7 Dating RED FLAGS That You've Been LOVE BOMBED 💣💥

Are you wondering whether that short relationship was actually love bombing? Or maybe you're looking back on your relationship with a #narcissist and wondering whether there was any love bombing (idealization phase) at all? Watch to find out 7 dating red flags that you've been love bombed by a narcissist.

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[freenow]

It is! They’re so convincing you think you’ve found the one…but you’ve found the one demon who will destroy your life. Run!!!

[annaburns]

Sadly we are watching these videos trying to look back and see if something was off. After we are caught in the spider’s web.

[garycordle]

When it seems to good to be true, and there's just something about them that you can't put your finger on, listen to your intuition that's your soul telling you something is not right, thanks Christina have a great week everyone 🙏🦋

[nancystewart]

Gifts. Beware of gifts. The purposes of gifts are not to express affection, show appreciation, or be a generous spirit. The purposes are (1) to fool you into thinking they are that kind of person, and (2) to instill in you a sense of obligation, so you feel like you can't say no to all the requests that inevitably follow.

[dont]

I think I'll become a monk. Constantly watching for relationship red flags is giving me a headache.

[BreGrateful]

My ex said he loved me in 2 weeks. I'm not sure if he's a narc or not but it made me scared. He didn't know me. He only talked about himself and his job the whole time we ever talked and boom now you love me? And I'm perfect for you, the most beautiful woman in the world, and your soulmate. Yeah, it was cringy every time he said those things. And he repeated it like a broken record no personalized compliments. Bragged to all his cop buddies about me showing them my pictures smh. I'm shy so I don't care about that type of attention. I liked him nothing more. How did we skip the liking phase and go straight to love? It took the fun part out of falling in love. It didn't feel sincere.

[iamgoddessoflove]

Narcissist portrays you as the perfect love of their life. With the passage of time they will take everything from you and will end up depleted, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and probably financially. 💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[guntertorfs]

A ruthless predator that instinctively lures its prey...

[LEM]

Love bombing happened in my entire marriage, until I discovered he was living a lie and I began challenging his behavior. THEN came his Cheating and all of it.

[kaydunton]

There used to be a narcissist on YouTube but she deleted her channel. She explained that she loved bombed because that's how she wanted to be treated. Put on a pedestal and worshipped. Since they lack empathy they assume everyone else is like that too. She started to devalue and discard because they weren't treating her that way in return and became resentful.

[Eve]

I’m sorry but I have to add this; if we fall for love bombing what does that say about us? Why are we so starved for love that we ignore our logic and continue to be spoon fed / force fed. I understand that I wouldn’t be saying this if I didn’t go through all the narcissistic abuse I went through but I understand now in hindsight how falling for a narcissist and their manipulation is a gauge on our own emotional health.. i believe if I wasn’t so depressed, wasn’t still hurting deeply inside due to unresolved trauma, wasn’t so lonely because I kept myself isolated and didn’t have the energy and ability to connect with others, I wouldn’t have fallen for their crap. I’m grateful now that I can spot a narcissist a mile away and can avoid them. My point is that if there’s a lesson to learn from these types of relationships it’s to truly look inward and take stock of our own emotional health.

[CoCo-euhg]

I was love bombed and now I am pregnant by him. It sucks. He was so amazing the first few weeks. Once we had sex, he got what he wanted started treating me like garbage. Told me he still loved his ex, then went back on to the dating website we were on. I was like wtf just happened? I am happy to be having my son, but not happy he is in my life forever.

[roxymovie]

The Circle of Trauma-Bonding:
1. Idealization Phase = LOVE BOMBING
2. Devaluation
3. Discard

7 Signs of Love Bombing:

1. Very early on telling you, "I love you!"
2. You become the center of their life
3. They ask you very personal questions, especially about your vulnerabilities
4. They can feel like your soulmate or twinflame
5. Everything is over the top
6. The relationship is going much too fast and feels forced
7. This phase ends with breadcrumbing (giving you little hope) or devaluation (you are not good enough)



When I met my covert N.he would tell me right at the beginning, "I am different. You will find out over time." It took me 2, 5 years to find out HIS DIFFERENCE.. especially # 3 all those very personal questions out of the context were driving me mad.. And yes I first thought that he would be my twinflame because of this very intense connection right from the beginning and nobody has ever triggered me in such a way.. and further on I felt like under a spell all the time.

P.S.: Christina, what about your microphone today? your voice sounds like "push & pull"😂

[KM-kujz]

I had never experienced this before…the extent of the love bombing. Didn’t know the term “love bombing”. A long time friend, I use the term friend loosely now, started love bombing me. Even talked about flying to Vegas to get married. When I began to trust him and reciprocate the words he wanted to hear, he stopped the love bombing and started talking about his past girlfriends and his “hot” neighbor. He lost interest, devalued me, pretended like nothing happened and dropped me like a hot potato. I was so confused !!! I finally discovered what this behavior was and have gone no contact.

[jamesgerboc]

Interesting that 5-6 out 7 I was guilty of and she was the narcissist. Within a loving context many of these things are natural. The difference is authenticity. I love-bombed out of love. Narcissists love bomb out of manipulation.

[phillyphan]

There are really some people out here that are really nice and just want to make the person in their lives to feel special and that they care about them. Doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with them.

[exoticladyscanines]

Everything that you mentioned was part of the last relationship that I was in. He would throw fits when I tried to slow things down. He was doing the MOST constantly by sending money, flowers to me and even my mom. He was ring shopping and sent my mom gifts and flowers. In one of the deliveries he signed the card "your future son-in-law" I broke things off and have remained no contact.

[jannlewandowski]

Love bombing hooked me almost immediately! I've seen him around the Social gatherings and I never thought he would ask me to dance. We got along GREAT! We talked and talked for hours. He told me he was "falling in love with me." Wow! I really fell for him. GUT FEELING-TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE. I ignored it. Well, as the years went on, I was FUTURE FAKED, had an engagement ring, and I was the "one."
This went on for 5 years, then I left him. This was 11 years ago. When I left him after 5 years, he rebounded immediately, and was married in 2 weeks to a very RICH woman. I was devastated! I went thru a lot of Therapy, read books, and started going out more. Narcs are MONSTERS! GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF YOU. I'm doing fine now.

[johnjohnstone]

Yes Listen To Your Intuition Is Good Advice. Unfortunately Most Of Us Get Separated From Our Intuition In The Process Of Socialization.

[Thepateisgreat]

The thing that keeps getting me is I truly felt like I found my soul mate. You keep thinking what if? What if? What if I had done this differently, and it’s all my fault?
You miss the connection with that person. And the smex…. Was amazing. It was the first person I fell in love with for years. I feel worse off than I did before I met them. Their parents liked me more than anyone they’d ever brought around; and they’d even been married before. We talked about rings and getting married. All in less than a month and a half…. It’s painful and confusing.

I still feel like it was my fault somehow. It just sucks, I feel so so alone. So alone.