10 Signs You Have Toxic Parents!

Toxic parents don’t usually treat their children with respect.

They don’t take responsibility for their actions or behavior.

They never apologize even if they are in the wrong!

Often toxic parents have problems with addiction or suffer from a mental illness.

If our childhood was traumatic, we carry mental and sometimes physical scars into adulthood.

Sometimes people with toxic parents think how they behave and act towards them is normal.

They don’t realize their parents are actually toxic because they don’t know any different.

Here are 10 signs you have toxic parents.

1. They are disrespectful
2. They are controlling
3. They are critical
4. They are manipulative
5. They always blame others
6. They say nasty things to you
7. They have no boundaries
8. They are competitive
9. They are embarrassing
10. They are self-centered

Do you recognize these signs in your parents?

Do you think you may have toxic parents?

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[AuthenticMentalHealth]

Are there any videos similar to this you would like to see us make?

[unleashingpotential-psycho]

Parents are a big cause of many people having depression

[kamilastelmach]

Yes I know i have toxic mum but she had very hard childhood so I not blaiming her for that, I try to talk with her and make her realise that. We talk a lot and I know she's trying to change but it doesn't always goes so well. I tried to go with her for a therapy but she doesn't want to... I think that I just have to live with that but I know I don't want to be a mother like her.

[howtomedicate]

A good start is very important for your happiness during the rest of your life! A good, strong bond with your parents will help you becomming a balanced and succesfull adult. However the opposite is also true. Toxic parents can break you, before your life even started!

[curtistinemiller]

Toxic parents Are COWARDS They never face what they have

[Darkstalker]

I'd grewed up in a unbalanced family household. My legitimate father was a drug addict and never was around during our childhood. He'd tried to beat my mother while she was pregnant with me. My older brother try to fight him back. My mother was a hard working woman. That tried to take care of two kids on her own..always worked, things went down hill (in later years). She start suffering from schizophrenia and diagnosed with diabetes. My older brother also suffers from schizophrenia due from being shot 5 years ago by a so called friend.

[katriciaann]

I need help. I'm 12 and my mom yells at me for everything. She comes home from work and most of the time she dose not say hi to me or anything. Most of the time she dose not say goodnight to me either. And it's like everything is always my fault. I honestly feel like she's joules of me...I just need answer please

[kcconsigo]

all of these signs show what my parent is

[Jen-trbr]

30 seconds in and I could already relate.. I have SO much to say about this. First off, whenever they make a mistake they NEVER apologize and just deny it or lie, no matter what. Secondly, when I told my mom I DID NOT want to tell her my addiction because it was soo embarrassing, she DID NOT listen. My mom called my therapist and asked, they told her WITHOUT my permission. A few days ago she caught me doing my addiction and now im grounded and she's pissed. No wifi for three weeks now (except laptop for school work). Next, my parents call me names, talk badly about me, and are sometimes rude. I told them how I didn't like that and they said we don't have to show you respect because we are the parents, you are the kid. So basically I gotta show them respect and everything (which I understand ofc) but then they get to be rude and disrespectful to me. Also, I try my best in school but im honestly not even good. My grades are 50-60s and 50 is just passing. My parents always compare me to my brother and talk about how he always got awards and good grades from Kindergarten to College. They say if my brother can do it, so can I. Lastly, they always call me stupid, weird, fat, etc and deny it later. There is probably way more that I'm forgetting, but I could REALLY relate to this video.

[sultanalhosani]

I really want the name of the music that’s played in the background, gets me sinked into a whole world with my thoughts

[tarleebunzek]

"Take that off your head! your 22 years old. you should be this. You should be that." Yet i'm not allowed to make decisions for myself . Toxic and manipulative parents are what I have

[rosarioVampireable]

I got all these signs accept for checking my phone or emails stuff..how sad 😔

[gizemaslan]

It's so sad that so many people have toxic parents. I also have unfortunately

[cesarcorreia]

Great video. This should be part of school programs to raise awareness and involving parents and children. It would change parenting among communities and put a stop to another generation victims of unconscious toxic families.

[ingvildkvakestad]

Well I recognize some of these but it is just my fault you know like they say it is for my best and they care so they just cant deal with me being mentally ill or having feeling

[semanabdishakur]

My mom likes to mask her selfishness for the “familes needs”. Like demanding money from us because she was careless with her spending and blaming us for the condition of the house even though we were working the whole day and insult my body when she doesn’t want be to be confident in a set of clothing. Thankfully I got a great father and great confidence so I’m not as effected

[setn]

I came here to debunk my mom but then I realised it was just my Teenage Angst getting angry at my parents

[queenlasarah]

my mom is very toxic i hate her so much

[Ciinypie]

My mom feels the need to tell me “oh it’s because your educated” whenever I don’t want to do a job that would benefit her. Or “you should where makeup so you look pretty” and when I do where makeup it’s “oh you look like (insert some famous persons name here) SO you look pretty”. I sent her a very long message pretty much saying that she needs to respect my decisions and not treat me like a child and not put words in my mouth otherwise she wouldn’t be a part of my family. Haven’t talked with her in over 7months .. now I’m pregnant and not sure if I should tell her about it. I don’t want to be a toxic mother to my daughter if I have one.

[gacha_girl]

I have a few questions.

1. What's Respect?
2. What are boundaries?