How To Keep A Woman Interested (From A Woman’s Perspective)

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[christopherfernandez]

Keeping a woman interested when you're still dating is one thing. Keeping a woman interested once you live together or you're married is another. Keeping a woman interested once kids enter the picture is a whole different ballgame entirely. When kids consume the attention of both parents, especially the mother, keeping the spark alive is nearly impossible. Courtney, if you ever have kids, you can do a video on that dynamic. 😅

[fabiopapalia]

If a woman is not interested in you she can WALK. Entitled, immature persons who needs to be entartained to not be bored are grown kids who don't deserve your own precious time.

Love and affection are on ANOTHER level, and most of these people does not deserve your efforts because are totally immature.

[Harikejn]

Important things: 0:23 First Thing ÷ Keep Things Interesting; 3:47 Second Thing ÷ Show Genuine Curiosity In Her; 6:53 Third Thing ÷ Have Your Own Life; 8:56 Fourth Thing ÷ Follow Through; 9:32 Fifth Thing ÷ Affection And Appreciation; and 11:16 to summarize all the told here.
What you have told Courtney it's so correct. I might add few additional things. And those are these: Sixth Thing ÷ Knowing When To Be Serious And When To Be Relaxed; Seventh Thing ÷ Be A Supportive (but this can be also considered with women as well). When I mentioned sixth thing, I meant that you have to have balanced thing when it's okay to joke relaxed, and when you will talk serious thing.
From all the told here it can be told that the deeds, and the gestures (the small gestures especially), can be shown how much does someone care about the loved one's (either they are interested in us, or either that they are not) (and that's from men's, and women's perspective).

[johnanderson]

That’s true. Your partner should compliment your life - not complicate it. If it’s the latter it’s best for both to call it off.

[aguyinavan]

There seems to be a gap between what women say and what men experience.

[toddw]

Why does it seem like keeping a woman interested is on the same level as keeping a child entertained with coloring books & puzzles?

[x-man]

When you do these things there should be reciprocation. If there is none, plan on moving on, soon.

[WasteDeep]

Honestly, we men shouldn't have to keep anyone interested. We aren't court jesters here for your amusement. You need to keep yourself interested in us, and that means stop comparing us to guys you see on social media and in movies. That's not real life. Real men work hard keeping society moving, and it's a struggle every day. You should be interested in us for who we are and stop playing your childish games.

[asliceofcheese]

Is it a bad thing that as I go along watching this video, I feel a tad more repulsed upon entering a relationship? This all feels too tiring

[tomachibald]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[Machi]

Notice how a man has to keep a woman interested but it doesn't ever seem to be reciprocal. 🤔

Something seems a

[Ava-ltes]

Emotional bonding key to keep women interested.

[fabian]

Every time I set the dates up either she would flake and want to reschedule or not want to do what was planned. We guys need to just stop chasing after them, if someone is interested in you then go with the flow. No need to play these silly immature games. Especially after age 30

[highlanderknight]

Well, if dating apps are any indicator, and the few dates I've gotten out of them (I'm in my 50s) for most of them you need to eat out at a lot of restaurants, travel places, and visit NYC for events. Oh, and preferably they want me to be the one planning it and bankrolling it all.

[nicomirinda]

Hey Courtney - Everything you said plays both ways 😊 there's not much difference in my view with what a woman is supposed to do as well to keep the chemistry flowing.

[ModernDatingMastery]

*Keeping a woman interested goes beyond just the initial attraction — it's about emotional connection and consistency. Show genuine curiosity about her, make her laugh, and always keep some mystery. It’s the small things like remembering details and surprising her that truly make a difference.*

[Mac_Kymera]

The issue I find is that women change their minds all the time. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[LeoVargas-rfqk]

Met my gf on bumble in February this year. I do all of these things and don’t ever plan on stopping, so I’m glad on the right track. Thanks for the info. 👍

[christianrodriguez]

It is easy to keep a woman interested. It is hard to find a woman who is actually worth your time, which is the actual problem cause most aren’t worth your time. Know your worth and value your time. Time isn’t something you can get back so value it and especially for who you spend it with. Focus on your goals whether career, physical, etc. So far at 22, I have a couple of exes and only one treated me good but certain values didn’t click so I split with her. My first good one was my most recent ex. She restored my faith in women. Now I just chill out and do me with family and friends. Prioritize yourself. Key tip: if you don’t feel peaceful around them or your mind is stressing out, she ain’t it chief. You need to feel at peace with the woman you are with. Remember a woman has the capability of making or breaking a man. So pick carefully.

[dat]

I'm not saying that a man should make no effort to keep a woman interested but this video is sort of proof that many women expect their male mate to provide them some level of entertainment which is a problem caused by our leisure society. Earlier generations of women were more mature and had responsibilities at a much earlier age since they often bore children right out of high school or in their early 20's. This left little time for the mindless entertainment that today's women expect from men.