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[Preston-cpjt]

I experience all these feelings and it's honestly a living hell. It makes me hate myself.

[Kitsuya]

I really felt anxious in my previous relationship and thank you for letting me understand that. I really want to work on myself so that Im ready for someone new.

[sherrychoksi]

IN A RELATIONSHIP WTH A NARCISSIST ONE CAN ALWAYS FEEL ANXIETY STRESS, DRAINING, TIRED BY END IF THE DAY ....DS VIDEO WAS FOR HEALTHY NORMAL RELATIONSHIP

[kvs]

I’m having all these feelings. My girlfriend of one year has gotten a couple messages from an a guy she dated before. He asked her out to dinner, and she told him that she was seeing me. She told me I’ve nothing to worry about yet I feel turned off by this.

[debraglows]

I have all these except for the last one. I am never controlling. I just observe and let them be.

[libr]

This is true for any type of relationship- just all to different extents that match the relation

[elsh]

This described a non abusive version of my ex... except that everything I did to create connection and true intimacy was always shut down or blocked by such a huge level of inauthenticity.

Turned out he was a diagnosed covert narcissist 🤷‍♀️

[Lazy-bliss]

I never had those before. But after narcissist relationship. I developed all those and never again trusted anyone. So i avoided being in a relationship

[caribbeanparadise]

this is exactly what I experienced when I got married. ..arranged marriage. fast forward 15 yrs later I moved out with my kids and living peaceful in my parent's house that was unoccupied for years.

[ioannak.]

How to not push people away? I am an anxious attachment and I really want to be more secure in my approach in relationships...

[BeeRich]

The signs of a stable relationship wouldn't have me questioning them. Their behaviour has me questioning that. The first two points, I was all-in guilty. Then again, CPTSD, myself.

[PietapietPieta]

I have number 1 100% makes more clear. Thanks!

[aaliyahhhhhhh]

What about scared of being in a relationship

[sarahdimajo]

And just with that video I now understand my previous partner's behaviour...

[christeennongrang]

Can anyone give me advices on how to deal with all these right now!?

[GoatGamingCanada]

Okay question... can an anxious attachment style affect more than just romantic relationships? I purchased dr. Amir Lavine's and Rachel Heller's book "Attached" which takes about it in such a manner, but after doing a lot of self reflection, I'm wondering if this is something that could be more invasive in my life?

[locallayschipbag]

I ask Tyler (a guy I’m talking to who I have feelings for) a lot if I’m controlling and he always says no which is a really big relief at the moment because I know I can be controlling from time to time and I try not to be so any time it feels like I’m being a bit controlling I always ask if I am

[edwardelric]

I just shouted Yes! in the first sentence.

[Honeysuckle]

I feel stressed because he’s never around. He doesn’t seem like he wants to go anywhere but to his home. He never says he wants to spend time with me. That’s not a relationship and I have no problem voicing my needs but I have a problem with him if he doesn’t try because I am always trying. This makes me want to give up on our relationship. When I’m pouring my heart out, he becomes a sarcastic jackass.