Friendships shouldn’t feel lonely 🫶 #shorts #girls #adhd

[lw]

If someone pops into your head when you see this, it's probably not so bad that you don't talk much any more.

[riccardomosena]

Sadly, when 95% of your friends are online/live far away, that feeling is omnipresent

[emilybookaddict]

i needed to hear this today thank you🫶🏻 i’m in high school and i’ve been struggling with friendships. also unrelated, but i’m in the process of getting diagnosed for adhd and im trying out meds for the first time today and im kinda scared😬

[Belova]

I’ve spent so long thinking that my friends always leave cause I’m the problem and that caused me to hate myself for a while but now I have friends who have stuck by my side for 3 years now and I couldn’t be happier

[Broken-Parables]

I was just about to blame another friendship issue on myself, but this video popped up at the perfect time and snapped me back into reality. Thank you.

[sarahglover]

I got to the point with lots of 'friends' where I just swore I wouldn't be the one to reach out anymore. An entire friendship group from school, spent every lunchbreak together for 2 years and they all have my number, its been 5 years, I have never recieved anything from any of them. Sometimes just cut your losses!

[Noeleful]

This is so true!! I had a 4 year long friendship that I realized I hadn’t ever disagreed with the person in fear of them not speaking to me again. The one time I did, they basically shut me out. The pain is still there, but it’s better now than later.

[hijikataq]

This is definitely needed because sometimes I think of a certain person or people and think "yeah? Why don't we talk anymore?". And just end up feeling lonely and like i need to reconnect and anxious. I will be saving this so when my adhd makes me forget I will come back to this.

[barriemorgan]

Keep your circle small and only allow those who want you in thier life and make time for you, to be in yours.

[ganjagoddess]

There's a big difference between friends and an acquaintance you've known for a long time. You have to be a friend to have a friend. 🌺

[gingerbibliophile]

This, except we live together. Made me feel like it was me but nah. I’m just done shrinking myself.

[Rhino_Leigh]

All my friends do this because I have abandonment issues. Everyone makes me question shit. I question if my mom loves me sometimes. It’s just me.

[coreybork]

I felt this... walking alone sometimes hurts the least

[Dudeguymansir]

Learning this one currently!

Do I sometimes feel bummed about going no contact? Sure.

Do I miss the static? Absolutely not.

Peace is valuable. ✌️

[gabbyxx]

The fact that this is the realest thing I’ve EVER heard TO THIS DAY and I can understand every part of it 😭

[Nessamations]

I Recently dropped a whole group of 7 "Friends" because being with them I just felt judged and like I had to hide my true self constantly.

[princessroyal]

When I was 15 I hung out with a group of people that was absolutely horrible to be around. They were constantly fighting and getting at each other’s throats. Yet I just sat there and forced a smile because I didn’t wanna be alone.

[NoahGoesAdventuring]

Very true. I'd much rather be alone than with someone who saps my energy! It can be scary trying to think about life without that person, but there are so many people out there that it's a worthwhile pursuit to try and find people who you actually resonate with. 🙏🏼

[alphafert]

The song picked reminds me of when I was 19. Oddly enough it was a time I thought I had a lot of friends. Looking back it still kind of feels like it was a good time but it was really a time others wanted me around because of my usefulness not because they wanted me around. Unfortunately it took me until 29 to figure out what my friends actually wanted from me. No clue why that song only reminds me of 19 as that whole period was pretty much the same & it was over half a decade after it was released.

[JoeGor-sc]

I feel this so much I just recently questioned a lot of my friends and had a lot of then that made me feel alone like I was talking to myself that is so relatable