LETS CATCH UP! HEARTBREAK, DIVORCE AND LIFE

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When I left my first husband, after 8 years of marriage and a child, I prepared myself. I had a great job, owned my own house and it was easier for me to leave his crazy selfish self. He was like a cancer, after I removed him, allah open so many doors for me! 🎉 today 6 years later at 33 years old, I am a business owner, married to the man of my dreams and more children. Thank you allah for everything. No regrets ❤

Nalkaaa
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So inspirational.
“What have I really lost, if I gained God?”
Subhanallah, so proud of you girl and the messaging you have for others girls - deen and dunya ❤️

faiza
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“The only peace I ever got was speaking to God” ❤️ I love that. Alhamdulillah.

tb.ayyub
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Randomly came across your video ♥️ I’m 30 and was supposed to get married this year but the date before my fiancé was supposed to come, we decided it wasn’t a good time and broke it off (he had some personal stuff going on). It left me really sad and confused as I thought I finally found my person but I, too, felt it was Allah ﷻ reminding me to come back to him. I’ve been trying to be more consistent with tahajjud and talk to God always and I feel so much peace. I reaffirm my self every night that God loves me and wants the best for me. I’m praying I can go to Umrah soon too (it’s been 10 years since I’ve been last) and I decided to finally start YouTube as well. I hope to level up as you did- thank you for sharing your story. I pray God blesses you abundantly! 🫶🩷

HappilyHiba
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I'm a trauma coach (I work specifically with Muslim women) and I've worked with so many sisters who went through a divorce and SUBHANALLAH, I literally JUST filmed a video on how to heal divorce trauma (I think it's scheduled to go live next week on my channel). I'm so proud of you for putting out this video and bringing awareness to the struggle. As a community, we don't recognize that divorce trauma exists and we just expect women to "move on" from one of the most jarring experiences of life.

Note to my sisters, if significant time has passed and thoughts of your divorce are still triggering this intense emotional response and especially physical pain, there's likely trauma that needs to be integrated. If you don't know what that means, I have tons of videos on trauma on my channel and healing trauma from a scientific and islamic perspective. Praying it'll be a good resource for you all, we need more of it.

alasryh
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Hey Zartasha! My marriage ended unexpectedly in 2023 and our journeys are very similar. When you recall painful memories it’s like your body is going through that trauma again so it’s a natural response to cry ❤

haniiji
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Letting go of your best friend/first love must be absolutely devastating but I’m glad you were strong enough and respected yourself enough to leave, wish you the best❤️

Zara-cbxu
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She is a wonderful educated woman, not fame chasing money hungry lady. Inspiring other Muslim women to pick up good habits like salad and gym. Notice how she did not bash her ex! Educating women in our community can really empower them. One of the most humble, down to earth lovely sisters online May Allah give me a bestie like you.

fayzai
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thankyou for being so real & honest! sending good energy, blessings and prayers to you!💗💫

itsophia.r
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Salaam girl, I myself divorced 3 years ago after being married for 7 years. I want to say that you should be incredibly proud of yourself for coming so far. And one thing I say is if it brought you closer to Allah that’s all that matter. I also don’t have children either and tbh I struggle even today from what I’ve been through. But the way you put it is spot on how I feel. Just know you got this and you are stronger than you know. Not everyone can go through what you did and make it out positively. Thank you for this, may Allah give you even better than what was taken from you ❤

MahaRafiq-ss
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Allah Humma Barik sis. You remind me of myself in my solo company and healing era. I can resonate with many aspects of your relationship with Allah and seeing positivity in hardships.
SubhanAllah our relationship with Allah is powerful.

maleehahussain
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I feel like sometimes things in life are meant to happen purely as a lesson and growth. We have to be in uncomfortable situations to self improve and become the best version ourselves and I really see that with you. I love your insta content and it has really inspired me for self growth. Keep going, you got this ❤

Rx
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I love this vlog so much. The pain of separation you went through I went through it too, I never thought it would happen. Whatever Allah wills. Ayat Ul Kursi helps. ❤

SoniaMarouf-is
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This hit home for me. I also had a very similar situation. I'm glad (alhamdulillah) that things are looking up for you. I'm happy you found god :). I pray this journey continues for you, for your duas to be accepted, and to find the healing you deserve ameen ♡

tawhidamiah
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Loved this!! Especially when you spoke about praying and tahujjad, very beautifully spoken and you made me emotional. Love seeing a girl my age talk about things like this you're such an inspiration and inshallah 2025 will be a good year for all off us. Everything happens for a reason it's all Allah plans that divorce has changed you in such a beautiful person and something are not meant to be I'm glad you have healed from and will be even more stronger now. Making dua for you that Allah blesses you with great health and gives you even more for what you wished for Insha'Allah Insha'Allah!! Carry on doing more video/vlogs on here I would love to see more!! 💜

maryam.x
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I've been following you since I came accross your running posts last ramadhan. You are such an inspiration honestly. I also went through divorce with a 6m old in 2023, its tough with or without children and you're right in saying its awful. I'm still feeling sorry for myself and wishing my life away. If you ever offered mentoring I would be there!! I did just buy and set up a treadmill so maybe I'm in "stage 5 acceptance". Thank you for opening up and sharing your thoughts. Lots of love xx

misssammy
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You’re very strong to make this video. I want to say the crying will be non existent in the near future and I promise when your content with Allahs will, there will be many blessings appear in front of your eyes. Please keep well and recommend nail prayers.❤

priya
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I’ve been following you since your uni days. May Allah swt give you all the happiness in the world. I pray that Allah swt accepts all of your duas, you’re truly a ray of sunshine and are so inspiring 🤍

amna-
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trust me the death of a child is far worse than divorce and sadly ive had both....just my opinion

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May Allah continue to bless you my beautiful sister Ameen. Pray the last 2 verses of Surah Baqarah every day. Allah only ever replaces you with something better! May Allah keep you steadfast on your deen! Ameen xxx

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