How to Become a Narcissist's Kryptonite

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chapters
00:00 introduction

01:14 Raise your standards !

02:17 Assume this for your own good

02:27 As children we were taught this

03:44 What does raising your standards mean ?

05:32 This is when you have to take extra caution

07:20 Other most important aspect

08:33 The conclusion

[narcabusecoach]

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[angelakeely]

That is my attitude now with people, you have to earn access to me❤

[simonpegg]

Right. Make yourself a little inaccessible by building strong boundaries. Your trust has to be earned, so don't give it away right away.

[EmmieJGee]

It's true: You're never lonelier than being in a relationship with a narcissist. My ex would prioritise any and everything over having to have a normal conversation! He'd break off as soon as a message flashed up on his phone even if just junk mail! His phone never left his side.. Your channel has been so very helpful Danish. Thankyou ❤

[doobybro]

It's tough these days. I am older and we used to be able to give most people the benefit of doubt. People were mostly nice. Those days are over. It's the opposite now. Protect yourself and your family.

[JudySterling]

My superpower has been knowledge, and I've learned so much from Danish. 🙏

[carparthero]

becoming a boundary bad-ass is a heavily underrated skill that isn't emphasized enough in school and society.

cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

[jisungrocks]

I've dated a couple of terrible narcs but the worst by far I've ever seen and known is my sister. She destroyed our family, destroyed my mother, destroyed my father, etc.... She is a demonic nut case! This has been the most challenging recovery I've ever dealt with. I hate demons! She is a demon, and I can let it go but never ever forget! God bless this channel, and thank you, Doctor. Your work has helped me so much!

[CC-wygn]

My Dad is a narcissist.
He gave everyone in my family nick names. He is in building business. I was named kryptonite! I’m the scapegoat.
Little did I know I’d go no contact years later.

[IzabelaWaniek-ix]

I totally agree with you Danish. Raise your standards, make access to you a privilege and assume everyone is narcissistic until they prove you wrong. Thank you for brilliant advice 😊 God bless you❤

[susancoombes]

I love being alone. At least I can be myself. With a narcissist there is a special kind of loneliness where you dont even have yourself.

[heatherwhatever]

You have described what is going on with me. Letting down my guard, being uncomfortable with this empty feeling. I didn’t process things in the past. I always went to make something happen to feel better. I’ll sit with it and thank you very much.

[debbiejohnson]

I have learned to avoid any new person who gives me gifts too soon, or food, or offers to buy lunch, or anything right away. A couple of people I didn't know offered to help me move on two separate occasions. We all know no one likes to help someone pack, unpack, or move. I declined both offers. Thank you for your channel, Danish!! 😊❤

[BobTheSchipperke]

Be Authentic. Stand up for yourself. Say to yourself "if they said it and they are so amazing they won't have any problem with me repeating everything they said to others."😊 Do not give in "just once" to their games.

[suzettewalsh]

Ty listening to you makes me know this is a human experience and coming out of it am not crazy! Just divorced last month; 25 yrs but I have my 3 diamonds 💎 my kids! 60 and single but being with him was more lonely than actually being alone! Narc mom, bfs and now this ex husband I got the lesson finally! Healing to overcome generational curses! thank God this knowledge is possible for all people now

[avantikashetty]

Hard-hitting but absolutely true..see the evil in people just as u see the good in people coz that will save one from suffering

[dzpiwit]

Narcissists are so good at hiding behind their masks. You really have to keep your guard up and observe people for years. I didn't realize my parents are narcs until I reached my early 30's. It took 26 years for me to find out that my doorman is a covert narc. The doorman appeared to be a decent person...friendly, helpful, hardworking, competent, etc...but then he started a smear campaign against my family. If it weren't for that, I might never have known he is a narc. It is sad but true that you really can't trust anyone in order to protect yourself.

[avantikashetty]

We do ten times more when we get that one time kindness..so true Sir..and then one fine day they gaslight us and walk away telling us that our problem is we ourselves 😢

[JanGroh]

Great advice I needed 40 years ago, Danish!

[dorisgustav]

MAKE ACCESS TO YOU A PRIVILEDGE AND NOT EVERYBODY SHOULD BE ABLE TO KNOW YOU INSIDE OUT! Very Good Wording, Thank You.