How Does A Narcissist Act When They Are Sick? #narcissist

[karenirvine]

I was with my ex for 41 years. He became disabled 16 years ago. He had a stroke during outpatient surgery and almost died. I helped him get rehabilitated. I taught him how to eat, get dressed and drive again. Last year he told me he didn't need me anymore and filed for divorce. I blocked him on my cell phone and he has been trying to call me. The narcissist does all the abuse and future faking and then wants to get back with you. I will never trust him again.

[gorunsko]

The gratitude for saving narc from bleeding to death ( after colonoscopy) was short lived. Thank you so much for your spot on videos❤

[karaleemanning]

He got hit by a car whilehe was riding his motorcycle, soo many injuries .
He went AMA had a church member drive him home, had neighbor and church member get him to his bed and took my care for granted those many months because I am a nurse. So I worked at work, then when I went home I worked harder.When I told him to tell our dentist that I helped him get back on his feet, he laughed like a hyena and said I was worthless.
Continued to treat me bad and it got worse til I put a few things in my truck. And left. I'm living in an old cabin in the mountains of Tennessee and feeling so free and happy!

[lydia]

It was all of the above. But in the end, I felt like a tissue...you know...throw it away after use. I'm glad it's over. 😊

[doranvee]

He became docile and kind. I finally felt appreciated.

[sabasiddiqui]

I am a blood cancer patient. My entire childhood I saw my mother being verbally and financially abused by my father but she didn't try to get out. She kept giving him chances. We faced severe financial difficulties. Even after my cancer diagnosis my dad refuses to work to contribute. My mom is my caregiver, she has been with me since the start. I appreciate all that she does but I also blame her for our condition. Only if she had the courage to separate from my father I would've not gone through the stress and mental agony and went through all these years and develop cancer. I know I didn't exactly get cancer because of it, but it was definitely a contributing factor. And now by being my caregiver is affecting her health as well so when she doesn't do something on time or properly I shout at her and am rude to her. But I regret it and apologize. I am trying to change me behaviour and control my anger. But I can't let go of the fact that only if she had taken better decisions our life would've been different. Am I a narcissist? 😰

[gabymontanari]

When he was ill he didn't want me to ask him if he was okay he did me a big favour so I stopped asking

[saadhussein]

I have experience both ways when my dad got sick he was good not nice when recovered he acted I never did any thing good.

[bluemoon]

… my narcissist becomes so helpless and needy when barely sick … the few times I’ve been sick he wouldn’t even bother to check on me or bring me a cup of soup, but rather would insist that I get out of bed and make him something to eat …

[nicoloclemente]

I experienced the narcissist being always SO angry and more abusive than ever!! He is so afraid of dying cause he never lived his life, a narc's life is only about misery, fakeness, evil and chaos. So now he is trying to make me die before him cause he can not accept that i can live (and be finally happy and free without him) and he dies. They are monsters, everything about them is so fake. I am living THE nightmare.

[ElizabethNicholls-gcor]

Never was there when my father, mother and I were seriously ill over a long period of time; now, my brother is sick, for the first time in his long life, he shares every detail, demands attention and empathy. Hard pill for me to swallow

[tututuuuu]

husband, mother, etc i cried for them when they were sick after that true colours this cycle i went for years..in recent past years my mud brain recognized it

[aditiishere]

Gosh you are spot on. . my mom is acting bitter sweet ....and I am seeing this video right now, what a coincidence!

[Jennifer-tgip]

I am so sick and tired of these inhumane creatures all they do is blame everything on me.

[marcuseason]

Ok, just wanted to share this, I recently was in MN. for the N.Y.Jets game & returned home w/COVID-19. I knew I had it and it was confirmed by the test results on Tuesday evening. For which caused my wife to scoff at and downplay the severity of the issue. The following evening she tested positive and now waiting on her day and night until she recovers👀🤔👍🤨

[asherael]

I'd set the boundary with my mother, that for every time she mentioned my weight or physical fitness, I would never speak to her ever again. When diagnosed with breast cancer she used the opportunity to disregard that boundary by making her illness and subsequent concern into an extenuating circumstance.

[GS-stns]

I experienced hearing that Humanity had dealt him a horrible blow when his sciatica returned. I heard that he patronized a hospital and came out with injuries. Everything is somebody else's fault. Praise the Lord he doesn't live near me

[beautypablotamarini]

If you offer and give money, shift of situation🎉

[steadypace]

Yes the selfish narcissist turns a blind eye and deaf ear to your suffering and pain but they expect you to act like Florence Nightingale to them when they have a little sniffle.

[HonestyIsAVirtue]

I hated it whenever he was sick. If he had a little sniffle cold, he would moan, and groan as if he was dying. Even our young children called him a little cry baby. His whining was very childish. Thank You God for removing the narc from my life.