What about serial cheaters? Will they keep cheating?

Is once a cheater, always a cheater, true? A lot of people will tell you yes, the research is interesting. Here's my perspective. What are your thoughts? #affairrecovery #infidelityrecovery #affaire #affair #infidelity #affairs #infidelityinamarriage #cheating #cheater #infidelityinmarriage

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Dr. Kathy Nickerson is a licensed clinical psychologist, CNBC contributor, and nationally recognized relationship expert who has helped thousands of couples. Over the past 20 years, Kathy has presented marriage and relationship advice at more than 70 conferences, while authoring more than 85 professional articles and books with coverage in Bustle, CNN, Forbes, Glamour, LA Times, Newsweek and many more.

[Gnomesmusher]

I could never stay with a cheater. The hurt and betrayal and disgust would be too much for me to overcome.

[maryc]

Well my husband is a serial cheater I'm over it 💯

[seekingtruth]

I've cheated one too many times, but I want to change not just for my family but for myself. I need help breaking down what's going on in my mind!

[piotrekmajkowski]

Dopamine and habit.
"Old love does not rust"
Old Polish proverb.

[cardsFacedown]

He says he has stopped but it has happened so many times my mind, body, and soul feels like its constant..

And that has significantly drained me.. physically, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually..

It has essentially ruined my idea of love and ability to feel it..

Once shame on you..
Twice shame on me..
Three times or more.. we are killing ourselves slowly.*

*Long term abuse of this nature has been proven to cause very real and physical ailments in the victim. Failure to thrive may begin in the mind but the body pays the toll. And failure to thrive comes with each item of respect and boundary you put down to make room for the cheater.

He always had something to say about my food choices.. now food is a chore... I had a culinary scholarship once upon a time.

[aludtke]

What about someone who has cheated on two wives?

[juliafrietsch.]

What if the husband has ADHD and doen't want to go to therapy and doesn't listen advice from wife?

[MarkSummers-gn]

Maybe their parents cheated and they idolized their parent