How to KEEP A WOMAN: the past is prologue

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If you're a man considering going down the path of marriage and children, it is essential that you learn how to maintain a woman's long-term commitment. This is because the more you invest in any one woman, the more leveraged you are and the riskier that relationship becomes, especially in contemporary society. The key to maintaining that commitment is to understand that everything you've ever done for a woman is irrelevant. I explain more in this episode.

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

#psychology #relationship #women

[psychacks]

If you're a man considering going down the path of marriage and children, it is essential that you learn how to maintain a woman's long-term commitment. This is because the more you invest in any one woman, the more leveraged you are and the riskier that relationship becomes, especially in contemporary society. The key to maintaining that commitment is to understand that everything you've ever done for a woman is irrelevant. I explain more in this episode.

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

#psychology #relationship #women

[jcnlaw]

Experienced divorce attorney here. You can’t imagine the look on my male divorce clients faces when I give them this speech. Even if you are a multimillionaire, great provider, great dad, attentive to her needs and desires, she can leave you at anytime for any reason or no reason at all. “I’m just not feeling it” is all it takes.

[cic]

“Women are like your stomach.” Damn that’s a good analogy.

[KROM.]

"Further, if you're liking what you're hearing"....
No, I do not like what I'm hearing, but God, this is 100% true 😒

[dvkdvkful]

"Everything you've ever done for a woman, is IRRELEVANT". Solid Gold. This should be taught to all men.

[debayanghosh]

"A divorce is the only thing left to give her" - man, that got me going! 😂

[Gman]

Next episode will be on a lighter theme: how to summon demons and keep your soul safe and pure

[Khan-rzqi]

“Everything you’ve ever done for a woman is irrelevant”- That’s Briffault’s Law fellas, before entering a relationship every man must learn this. The conditions of a relationship will mostly be determined by a woman no matter how you look at it, and a relationship where a woman can no longer derive benefits is a relationship a woman considers to be nullified.

[neomacchio]

There is no relationship equity.

This is 💯 spot on.

[Buzznut]

Here is my story which illustrates this. My wife wanted to move back to her home country. We worked for 15 years to make it happen. I gave up everything to facilitate this goal. As soon as the move was complete and the house remodeled, she announced that she was done with our relationship of 20 years.

[ryanpoulter]

My most recent girlfriend kept saying the same things "nothing to look forward to" yet when I'd bring up marriage she didn't want that lol. Glad I'm getting out of this mess ahead of time

[thebadmanrisesagain]

Coming from someone who divorced....this man is spitting facts. Its exhausting.

[JayFGrissom]

Been with my wife for 22+ years. The realization in this video has completely shocked me. Because it all adds up and because it seems to ring of truth. Additionally, it has completely dropped all respect for women I ever had.

Suddenly learning that Janet Jackson’s “What have you done for me lately” was not pop culture but a statement as to how all of this works makes me ill.

[te]

Now I understand why Leo DiCaprio keeps switching up. It all makes perfect sense now

[baptisteringot]

I don’t really get why this is a hard pill to swallow. This makes a lot of sense. When I paint a potential future with my girlfriend, as in « I want to have this, and this, and do this, this is the life I’m looking forward to », I can see her eyes shine. Firstly because I’m very confident in doing so, but also because they are very ambitious projections. So it projects a mix of risk taking mindset, boldness, and puts her in a future thinking mindset. And most importantly, everything is authentic and honest. I paint a picture of what the future with me can be, by also giving examples of what my life has been in the past. I think keeping her excited about her future is a massive skill set for a man.

[dhickey]

Thanks, Orion. I remember years back when I thought the right woman would be a partner to forge a future with. In reality, the best future forging has gotten done when I stayed well away from them. I'd like to argue against it but what you describe is exactly what my experience has been and the experiences of men I know.

[kennethwolkens]

Had to watch this one twice. I had to make sure he was actually speaking the truth. It is all dead on.

[Rishiverma]

I wish this wasn’t true, but after experience - with many women, it is

[beneshkar]

wow!! I am shocked how true this is. 65 years old and with several relationships behind me. Thank you for the information.

[Davidrodriguez-rzsp]

“I wish it were different, but that’s just how it works with women.” I’m 26 years old and have endured some truly horrible things from covert narcissistic women. I felt that last sentence to my bones. I wish it were different too man. Thanks so much for providing great value