The Consequences of Cheating: 10 Things That Cheaters Forget To Think About

Cheating: 10 Things That Cheaters Forget To Think About

To cheat or or not to cheat? Let’s be realistic. Most cheaters never really think through the ramifications of infidelity. That’s ironic because the ramifications are always huge. The aftermath of cheating can include
(1) hurting your relationship to the point where the other person doesn’t want you in their life because they can’t let it go.
(2) It can also cause a whole lot of pain and suffering to your partner, the very same person who you once swore your love to.
(3) This can lead to a partner lashing out in anger verbally as well as in other ways.
(4) Cheating can cause a partner to lose their self-confidence because they personalize the fact that their loved one prefered to be with somebody else than with them.
(5) That can make a person feel absolutely worthless.
That low self-confidence (6) can trickle into every part of their life leading to feelings of self-doubt and instability. That’s a horrible way to live. And while a cheater might originally think that they are getting away with something fun, in the end, they might find themselves
(7) experiencing guilt and shame over what they’ve done. Some people of course have no remorse whatsoever to the point where they will blame their partner by saying that it was their fault for doing or not doing something in particular in the relationship. That of course, doesn’t make sense. It’s just an excuse. Those people have even bigger issues that include not being able to take responsibility for their actions.
Back to our list… In general, cheaters tend to be (8) viewed as people with low integrity. That puts a cheater at the bottom of the totem pole of society with people looking down at them.
A cheater might also (9) experience deep regret at seeing the pain that they have caused their loved one, especially if they plan to stay with their partner. It’s got to be horrible to see the person that you love no longer being the person that they are when they are at their best.
Then there’s the (10) fact that all trust has gone out the window. Without trust in a relationship, a couple has nothing. My point is that If you’re somebody who is tempted to cheat or has already started cheating on a partner, even if that relationship hasn’t been the most ideal relationship lately, consider how it could impact your lives. There are certain things that you can’t take back.

About Sasha Carrion:
Sasha is a Certified Hypnotherapist / Life Coach residing in Los Angeles, CA. Her reason for deciding to work in the self-help and personal Development world was a very personal one. At the age of five, her parents disappeared without a trace. It wouldn’t be until 24 years later that she would find out the chilling truth of what had happened. During this time, Hypnosis in the form Hypnotherapy and NLP were the only things that helped relieve her anxiety and depression from having lived through so much trauma. She now focuses on helping people overcome their blocks so they can live the lives they choose to live. Some of the topics that she commonly helps people with include healing from a break-up, getting past being cheated on and having a positive perspective on love after being cheating on.

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[smyrnasstory]

“Whatever a person is sowing, this he will also reap.”

[matthewnorkett]

Cheating is Not a mistake. Cheating is Choice.

[VikasVerma-tdhz]

The pain the cheaters give just for the shake that they can hv FUN for sometime is just so insane.
Just say it u cannot be loyal n move out first.
Being cheated on, destroys self confidence, feeling of worthlessness is so immense.
Nobody deserves this !

[melanatedestrogen]

If y’all want to sleep around with more than one person then be single or enter a polyamorous relationship. Don’t go into a MONOGAMOUS relationship and then sleep with other people. It’s not hard to be single and sleep around. If y’all want to be for the highway, JUST SAY THAT!

[Alloniya]

What”a bad it’s not only cheating but also:
1) Cheater can’t really tell why he cheated (he or she doesn’t even know)
2) Not tacking responsiblity/ not sorry/ shift blame onto you
3) acting like it’s not a big deal, not understanding your feelings, because they care only about themselves
4) cheater can’t communicate properly, so even if you forgive them something else gonna happen again.

[jacoetsebeth]

Finding yourself after being cheated on is the hardest thing to do, your list is very accurate. I can identify with it and then some...

[notmyopinion]

Cheating is not just one mishap. There goes a lot of planning and there are a lot of steps to it. If you ever get cheated on, remember that every step along the way the person could have stopped and considered your feelings. But they didn't care. They infact cared so little about you, that you are a clown if you think about giving them a second chance hoping they will care now.

[hamzah]

My recent girlfriend to whom I was thinking about dedicating my life to, cheated on me.

What hurt the most was that a day before she did that, on my birthday, she told me "my love for you knows no bounds" and other sweet things so it took my by surprise and it felt like within a night my whole world is gone.

I don't know how to recover because I thought she loved me more than anyone else has and if she could do that than who can I trust.

She broke up with me after I called her out with a list of reasons why our relationship won't workout. Some of those reasons were valid but I wish she broke up with me a few days before finding someone else.

Anyone reading, I'm begging you please don't ever put the person you once loved through such fate, it's still the same person if you wanna leave atleast don't crush their heart in a million pieces.

[gokulvrindavan]

My cheating husband is insecure that I'm gonna leave him forever... it makes me thrilled. Said good bye to the cheater forever today. I'm relieved...

[alive]

Take your pick: Humiliation, hurt, guilt, shame, unwanted pregnancy, chlamydia, divorce, expense, distrust, lost job, lost career opportunities, retaliation, suicide, alienation, sickness, alcoholism, drug dependency. The list goes on.

[paulofurtado]

Cheaters dont care, its about having the cake and eat it too.

[alive]

I have been cheated on in two marriages. My first marriage of 16 years ended in divorce. My ex-wife subsequently ended up on the street, later passing away from septicemia, a consequence of alcoholism and untreated diabetes. I paid for her rehab a few months earlier but she checked out after 2 days. My second marriage survived. Her affair and unwanted pregnancy by her boss happened 6 years into our marriage, and took place 23 years ago. Children by my ex-wife and a child by my current wife. I will say this, when you divorce it is easier to forget the betrayal. When you stay in the marriage, the betrayal eats away at you. It’s like death by a 1000 cuts. Probably because she meant everything to me. I adored her (past tense). Maybe if she had come clean, and had confessed to everything, vocalizing her remorse, it would be different. Instead she simply clammed up. Rather the bandage is ripped off quickly than letting it gradually happen or not at all. This only leaves the way open to speculation and dark imaginings.

[rarebookreviewer]

Nicely done…short, ACCURATE, and to the point. If you are thinking of cheating…DON’T.

[Hunt]

Cheaters do not bother with how hurt his partner is and glorify the wrong doing

[Nkihgf]

A married woman was cheating on her husband, and that woman's boyfriend has killed her
Cheating can even cause murder of your

[charleneg.]

You forgot about all the other people involved once caught, children, family, friends, significant others, risk of harm or even death if they can’t control themselves, risk of STDs, risk of getting her pregnant…

[theghostofcarthage]

Cheating can lead to people committing suicide, too.
Not too long ago, a friend of mine took his own life because he caught his fiancée with another guy in their bed; she thought he was going to be outside of town for a week or so.. but he came back home in less than 24 hours, witnessed what he witnessed and decided to put an end to his pain, a short time after the incident occurred. They were together for over 5 years, almost 6 years.

[williamj.dovejr.]

I was cheated on, when I realized the extent of it and how far she went just to be with him, turning our family life upside down...to how she treated me, how truly isolated I was...I was shaken. That was twenty years ago and I don't think I have fully recovered.

[LostInTheSauce]

I completely ruined my life. The pain I feel is constant. Was it worth it? Absolutely not. Head my warning…NEVER EVER CHEAT ON SOMEONE YOU LOVE. You will regret it for the rest of your life.

[amc]

If someone cheats ONCE - 350 per cent chance they will do it again. Fact.