10 Signs You’ve Found the Person You’re Supposed to Grow Old With

1. You are relaxed around this person.
You won’t need to pretend you are someone you not just to be more likeable and just to impress them. Instead, you won’t hide your imperfections, because you know you can show your true personality in front of them.

2. This person calms you.
Yes, emotional rollercoaster is fun, but that is not the basis for a healthy, life-long commitment. Once you meet a person who simply knows how to handle all of your difficulties and knows how to deal with your temper, know that this is a person to grow old with.

3. You two have meaningful conversations.
This is the person you won’t be ashamed to talk about anything and a person you trust enough to share all of your dreams and fears. If you and your partner are honest to each other and have good communication, every problem will seem resolvable.

4. You are a priority to this person.
If you are planning a life with someone, you want to feel important to his person. If you are with someone who puts you first, no matter what, this someone is a person you need to grow old.

5. You have each other’s back.
Life is tough on its own, and it is crucial to have someone to share your problems and difficulties with. When you find a person who considers your problems to be his or hers issues as well, you should try to grow old with them.

6. Your fights are productive.
What matters is the frequency and the quality of those arguments. Of course, you should ask yourself if you and your partner are right for each other if you fight over every little thing. But, if you manage to grow a conclusion out of these arguments, it means that you have a healthy relationship with a bright future.

7. You two share a mutual respect.
Love is one of the most important foundations of each romantic relationship. But respect is equally, if not even more, important. If you happen to find a person who does not only loves you, but also treats you with a great deal of respect, this is the person you should grow old with.

8. You enjoy spending time together.
It’s possible to enjoy spending time with many people, and it’s natural that you like to be in the company of your partner—so, this alone doesn’t have to be the indicator that the two of you should grow old together. But it is crucial for every long-lasting relationship.

9. You are not just lovers—you are also friends.
So, if you and your partners are not just lovers, but also best friends, it is a good indicator that the two of you should grow old together. You feel like you can tell anything to this person, you trust them unconditionally and you cherish every piece of advice you’ve ever gotten from them.

10. You are compatible.
One of the most important things when it comes to life-long relationships is compatibility. You two may share strong love and passion, but if you don’t share the same, or at least, similar worldviews, you will have a hard time making this relationship work.

Are you in a relationship now? Do you consider your significant other to be the one for you? How do you know that? Let us know in the comment section below...

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0:00 Intro
0:32 You are relaxed around this person.
1:01 This person calms you.
1:34 You two have meaningful conversations.
2:09 You are a priority to this person.
2:41 You have each other’s back.
3:15 Your fights are productive.
4:02 You two share a mutual respect.
4:32 You enjoy spending time together.
5:06 You are not just lovers—you are also friends.
5:41 You are compatible.