Codependent Mother and Daughter Role-Play 2022

Other codependent mother role-play I mentioned:

7 Types of Toxic Families:

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Chapters:
0:00 Intro
2:58 Connect With Me
3:38 Role-Play Briefing
4:43 Codependent Mother and Daughter
9:44 Healthy Mother
13:21 Empowered Daughter
17:01 Role-Play Recap
18:48 Final Thoughts
21:56 Outro

In this video we cover: enmeshment, boundaries, recovery, therapy session, consistency, roleplay, fyp, tools, hacks, triggers, childhood trauma, inner child, inner child work, c-ptsd, ptsd, toxic parents, narcissistic abuse, assertion, healing, abusive parents, emotional abuse, childhood ptsd, repressed memories, hypervigilance, narcissistic parents, emotionally abusive parents, child abuse, narcissistic father, childhood emotional neglect, abuse, narcissistic mother, codependency, healthy parenting, parenting

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[AmberRooster]

I thought the “healthy mother” role play might be someone who is perfect in every way. But it was someone who was imperfect, but growing, trying, apologizing, communicating needs, and in therapy. So comforting! That I could be!

[LaurenceTravelTips]

This is me and my mother - except every phone call starts with me listening to my mother talk about her life/emotions for the first 15-20 min. I’ve been the caretaker in the relationship since I was born.

[cindyharris]

Today, my Mother literally said, ” I don’t understand why you need any boundaries
. Boundaries make me feel rejected.” 🤦🏻‍♀️

[AstoriaLofi]

The empowered daughter situation hit hard. A lot of children are fostered into a mental space where “empowerment” is synonymous with “disrespect”- and has consequences. My mother and I still have a strained relationship after an “empowerment move”. There’s sometimes a level of victimization that parents take on that’s almost impossible to break down. But I really appreciated these three scenarios and that the responsibility of a healthy relationship is a two way street

[beckkybeckky]

I never realized I had an enmeshed relationship till I went to rehab for some pretty serious life-altering things, my mom was crying on the phone and I was the one comforting her through the situation. My counselor was like, don’t you think she should be the one supporting you during this time? 🤯

[traceywelsh]

I understand parentification, but what is it when a parent keeps you childlike by not letting you grow up because they need you to need them

[allibush]

“during the divorce I would run to you and you were only 12” I FELT THAT

[晶-ci]

"Google it! Don't ask me to teach you to be a better mom!"

Wow this blew me away.

[rebeccaedwards]

Perfect, I love how the unhealthy mom is saying "Things are better ANDY is in counselling" and the heathy mom says "Things are better I am in counselling".

[_youdontnomi_]

I’m currently in my empowered daughter stage and although I’m proud of myself for the progress I’ve made, I also feel extremely guilty and shameful when I “go against” my mom and I’ve been guilt tripped with the “what happened to us” talk. It’s so exhausting

[misspriss]

Not gonna lie. The empowered daughter example is making me feel uncomfortable. I lowkey can hear my internal voice saying, "Don't say that! That's disrespectful. That's too mean." My mother is dead and I still find myself carrying this dynamic over into other relationships. I am so the caretaker/problem fixer. I tend to offer help and/or advice even when I'm not asked. Thank God I am surrounded by people who insist that I talk to them and let them be there for me. They've really helped me be vulnerable and stop helping all of the time.

[tropico]

Witnessing the mom say "what happened to you? We used get along so well and laugh and share together" when the daughter stood up for herself in the "empowered" version really hit me. My mom said this exact same thing to me when I started exercising boundaries. It absolutely crushed me at the time and was a huge trigger. Thank you for all the educational info you are spreading!

[NicoleMaguire]

I don't know how to relate to others without being a helper . . . this is eye opening

[ahollowbone]

When the Healthy Mother script rolled, I burst into tears. I've been waiting to hear this from my own mother for 40 years.

[unorthodoxyoyo]

"I feel more like you're my sister than my daughter." Something my mother said to me when I was in highschool. I thought it was super cool that we were so close at the time. Then I married a man who had very healthy boundaries (not sure how I scored that one. But thank God for that man.🥰) and he opened my eyes to the total lack of boundaries between me and my mom. Mom and I are making progress. I don't know if she completely understands the boundaries I set, (like quit telling me about your relationship problems with my father. I don't want to know!) but she does make an effort to respect them. So I'm grateful for that.

[elizabethwittman]

I grew up thinking all my friends didn't have as close relationships with their moms as I did, even though my mom and I had so many other issues. Now I realize we just didn't have any boundaries and it was another symptom of our poor relationship. Sigh.

[margaritakmp]

I wasn't expecting to feel so emotional watching the "healthy mother" role play. I can't imagine having a mother so self-aware and willing to change and grow. Wow.

[mm]

"Respectfully doesn't mean anything" is so validating. I had toxic family members that were so gifted at using the right words while they were actively doing the opposite of what the word, like respectfully, implied. It was crazy making.

[MareTigeress]

“Do you find yourself being nosy?” Yes dammit 😭 I want to know what Andy said in February!!!

[ravenrocsmysocs]

Just one genuine "healthy mom" conversation would mean the world to me.