with money. There's definitely a lot of work I need to do on myself.

[NeoM]

You just know which buttons to push hey. One needs a deep dive into this.

[charmainephasoana]

Don't forget..we watch ads this side ❤

[mphohleza]

This was a beautiful video, and will inspire a lot of us to self-introspect and not just handle money at face value; because it is that deep!

[williamtlhoale]

This is touching sensitive parts of me because of how much I relate💔.

[Ru]

Triggered!!! I'm a money hoarder and money makes me anxious

[thamingobeni]

Thank you for receiving my comment, Jenn.I was driving while listening to your video and felt so happy that my gratitude practice is being shared with others.

I was reflecting on my experiences on pay day. I was so grateful that I am able to use my money to assist in changing the course of someone's life for the better. I know that funding my niece's matric rewrite expenses will pay off and break the poverty cycle. So yes, our money must work for us. Money can provide more value if correctly allocated.

Thank you once again, Jenn ❤.

[karaborhandzu]

Thanks to my NSFAS allowance and bursary for keeping me in school. Filled with gratitude. thank you sis Jenn!

[marthakumwenda-dwys]

I never knew this problem is coming from back ground. I really hurt having money

[rosanaobes]

Thanks Jen u totally change my mindset when it comes to money

[MMALKG]

month end gives me anxiety literally two days after payday my money it's finished. it's soo bad. I love your content sis Jenn.

[sellomara]

"It's okay to be privileged"
Thank you auntie Jenn❤

[hanik_]

Ya ne financial traumas....its such content that helps us to heal from our traumas....Thank you for this ☺

[OlgarVMotaung]

Hi Jenn, I'm so inspired by you ive been on track since Jan with my debts I closed one account already I had planned to be half way thru my phone account but I fell back in March I felt so sad and demotivated I felt like I wasn't meant to be financially free but this season of financial trauma n healing is making me feel I need to take it easy on me and work out how I can recover. Thank you so much