Jordan Peterson - Why it is IMPORTANT to LEAVE your PARENT'S HOUSE

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Our parents support and care are vital to our development as full human beings. They are our first teachers so it is natural that we have a special bond and respect for them. But Dr. Peterson tells us that there will come a time that the questions that we have cannot be answered by our own parents. And when that time comes, Dr. Peterson says that that is the signal that we should start thinking of leaving and finding the answers to our questions ourselves.

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[lesegomisay]

I never realised how staying with my parents for long had actually f'd up my confidence and mental state. They basically have an opinion in anything and everything I do, to be fair it's their home. But its killing me internally

[julieshrout]

Some parents are toxic. The demand respect, yet don't give it themselves. You are only there to serve their purpo. Not your own

[wesjames]

I cannot stress enough how much the "be the reliable one at your fathers funeral" thought has resonated with me. Thank you.

[theoutlander]

Everything he said about the master-slave relationship with your father and staying home too long you begin to feel like stale bread perfectly describes my life and my anxiety, never realized it until now.

[beksan]

My parents never forced me into stuff and let me choose my big life decisions when I started turning into an adult and I feel blessed.

[Linh-rvdg]

Not just son and father but also apply to daughter and mother. My mother was tyranny which drove me to depression as a teenager. Luckily I had a chance to leave and grow independently

[aes_]

I moved out at 17 due to my family situation, and it was such a good decision, I had a job paying $7 an hour but was forced to make it work. By the age of 21 I had $100k saved, travel around the world a few times, moved to different state, and learned amazing life lessons. Moving away is such a liberating experience!

[FelixSkura]

Moved out at 22. Best decision of my life.

[tvb]

Move out at 20. Live with roommates and pay my own bills for whole 2 years.
It didn't work out but I think I've seen enough. The experience I gain from doing it helps me understand how society works.
You can come back with your parents again but I'm sure you'll be different than before.

Tip 1.
Move out and see it yourself. Then comeback one you've seen it all.

Tip 2.
Get a degree or study something that will help earn more money. Then move out from your parents completely.

[filippavlakovic]

Everytime I mention leaving home, every family member starts a mad fight with me portraying me as the bad guy

[rorysalazar]

I moved out when I was 20 years old. Just turned 21. I can honestly say that if you struggle in the real world is because either your social skills aren't quite good yet for you to survive or you probably don't know what you want out of life. What people don't realize is how short life actually is, it's pretty short. Life works in strange ways, everyone was raised differently and have different beliefs. I think the most important is being able to function like an individual . Living with your parents house is no different then living with a roommate or friend. living with parents in my opinion is actually worse because you won't have the same dating experience or privacy. The problem is really that you guys don't have the time that you think you have, we're actually older way longer than we're young. Your brain is usually at it's peak from the ages of 18-21 and usually stops receiving information by the age of 23. If you live on your own for sometime you'll start to notice how people that lived with their parents for too long usually show childlike attitude and naivety which can be really dangerous in the real world. People don't play games out here, if they see you're lost you'll become prey in seconds. Something that most people don't think about is what if your parents die next week? What would you do ? the ability to adapt is one of the most remarkable humans ability and that's what people mean by " reaching your full potential" you can only become your best self when your body and mind learn how to fully adapt to different scenarios in life, and that's what make you feel alive. I left my house with almost no money and was able to ( attend a acting school in LA, Read 2 books, meet amazing people from all over the world, eat really good food like korean food omg its so good, surf, almost found the love of my life lol) now i'm on my way to Virginia Beach where one of my friends invited me to be part of the company he's working for where they'll be paying for my hotel, transportation and i'll be able to enjoy the summer with my friends while making some money) get out there LIFE IS FUN!

[greitasopelis]

This actually happened to me. I moved out. Fucked up. Moved back in. Got worse than ever. Moving out again

[thechancellor-]

To the *incredible person* that's seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. You are precious and the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Stay Positive.

[SunRise-ulko]

I left home at 46. Should have done it at 26. At that age, I had save enough to buy half an appartment.

[afrozak]

This video made for men but it resonates with me. I'm women. A hard-working, indipendent individual and my father don't like that. He is toxic and abusive. I'm thinking of moving out so that when I come back i come back strong enough that I can save my mother and sister, I can be someone to rely on.

[artyomslife]

I’m really freaking fucking terrifying when I see subtitles with censured word “death”. Like how we become here and where we going with such a level of censure.

[jemmajames]

I’m very opinionated and so are my adult sons. They still live at home and can stay as long as they like, it will make me very happy to see them living independently on their own terms when they decide to leave. The best thing is to see your kids out in the world and thriving.

[Manchadelo]

Ive never got along so well with my father until I left their house.

[TaraLonergan]

I moved out at 21 with my boyfriend then we broke up and I moved into my own apartment at 23. I've never been too attached to my parents, but I'm even more de-attached to them since living my life separate from them.

I have a sibling who still lives at my parents house, and how Jordan describes how when someone "artificially maintain a false dependency" does to a family is so bloody true.

Move out. Be useful. Take on a load

[BradReid]

Sometimes life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.